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  1. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Right, because I have kids with her, and I like to keep everything amicable. If the children were not in the picture, I would have nothing to do with her. I still get along with her, but when I look at what my relationship with her is like, what it's been like for years, and compare that to my...
  2. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Right, because there is no chance that my ex changed fundamentally as a person from 18 to 30. If only I had watched her for 12 years before asking her to marry me, I would have known that I wouldn't like the person she would become. :P
  3. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I sure thought this was my situation when I was married. Turns out, I don't really like my X wife all that much. Took a year of dealing with her after the divorce, and seeing how our friendship was nothing like my other actual friendships.
  4. Onoes

    Toodles

    Sad face.
  5. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I'm going to have to sit down and catch up, I'm like 10 pages behind!
  6. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    There we go, thanks! P.s. it's way funnier if you imagine that IS Dunmar with the goat.
  7. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    How do I make my .gif work, its so much better in motion!
  8. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Right, but it's not one word. It's the exact same shit every single post. Imagine if I loved beastility, and I came here to talk about it, and the mods said "Whoa Onoes, we know you are super into horseplay, but take it to the Man + Beast thread." I would obviously reply about how close...
  9. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    You said plates. Redpill terminology that's going to make people ask questions about, you guessed it, what the fuck is redpill. The second I read your post I knew exactly where it was going, and I'm the lovable forum idiot. Figure it out.
  10. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Well shit, now I've seen everything. Sounds like you're doing the right thing no matter the reason though, sorry you're having to go through that though man.
  11. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I don't know, I've run into people a couple times in my life that just seemed 100 percent perfect for me, and kind of made me question decisions I have made. She's been with him for 4 years, I would guess that maybe the last couple have been a little bit growing apart, she ran into a dude that...
  12. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    7 years is where most people hit the wall. Gotta scratch that itch!
  13. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Read the post, seems pretty clear how it went over. She's very cool, and I like her a lot. /shrug
  14. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    To be fair, this is probably the first post I haven't been called dumb in, so it's an understandable conclusion to jump to. Haha Just opened the site incognito, and yup, images in this thread just show up as name.jpg. If you click the link it asks you to log in. So, you would least have to...
  15. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I would imagine they are at far greater danger of being murder/raped by a random local insane person. I would imagine they are far more likely to get hit by lightning than my previous example. I imagine that one of them somehow acquiring a winning lottery ticket and collecting is an even...
  16. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    And a_skeleton_03, just so you know, I can't ever remember reading a post of yours and thinking "fuck that guy" or anything. You come off as pessimistic and overly dramatic a lot of the time to me, but not hateful or anything. No worries. As for the "Ohh we aren't allowed to tease Onoes?"...
  17. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    See, couldn't be more wrong here, but at least you didn't outright call me a stupid fuck in this post. My kids are doing wonderfully, excellent in school, super happy kids with awesome lives and loving parents. I have them 50% of the time exactly. I don't go more than 3 days without seeing...
  18. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Ohh so that's not all just in my head huh? Most of the time it doesn't bother me at all, it's really just posts like ZyyzYzzy's, that are literally nothing but straight insults and hateful mockery that rub me the wrong way. There have only been a couple of times that I've thought "Why the...
  19. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Ohh fuck off, I said I'm not qualified for my job, that doesn't mean I don't do a good job at it. Way to bring some valuable insight to the thread though!
  20. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I would argue it depends on the situation. The last couple years of my marriage were filled with loneliness and rejection. I didn't want to be alone at all when I got out of it. I wanted to be happy and loved. If I had been in an abusive relationship, or was in a depression or something...
  21. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    You think its weird the guy who shares his deepest personal shit with a bunch of strangers on the internet might be upfront with actual people face to face in real life dealings? I'm upfront and honest with people, that tends to make people open up and tell me stuff they don't usually say to...
