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Oftentimes, yes. Excuse? "I guess she isn"t into me" isn"t really an attractive excuse. It"s just a way of explaining how a girl can really like you and think of you as a great friend and think of you as a very eligible bachelor and think you"re an attractive man but when she"s single doesn"t...

This is more than a little astonishing. Not only is the "friend zone" a very common phrase that describes a very specific thing (not "friends" but "just friends") but it"s also quite commonly used as a verb: "friend-zoned." Being "friend-zoned" is being put in that "just friends" category, or...

Nah, Lithose. I"m not saying friends don"t turn into lovers. I"m saying the "ladder theory" or whatever it"s called, is pretty true. You have friends who are potential love/sex interests, and then just friends who, despite maybe having everything going for them, you just don"t see that way (if...

The Cutlery is correct. You know how women have female friends they will say are hot/what-have-you? Well you might just think they don"t want to fuck them because they"re straight. Not so. Bisexual girls are the same way. They can think a female friend is really hot but never even consider...

No, prior to this. If she"s in the wrong for something in the last few days, as far as I can tell it"s not writing him off. But when they had their weird "oh you have a boyfriend" conversation, he didn"t say he "couldn"t" he said he had a problem with it. Which, honestly, he"s got to learn to...

So, if she"s not interested in the guy sexually/relationship-wise, what would have been her proper course of action? Say "Well if you have a problem with being attracted to me and being my friend, then we can"t be friends"?

Did it work out??

Well this seems to be handling itself... I got back to my original statement, "it depends on what you want." You can"t have wanted a serious relationship with this girl or you wouldn"t be tossing your friendship with her out the window because you made a misjudgment about if/when/how to ask...

You would think. This is why I have difficulties making overtly romantic overtures to anyone I"m seriously interested in -- I value the friendship of someone I"d want a real relationship with, and there"s a huge risk of awkwardness in a miscalculation. But not everyone works that way. They have...

Depends on what you want.

I knew I couldn"t be the only person who thought that!

Hard some times. Lithose is right: most of us are offering advice based on our own past mistakes. Best advice going forward is A) stay strong and B) don"t let your experience in this relationship make you paranoid in the next.

Just try and remember it"s not about you. Relationships from that age almost never work out. People change, people get the feeling they"re "missing something," and before even that, people choose to make relationships serious that never had the elements to be. She chose a very immature way to...

This. And spending time with this dude is obviously more important to her than your relationship.

Yeah, let her go. I"m OK with guy friends, partly because I like the kind of women who have more guy friends than girlfriends, but that shit is a bit much for me, and if I made clear I was not comfortable with it and it went forward anyway, that would be the beginning of the end if not the end...

*clever

Wait, she"s asking for lingerie that you bought her, while she"s with a new guy? Awwwwwwwkwaaaaaaaaard

Good to know we"re spreading wisdom to the hot womens of Orange County. Is "the Hitler trim" refer to a specific shape? If so that is hands-down my favorite.

Yeah, sex without orgasm really doesn"t seem to be the problem. Has anyone had real, painful blue balls from sex without orgasm? Or is it always being turned on with no sex.

Hahahaha Is there a term for this?

Never had that problem with actual sex, and have had plenty of coitus interruptus. It"s always the heavy petting / dirty talk. Actually gotten a mild case from sexually charged chatting/texting more than once. Nah my experience that is just your PC (not actually PC, can"t remember what the right...

You know just the other day I was sitting around with my friends at work, and I was like "So I got this erection..." and they were like "You ejaculated, right?" but I was like "No...was I supposed to?" and then they put a burlap sack over my penis and beat it until I ejaculated. So now it"s...

Who wrote that? I once got that shit so bad it fucking hurt to sit down at work, like THE ENTIRE DAY. I mean yes, if she doesn"t want sex she doesn"t want sex but we aren"t making this shit up. And...raise your hand if you got "socialized" into ejaculating when you get an erection. What...

Guys with low sex drive and/or guys who want to be sensie buddy-fucking dickheads. Ex girlfriend told me her ex-boyfriend said it was a myth. We were out at a bar with a couple of other dudes and all three of us were like "NAH." Surprise? Guy not very much into sex. Had one girl giving me...

Texting, to me, is for when one or both of you is too busy for an engaged conversation. Chatting is the version of that you do when you"re near PCs. Hearing a person"s voice is meaningful. [Edit] Being engaged in the conversation really is important. You never know when you"re going to be...

Reminds me: I dated a girl who would write things on her hands throughout the day. One hand was just general notes. The other hand was the hate list. People who pissed her off went on the left hand. So in afternoons/evenings when I got to talk to her, I"d ask her about her left hand. If nothing...

Women just need to realize that men are like dogs: we"re most happy when we"re being useful. Presenting us with problems we"re not allowed to solve in any way is doing the opposite of that. Best bet as a man is to show sympathy and only then apply either fixes or just talk her through it...

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What a piece of shit. I will never understand men who behave this way -- any of it. Maybe if you grew to hate your wife (re the vehicle and money, not the violence), but when there are kids involved... Vatoreous is correct on calling the 1SG but obviously her safety is a concern here.

90% of military women are sluts or crazy or both. Good score if you find that 1/10. Sorry. Really that"s not specific to the women.

I think accountability may be the word that describes the #1 trait I"m looking for in a mate after these many years of relationship experience. Exactly as Ravvenn said: hormones are real, and they have real effects, but using them as an excuse to fucking wild-out and not be accountable for it...

Don"t mind him. He has been proven by science to be a class-A fucktard.

You don"t love her.

No woman worth having has her own money and won"t help pay for entertainment. I don"t know, maybe you prefer submissive broads with great gams.

Some people like this very specifically. Me, I do too, but I"m far more likely to meet someone I"d be interested in at a bookshop than a club or bar.

Dog. Sometimes bitches be crazy.

Waiting for the FoHguild.org proposal. "Striana007, will you take my hand in marriage? O" (that last part is the ring) Also: grats/I"m sorry.

Haha I will never understand that.

You misunderstand me, at least mostly. I have no problem making interesting conversation. My last girlfriend described me as "charming and outgoing" which might have been a bit of flattery but certainly is closer to the mark than "someone who has trouble talking to girls." Fact is, if they"re...