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I cannot say much about your general situation, what you should do or how to get her back or so. Really, no idea. But two points: 1) Dabamf is prolly right. I mean.. you were the one she cheated with, so you basically made it "okay" to cheat. 2) I spent time with my girl 24/7 for 4 months...

This.

Okay, let me help you out. First, you have to see who she is. She is 21. Means young, her emotions run wild, she vulnerable and prolly still enjoys the attention men give her (thats what matters at least). Second, lets take a look at her "crime". She said she goes out with a female friend...

Either I don"t get your sarcasm or you have no fucking clue* about women. *no fucking clue = on a scale from 1 to 10 around -9000

Poor children, their parents make an orphanage sound like a great place to grow up. This.

You fucked up badly, you know that, right? 1) If she goes out every day of the week, do the same. If she goes out and you sit at home and wait or play computer games you are doing it wrong. Grab some friends, go out and invite her. Make sure to have fun and a great party, even if she doesnt...

What a failure, he should be removed from the gene pool and not father half a dozen children.

Pack her bags, put them outside your door, change the lock and block her number. Get a restraining order if she doesnt go away fast enough. If you want to be nice, add some cash and a ticket to somewhere. Personally I would not do it. Read dabamf"s posting, it is exactly what I was going...

Actually, the girl I wrote about within this thread is right now infront of me cooking breakfast. Every now and then she looks over my shoulder what I am reading/writing. She laughs about some of the stories here and nods when reading my replies. I once asked her why she is not offended by the...

I dont see the problem.

I am not sure what the problem is? She wears a short skirt.. OH MY GOD NO!! Dont act like a pussy. No harm done, she is 17 and looking abit slutty when going out is just fine. Of course you could try telling her to wear something less open (?) because she is going to meet your friends, just...

Dont ignore her. Just man up and dont take her abuse. Call her out, leave if it gets out of hand (best case: to another girl so she gets jealous) and dont play slave.

This part means that you are not that much into her anyway. As I am an ass I"d still enjoy the sex in your situation until I find a new girl. If you want to do the right thing you ... well, you fucked up already. Chances are that she will go through hell anyway for many months and most likely...

To take things slow has absolutely nothing to do with physical desires. Agree and do it in the relationship. But when she says it related to sex it usually means absolutely and totally nothing. Its more of a "I dont want to look easy" or "I dont want to look like a slut" followed by a silent...

Is that an ugly man or a very ugly girl on the picture with the kids?

Yea, those are the main reasons I like them. So anyway, I can add another story of my neverending FAILS to this thread. Yesterday (I still have a hangover, so excuse my grammar etc) I could have had a threesome with my girl and her friend and somehow managed to fuck it up. We basically were...

How does 30+ work for you anyway? Somehow I never had alot of interest in older women. Jailbait is what turns me on the most, sadly. Oldest girl I started something with was 23. Whats the big difference beside the less emotional votatile behaviour? Worth it?

I thought the same when reading it. When she makes changes to plans you dont like, then make your own changes that she doesnt like to show her that she cannot fuck with you like that. When you realize why this works you might feel bad about doing it, but in the end its not only in your, but...

Somebody told me you have a boyfriend that looks like a girlfriend... epic

omg... I started reading and cannot stop. At page 38 now and it keeps getting better: Drunkninja - I hate to do this but I may have to report your picture for being too damn sexy Yes its a corny line but I enjoy it. Asian - Yeah that was pretty corny Drunkninja - Haha, you no enjoy. I...

I don"t get her problem with your reaction. He fucking pushed your girl, he"s lucky that you just pushed back. I admire how calm you handled the situation. Beside that, as the other guys said: Dont put up with her shit. Tell her that there is no summer break, it is now or never again. If she...

I"ll pass, too easy. Plus the verbal rape dabamf gave you was more than enough before you even posted that flame bait. Grats man. Hope you are happy!

This. Sutekh: It is not only about sex, I suggest this attitude for all situations in live that do not include those you love (best friends, family, etc are clearly an exception). Always paying attention to the needs of others and always having regards towards others just gets you run over by...

No, thats what you interpret because it fits your thoughts. I said "became super easy", but never that it was impossible before. But I admit it was WORK for me and I somestimes had months without sex. Changing to a more me-focussed attitude was prolly my most important step to change that...

What? What I suggest is pretty much "the best thing to do for both sides". His POV: He gets sex instead of not having sex. It will also boost his confidence and behaviour making it easy to attract a better mate. Her POV: She gets sex with a guy she seems attached to. Also she gets the...

Go back to her, but make her feel like she needs to earn every step you take. Fuck her, try to take photos (of course) ... until something better comes around. Then dump her and move on. There is no reason not to have sex if you can.

I am truely sorry, no person should be compared to Apple products. I hope you can forgive my rude comment.

Then you are like the iPad. Sexy yet disgusting at the same time.

Fat people are disgusting and so are your postings.

Maybe you missed the important part, so let me highlight it: go to court

Oh dear. Hopefully you will not miss her too much. How did she take it? (And enjoy your cake!)

So basically your friend gets you an easy fuck because he is worried about you and you talk bad about him to the girl .. and dont even fuck her? I got this right? Sure he is pissed. He puts effort and time into getting YOU laid and you spit into his face and prolly ruined his reputation. His...

Wait until she sleeps or until she is totally horny, in both situations she will simply not care if you take pictures.

No retreat. No surrender. That is Spartan law. Talk her into sex and then get out, else it was a waste of time. Nothing to lose => at least try

This. It would be even better if you could communicate the message without actually talking about it in a logical way. She gives a fuck if what you said makes sense or not. She likes making out, but stops you if you try to move to the next level? Dont let her do that and accept her limits...

Texting sucks. Always talk to her if possible. And even then, aim for actually meeting her and not chatting on the phone. And yes, initiate. Just dont do it constantly.

I don"t think those are "emotional flaws". Thats pretty common behaviour. She is really into you, but wants commitment and is afraid of not getting it because of the distance. There are no emotional issues beside her being a women. I am prolly the worst person ever to give advise on...

I take it you have your priorities in life wrong.

Are those pictures the crazy 19 yo?

Eh.. she isnt 19 (thats one of Ham"s three choices), mine is 4 years older, somewhat mature and I hate long distance relationships. Tried it twice, both times I sucked at it. I am not yet sure how I want to handle this, but I dislike the idea of not giving it a try somehow. As I said, I didnt...