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It"s not bad if a girl knows you want to fuck her.

And she doesn"t want you to think she"s a slut, and just as importantly, she doesn"t want to feel like one. You just have to reverse things on them. Physically escalate and then abruptly stop and say that you feel awkward or not comfortable or that you should be taking things slower..... then...

I had a chick pull something similar 3 weeks ago. Blue balled me after we were already in bed together mostly naked and cuddling. I got pissed, got dressed, and left. We were fucking within an hour. That"s called compromise. Compromise is not, give chick exactly what she wants (emotional...

C"mon now, don"t be jealous, not all girls can be like you with a big nose and b-cups.

Errr, wut? I"m not trying to white knight here.... but you call that a fatty? I know we all date supermodels on the internet, but c"mon.

I found the perfect girl for aamina sexy__new_new_Jessica89 Workin,Driving,Smokin,Drinkin,listening to mu

The secret to holding a great conversation about anything with anyone: Be genuinely interested in what the other person says. Don"t ask questions you don"t care what the answer is.

When OKcupid dries up, I usually switch over to PlentyofFish... I think you"d have much more luck there than craigslist... The couple of times I tried craiglist the ratio of spam:guys offering to suck my dick:women was about 20:5:0 Any yea, even then, sometimes you just don"t get lucky, for...

"a break" WAS not code, it IS code for I want to sleep with another man and see if I like him more than you. Without making her feel like a slut for cheating on you outright (even if she has already abandoned the relationship emotionally and has probably already been flirting with other guys...

100% agreed. And yea, the refusing the gift is guilt. She is at least a decent person enough not to use you even if she doesn"t have feelings for you.

How about 1 dick the size of 37 normal ones.

Heh, I made my pof profile back before I got out of the Airforce, circa 2005. Been on okcupid pretty much since it launched. I have never actually had a date that didn"t start out online initially. I"ve only earned what I currently make since January, not even 2 years ago I had never once...

A 7 from a girl (which to them, they interpret as better looking than average) translates into an 80-85 on the "actual attractiveness" scale. (ie: line 100 people up, there are 84 worse looking people than you and 14 better). Listen, I know it doesn"t make sense, I never said that women were...

The #1, by far, most important thing in an online profile: Be attractive. The most attractive guys receive 10x as many messages as the least attractive guys. Additionally, women have a skewed perception of reality and rate 80% of men as "worse looking than average" So it"s not even...

Had a giant wtf conversation on OKCupid recently. Basic premise - average looking girl (a 7) with a very short profile with not much info, hard to send a first message on, but pretty much the most stereotypical profile imaginable, and then writes at the end "message me if you aren"t an...

Give the other dude a hoodie to wear and then shoot him with no witnesses, claim self defense.

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You don"t have to avoid it or bring it up early, but the goal, ultimately, is to get her to be qualifying herself to you, that "despite" this "flaw", you should still be interested... Get to know her first, and bring it up such as "you seem like such a cool and interesting person, why...

It was the one she had answered about 10 minutes before I messaged her, hence it was on my home page.

Nope just thought someone here might find humor from me crashing and burning while messaging girls on okcupid. I mean, I thought she was cute, which is why I messaged in the first place, but after the first response I realized the conversation was going no where and I wanted to see how deep the...

not helping

Help me armchair psychologists of FoH, WTF is wrong with me. Spoiler Alert, click show to read: Me: Don"t get headaches, but pretty much "constantly" horny if I go more than 3 days. The only time I"ve ever gone past that was when I was in basic training, and then I went almost 6 weeks. Too...

but... but.... clearly she must have deep seated emotional issues stemming from childhood sexual trauma.... it couldn"t simply be that simple.

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This. Exactly. If she doesn"t contact you, that means she wasn"t down for it.

80% of the problems in this thread are directly attributable to guys who care too much about what other people think of them.

This is what all women want. It"s what she actually wanted you to do in the first place, before you even asked her opinion.

FTFY

Plus, since when I logged in tonight, I had like 12 new visitors to my profile, and all of them guys, it is only a matter of time before the OKcupid robot decides I must be gay and decides to stop sending ladies to my profile all-together.

No. But, someone told me to nuke my previous entry... So I did. Just to be sure, it was the only way.

Yes

Fact: independent studies have shown, over and over again, that 80-85% of women are wearing the wrong bra size. My guess, since you"re pretty tall, and from looking at your photos, that you"re more likely to be a 36c or even a 38b than a 34d. In the picture where you"re slouching with the...

thx, good advice. But I didn"t say "I don"t have a flashy car" My exact quote is "I drive a Mitsubishi, not a Mercedes"

Most don"t, but I work at one of the busiest facilities. I make more than my dad who has 25 more years of seniority.

And if anyone is curious, the numbers I got fromAffluence in the United States - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Which puts the 95th percentile at 166.2k As far as the profile, they say that most people lie about how much they make, I just decided to go in the opposite direction of most...

Confirmed. OkCupid | AdamHenry / 29 / M / Lorain, Ohio

I make as much or more money "alone" than 95% of all "households", and I can safely say that money has never gotten me laid. That said, I drive a Mitsubishi, not a Mercedes, and I don"t wear jewelry or expensive clothes, so it"s not like I advertise my status. That said, I"ve never paid for a...

Heh, game of thrones book in the picture is a close second to writing fohss on the girl.

Thanks for the suggestion.

Yes, don"t start the date by going to dinner. Every single time I"ve initially taken the girl to a restaurant "first" it"s never once worked for me. If I started the date at the beach, escalated, held hands, swam, kissed... then after, asked her if she was hungry and wanted to get something to...