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Her and Cam, or Her and the guy she is fucking on the side?

You already know what you"re doing wrong.... now you just have to fix it. If a woman is on a dating sate, she"s not looking for a friend, even if her profile says "looking for friends". Stop trying to be their friend, start trying to be their boyfriend. Remember, many women join dating sites for...

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Internet Gold... I"d give you positive nets if I hadn"t already given you negative nets.

I"d forgotten about Peter Coffin, thanks for reminding me of that story so I could lol once again.

Wait just a minute, you mean not everything on the internet that I read is true?

It wouldn"t be the first time that a girl has canceled a date on me at the last minute (basically when she texted me that she wasn"t going to come, she would have had to be out the door of her house within 10 minutes). And I didn"t know what to think, hence the asking for advice. There are LOTS...

Thanks for the advice fohss, I agreed with dabamf, but followed Dis"s advice. Didn"t try to push the "were you really sick" because when I asked her if she was feeling any better she said she was still pretty sick, so it"s possible she was simply telling the truth and not just trying to get out...

Yea, I"ve had girls pull out a phone to show me a picture or something before... Never once had a girl actually talk to someone or text someone while on a date, if it was on a first date, I think I"d just pay the bill and walk out on her right then and there. Ok, so I"ve been dating this...

Sorry, nothing at all to do with culture, I"m definitely no "pick-up artist", but I"ve certainly improved a lot in the past 3 years since I first started making the effort, to the point where last month I was feeling depressed because I hadn"t been on a date in like 3 weeks. To use the...

My problem is that I"m not getting any interest from cute chubby chicks or even semi-ugly skinny ones. I"m not looking for a fucking 10 or even a 9. I do "compromise", that"s what put me in my current depression... any girl that weighs more than say 250lbs isn"t going to qualify as a "cute...

Seriously depressed tonight. Fuck me, I suck at dating. I can"t attract women to fucking save my life. The only women that are ever interested in me are fucking obese or ugly (ie less than a 5). Even counting that it"s been over a month since I last had sex. (Last girl was obese, 26 unemployed...

"No" has BY FAR gotten me the best possible reactions when a girl is fishing for attention like that. Because it both A) gives them the attention they crave, you aren"t actually ignoring them. B) makes you come off as both funny/humorous and higher value than her. If you ignore her... she...

Yes, that"s why it"s a numbers game. Lots of girls do "online dating" just for the ego boost of having guys message them constantly. So within a couple replies you have to try to weed out the ones that are only interested in online back-and-forth and go for the real life meetup (or at the...

That being said.... The overall consensus advice on this forum has definitely worked out well for me. Just wanted to say Thanks FoHSS for leading my life in positive directions. The Advice you gave after Girl #1 worked perfectly. Anyways, I"d much more strongly recommend...

I"m 28 now, any decent girl my age is going to have been with other guys at this point.... It"s something I have come to accept. But yea, online dating has definitely "worked" for me. Sharmai"s advice was pretty much on point, although I think I get WAY more replies than most guys on dating...

Yea, I"d link my first posts in this thread, but I"d rather not relive the humiliation. Although it is kind of funny in retrospect to see the progression of my "life" over that amount of time. Anyways, even us "pasty basement dwellers" sometimes forget about the thing called standards. Thank...

That photo looks shopped. I can tell, because of the pixels, and having seen a few shops in my day.

\ Your wife is an international spy!

My bet is that she doesn"t necessarily have a steady boyfriend, but has had various other guy fuckbuddies that she likes more than you, but uses you for emotional support and/or as a fall back plan in case the dude that she REALLY likes has (shock!) been lying to her about wanting leaving his...

Looking for some advice on my okcupid profile... had some decent luck with it so far (more so than what I ever had in the past), and any advice to improve it would be appreciated. OkCupid: AdamHenry / 27 / M / Lorain, Ohio

I work 4 evenings (3-11, 1-9) and 1 day shift (7am-3pm) and I have Tuesdays and Wednesdays off work. Obviously I"ve experienced schedules not syncing up well before. The problem is, if you BARELY have time for a relationship and the other person BARELY has time for a relationship as well...

I"ve never heard a woman "fake" emotions so badly... When she said "let me catch my breath", it sounded just like she was trying to play to the crowd and wasn"t truly excited/happy. Later, when she starts crying, she is clearly trying to manipulate her boyfriend into forgiving her "for...

Either that or she trusts him because she believes that he"d never cheat on her ever (she thinks she has significantly higher social value - which might be the reason that she"s looking for a different man in the first place).

Yea, if she doesn"t try to make contact at all with me within in the next couple of days I"ll just move on and write it off as a learning experience.

Because this was only the second time I"d ever taken any girl to the movies (first time was after we"d already had sex) so I didn"t realize how stupid of an idea it would be. First date with this girl was at a (wait for it) ... (lol).... Denny"s So yea, terrible terrible date locations and...

Went on a second date with a girl I met off okcupid. First date (as I already described a couple pages back) went "ok", but wasn"t much in the way of touching/flirting. Second date - Picked her up at her house - I decided to goto the movies (saw boondock saints 2, so at least it was...

Texted back and forth a few times over the past 2 days (every time the conversation was initiated by her, maybe I should increase ratio just a bit so she doesn"t feel like it"s completely 1-sided?). Anyways, she wants to hang out "for a few hours" either Fri or Sat night, so I guess I didn"t...

Also, it happened to be halfway point between where we happen to live (about a 5 minute drive for both of us)

Seemed like a convenient and "public" place to meet someone off the internet at midnight on a weeknight.

Went out on a date with a new girl tonight. I"d say overall, that internet dating is working for me. Yea, there is alot of stuff I"ve learned over the past year which has helped of turn my "social" life around ("The Game" was an eye-opening experience when I read it last year), and I could...

Sounds like she might have been depressed for a while now. Happy people don"t need any motivation to wake up to go to work and school. It"s honestly sounds like a train wreck waiting to happen. Her ending the relationship sounds like a symptom of the problem, not the problem itself. Chances...

k, well I"ll try to get in one last booty call to appease your demand for pics

And because FoHSS is worthless without pics. 2 pics of the girl and me turning down sex (first for everything in life I guess)

By the way, you guys were totally wrong about the 20 year old I was dating (the hypochondriac, turns out the MRI results were negative for MS), it didn"t take 3 months for her to get bored of me, it took 2 1/2 weeks. To summarize our texted conversation last night: Her: I want to have sex...

All I"m saying is that I"m going to take the advice given, not treat the relationship too seriously, and hopefully won"t be too heartbroken in 3 or 4 months or whenever this new girl gets bored of me. How the fuck does that make me "king pimp" You"re arguing 2 different things, either...

Yea, so how about I just don"t give her my balls on a silver platter and we see how things go from there. Thanks for the advice on what not to do. In the meantime I"ll keep having sex with a hot 20 year old until she grows tired of me, which it sounds like it"ll happen before her medical...

Right, well, my concern was for long-term problems in the relationship coming from her possible health problems (or maybe even worse if she"s just a hypochondriac). Long-term... I really don"t give a shit if the girl never works outside of the home, as long as shit at home would be taken care...

Also, because Screenshots is worthless without pics. P.S. I"d post the chick that I lost my virginity to last month, but I don"t want you guys to have to gouge your eyes out with soap. Also, I ignored her for about 3 1/2 hours and she apologized for giving me a hard time about playing...