  22. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    And Phazael, no need to be worried. Worst case scenario it doesn't work out. I don't see her shitting in my bushes. I'm happy right now, she's happy, we're having a good time. There's no big issue's here, despite everyone's desire for their to be. As I said, I'm aware that her hoping from...
  23. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Did you miss the hours of skype nightly comments I've made? Yeah, she made a comment about her college loan debt, and I asked if she minded me asking how much she owed. She told me. Later, when talking about her divorce she mentioned giving her Ex probably 1 or 2k so he wouldn't be screwed...
  24. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Right over my head. I reread that thing twice trying to figure out where that comment came from. And sorry Gravy, I edited my post and ruined your joke. wah wah
  25. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    God damn you bitches are hard to please, haha. No idea where married to a black guy comes from. He's a white guy. He has a minimum wage-ish job. She has been working as a business manager in a veterinary clinic, and was by far the primary breadwinner in the family. She does have a load of...
  26. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Ohh, and apparently she had posted this to Facebook Monday night, I just saw it. So yeah, still pretty sure she's not lying. lol.
  27. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Real tattoo. I had the outline done November 19th, fill was over 3 sessions, each two weeks apart. So, I've had it all of 2 months? I'm happy with it /shrug. The photo shoot picture is exactly that, though not something I requested or paid for or anything. My friend is doing photo shoots...
  28. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I find them attractive. I'll share. This is the girl I was dating Nov-Dec, the one I was blown away by, and quite heartbroken over. This the 24 year old I was talking to, very pixie girl. And the 29 year old I'm entirely enamored with, a feeling I believe she shares. I...
  29. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Sorry, didn't get home until way late last night. After the movie they did a raffle for a signed limited edition poster, and I won. Peter (the author) liked my hair and wanted a picture, I ended up doing pictures with the crew and just hanging out with them. Pretty fucking fantastic. They...
  30. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    MOUNTAIN DEW! And nope, I don't intent on cutting them currently. P.s. Soygen, is your avatar from a gamergate style episode of law and order? I was at the doctors this morning (I'm 35 and get a colonoscopy, hooray!) and they had this ridiculous episode of one of those crime shows on... I...
  31. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Technically I'm her friend. :P And hardy har har everyone. As for trolling, I have a track record of almost 700 posts with no trolling, in fact, I've posted screenshots and shit whenever stuff was questioned if at all possible. I've put actual pictures of myself up, told you where I live...
  32. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    DickTrickle has it right. Here's the timeline. Meet girl at Renfair (technically SCA event, but I called it a renfair to not have to explain that), spend the evening with her, have a great time. When she leaves she tells me that she's now rethinking what she's been putting up with at home...
  33. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I'm not wrecking anything. Her husband met a girl online he's been talking to for months and is moving in with as soon as their house sells. The marrige is over, it's just the paperwork that's not finished.
  34. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It was last weekend. I got back last night. She's Caucasian so everything she says must be true. I don't believe she's being deceitful at all if that helps.
  35. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Yeah, just expecting a ton of flak. And no Tarrent, I've been skyping with her, but the distance has prevented a meeting before this weekend, so nope, we had not been alone before this weekend.
  36. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    2 days after we met, 2 weeks ago. So... moving fast, I know. (Hence me not wanting to talk about it here yet, because I'm aware it all sounds crazy right now.)
  37. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I have family who live in Phoenix, more specifically, my moms in Maui right now but has a house in town, so I stayed there. And yes, her and her soon to be ex are still in the same house, though in different rooms. They met with a realtor on Friday to put their house on the market, and filled...
  38. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Totally depends on the judge. They can sure, but I don't suspect that's likely. Just left 29, had a fantastic 2 straight days with her, grabbing food now and getting on the road. Nothing to really report except everything went really well.
  39. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    the reason I think having sex with the 24 year old is a bad idea is because in my experience no matter how much a girl tells me it's a casual no strings thing, she always wants repeat performances, gets attached, etcetera. It becomes a whole thing. That's why I don't think it's a great idea to...
  40. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    You know, other than me talking about it on an online forum like an idiot.