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@Eomer. I simply say that because this is a women who wants a husband and consistently involves herself in your life. Assuming your story is accurate it seems like she just hangs on to a thread of hope. Unlike TC I actually see it as you stringing *her* along; it really sounds like she hopes you...

I dunno Eomer, I"ve been following your story for what...years now? and sometimes I think you"re gonna end up with Xerxes and you just haven"t realized it yet =0

There"s a difference between being dependent and being interdependent. Yeah, if you"re almost 30 and are still DEPENDENT on your parents for survival then you"re unarguably a loser, but most of the time you have a job, have started or have a career, and use living at home to save money; it"s the...

Not everyone is a nuclear style family, don"t assume they are. What ridiculous standards we have.

I cracked up at this one.

Not that I don"t appreciate the advice, but I"ve already met her twice, so it isn"t terribly helpful! She"ll just send me a text or leave a voicemail and I"ll respond if I"m available(I don"t use cellphones anymore so it"s all google voice if I"m around my PC) and then she takes hours to get...

So after getting messaged by her on OKC, I"ve seen this girl a couple times now, went really well. She"s a pretty solid 7, same age, similar education, she"s got a nice career as a CFP for an investment bank; she actually lives just down the road 2 miles so we share a lot of common history...

I lol"d. Though a kind of serious question/concern. Let"s be realistic, I"m not like you guys at all... I"m serially monogamous. I can"t just slay thousands of bitches and be satisfied with that; if I was I"d have been doing it this whole time. In my mind(and probably true, but it"s hard to...

So I decided after many years to try dating again, I put up my profile, followed a lot of advice here and elsewhere about content and tone. No problems there, I"ve had nearly 30 women message me within a week(I assume they sort by income and education and I"m towards the top...we all know...

There"s also the flawed assumption that a committed relationship must lead to marriage. Like it"s some sort of endgame.

Goes triple for women, military women are as crazy as they get generally(/stereotype off). And they know how to kill on top of it!

Reality check #1. You are not protected at all, you are entirely at the mercy of a judge at the end of the day in any divorce. Generally speaking you"re probably going to be ok, but PREPARE, until proceedings are finalized, you could literally get fucked over at any moment. You need to have a...

Which was the intended meaning. No idea what Eomer thought I could have meant. Actually now I"m confused, the original "usage" was the li"wayne song about how he"d choose money over bitches("Money over bitches I"m yellin it to the grave"), "fuck bitches" meaning "Fuck em(I don"t need em)" not...

What do YOU think it means? Cause I"m pretty sure I got it right...

If anything this thread helps me stay on track with my "vow of celibacy"(with only one moment of weakness recently that sorely reminded me of why). I consider that a positive thing as a note, so thanks for that! I"m practicing the true spirit of "Fuck bitches, Get money"

You"re being quite dense, and obviously don"t have a clue. The number of "deadbeat dads"(defined by children who have no contact with their father and do not receive support) is at an all-time low. 24% (V.K. Penn State) of children are "fatherless". Of the fathers of those 24%, 77% received...

It was never true of the majority or even the (large)minority, you have a shitty father and are just projecting that onto the rest of society. The reality is that whatever parent has custody of the child typically ends up poisoning the child"s mind against the other parent. That"s the...

That attitude is why this stuff happens. It"s entirely misinformed and goes back to the stereotyping of men as good-for-nothings who "victimize" the "weaker" sex.

As a male rights activist I deal with this shit on a regular basis, the percentage of men awarded custody who are *more qualified* than the women is 8.7%(~ varies obviously). It has nothing to do with knowing the laws, or even having a good lawyer. The entire family court system is HIGHLY...

^ I still take under-grad classes a lot since they count for elective grad credits at my school, and I would say intimidated is the right word for how most younger students react to you. I know we like to be self-conscious and assume that they just assume we"re losers or something, but...

And the circle is complete.

The vast majority of marriage benefits can be duplicated with a non-marriage contract if that"s really a concern. The only one that can"t be in the health insurance one, and only because that"s not(always) a law, just private business practices. In which case you can find insurance companies...

I really do think that"s just you. For the last fifty~ years marriage rates have been falling, which according to surveys based off the census data, has been mainly motivated by men refusing to marry. A growing percentage never marry, and those who do marry marry *significantly* later with...

Didn"t say it didn"t, but most psychopaths get along in society just fine. Meaning he"s got that extra special something on top, he can"t even get being mentally handicapped right.

Hah, I kinda resent people constantly pointing out that he"s a sociopath/psychopath >.> As one myself, some of us do use our powers for good, infact the majority just live "normal" lives as either loners or prominent members of society(depending on how they view their "not-really human"...

I"m gonna have to go against the grain and say this is shit tier level drama, not epic. Baby drama is already the lowest form of drama, But most of what we know is from him "outting" himself with the occasional batshit insane person in his life coming in to reinforce it. I think proper...

You talk like I don"t read this thread *runs away crying* I thought you were the one!

Me, obviously.

I am being constructive, the way Eomer portrays the way they treat him really gives me the strong impression that they"re creeped out by him(sooner or later). If describing the situation seems like an insult, what does that tell you?

As I"ve pointed out in the past, the fact that that is not enough is really a strong tell about Eomer in real life, not in a flattering sense, he"s relatively good-looking to boot. I"m not a handsome guy, but am well-off and well-known(where I live) and I get far MORE attention from woman...

Lying is a valuable skill.

Not to belittle your point, but people do this all the time, if you attend conventions of any kind, it"s common to share hotel rooms with total strangers to save money. Unrelated to the topic however!

I agree with the premise, love is actually the least legitimate reason to get married(marriage is a contract whose sole purpose is the division of assets, you can get religiously/spiritually married without being legally married). But not some of the points, girlfriend being covered varies by...

You"ve just discovered the biggest "Secret" to being wealthy in America, find stuff people are missing, and sell it to them. Keep up the good work. Totally serious as a note, that"s all I tell people(and all I need to), when they ask how I"m so successful well being so young. It"s one of those...

So I decided after two years to try dating again...and after having read this thread for so long I have to give you all props, I have no fucking idea how you guys deal with this shit. This is the result of my first "experience" on Okcupid. Spoiler Alert, click show to read: Just for...

Sorry, over here in reality, life isn"t filled with easy choices. Have fun in magic-land where love conquers all, or something. Edit: And I"ll stop shitting the thread here, I"ve beyond made my point, past this it"s just arguing. Double edit: In response to below, I just wanted to make...

Uh, hey, last I checked you needed neither permission or knowledge of the mother to do a paternity test once it"s born. Also see above edit.

Would you take a 1/5-1/10 chance for a choice that effects 20+ years of your life? I wouldn"t play Russian roulette just because I have a 5/6 chance of not being killed. Not a chance in hell we should be ashamed because most men are naive as fuck. We"re not talking about random hookups...

The problem is we"d all like to think that, and frankly women take advantage of that fact at a surprisingly high rate. Love be damned, it"s worth testing every time, wouldn"t be the first time we were wrong about something would it? Facts > *. Edit: I mean really...do you think all those...

Because we know that statistically 1/10 to 1/5 children in committed relationships are not the children of the father who thinks they are, despite "always being around" each other, "love", or any other reason. Not to rag on you, but that attitude is exactly why the odds are so high, cause...