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  1. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I'm not sure how other states do it, but in AZ there was a ton of paperwork going over every single bit of that, and then during the divorce the judge had to go through it all and approve it. So for example, there is a whole section about each car, their worth, and who gets them, that we both...
  2. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Northern Az University, I have no idea how college works so I don't really know specifics. She just got a 3 month trial thing managing a non profit business, to which she can do most of the work from home (she has to travel to conventions one weekend per month, so 3 total times in the initial...
  3. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I did crack up at that as well. And come on Noodle, I said she has three degrees, with the first being Arts. You know, from when she was 18 and dumb. Her most recent is an MBA, so... yeah.
  4. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    She has no idea who wrote that :P
  5. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    And one more thing! lol People going "You know how many people are comfortable or cool with an ex whatever? like 1 in 500" Here's what I did for Mothers Day. Thats right. That's hand painted art on canvas. Hang that shit on your wall. I did that for my ex fucking wife. And guess...
  6. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I've dated 3 girls before this one. So a total of 4 in 16 months. One of those was all of 3 dates because of distance. I had fun with crazy girl, but it never got serious, in fact, she ended it when I didn't "I love you" back. The last one from Oct-Dec was serious, I thought that was going to...
  7. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Ok, let me clarify a few things. A.) Yeah, I go bee-booping up to her house with my girlfriend. She's my girlfriend who will typically be with me. I think it would be much weirder to be like "Sorry, I need to hide you in front of my ex..." B.) My Ex has never lived with a guy, she was by...
  8. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Ok, here was the argument. I was at the store, and she called me to ask about trading the kids for a day. I said no problem, if she wants to bring them over I would be home in 20, I'm at the store. She then asked if I would mind picking some stuff up the kids needed to bring for school...
  9. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I'm here :P I was going to chime in, but what they said. Don't talk to her unless you need to basically. And yeah, I understand there are going to be feelings and all, but I promise you, 2 weeks without her and you are going to be like "Wow... this is so much better, why didn't I do this...
  10. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Nah man, I'm all about making people feel better about themselves, you don't want to get into a situation where you are compared with me in that area.
  11. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Sometimes things just work out like that. /shrug But yeah, I know it sounds crazy, so I expected this.
  12. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Nah, here is the timeline. Mid-February - Met and hit it off like crazy at a Ren fair type thing, she was married, exchanged Facebook info (no sex or anything, just got along really well) End of February - She contacts me to tell me she is going to talk to her husband about divorce, and...
  13. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Now I'm just another face in the crowd huh? I knew it! :P
  14. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    If it makes you feel better I spend the weekend in Phoenix helping my girlfriend of two months pack up, as she just sold her house and is moving in with me. Everything is going splendidly, though I expect nothing but "WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK?!?!" from you guys, hence me not posting about it...
  15. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Have you talked to her about it? I'm with these guys, it sounds like she might not be all that happy either. It sounds like maybe you should sit down, tell her that you're not sure where the relationship is going, that while you guys are great friends, you might not have much of a future past...
  16. Onoes

    Pax Prime

    I debated it, got to the ticket page with only Sat sold out, but I realized I have another trip for work the following Friday-Mon, and a trip with the kids to Disneyland the Thurs-Sun after that, and just decided to wait. Kind of bummed, but there's always next year.
  17. Onoes

    Avengers: Age of Ultron

    I thought the exact same thing. Who is interested in an Avengers 3 with that crew? Also... why did the army of robots.... not have guns? I mean, Ultron hops in the Avengers jet and dishes out more death firing the machine gun on 10 seconds than his army of pusher robots do in the previous...
  18. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Nah, the new girlfriend actually didn't want me to cut them, because she's concerned everyone is going to think she made me do it, and get flak for it. I'm on a little mini vacation right now, so not a great time to get into it, but the short story is I just haven't been hassling with it so...
  19. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Who, me?
  20. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Right, because I have kids with her, and I like to keep everything amicable. If the children were not in the picture, I would have nothing to do with her. I still get along with her, but when I look at what my relationship with her is like, what it's been like for years, and compare that to my...
  21. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Right, because there is no chance that my ex changed fundamentally as a person from 18 to 30. If only I had watched her for 12 years before asking her to marry me, I would have known that I wouldn't like the person she would become. :P
  22. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I sure thought this was my situation when I was married. Turns out, I don't really like my X wife all that much. Took a year of dealing with her after the divorce, and seeing how our friendship was nothing like my other actual friendships.
  23. Onoes

    Toodles

    Sad face.
  24. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I'm going to have to sit down and catch up, I'm like 10 pages behind!
  25. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    There we go, thanks! P.s. it's way funnier if you imagine that IS Dunmar with the goat.
  26. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    How do I make my .gif work, its so much better in motion!
  27. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Right, but it's not one word. It's the exact same shit every single post. Imagine if I loved beastility, and I came here to talk about it, and the mods said "Whoa Onoes, we know you are super into horseplay, but take it to the Man + Beast thread." I would obviously reply about how close...
  28. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    You said plates. Redpill terminology that's going to make people ask questions about, you guessed it, what the fuck is redpill. The second I read your post I knew exactly where it was going, and I'm the lovable forum idiot. Figure it out.
  29. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Well shit, now I've seen everything. Sounds like you're doing the right thing no matter the reason though, sorry you're having to go through that though man.
  30. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I don't know, I've run into people a couple times in my life that just seemed 100 percent perfect for me, and kind of made me question decisions I have made. She's been with him for 4 years, I would guess that maybe the last couple have been a little bit growing apart, she ran into a dude that...
  31. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    7 years is where most people hit the wall. Gotta scratch that itch!
  32. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Read the post, seems pretty clear how it went over. She's very cool, and I like her a lot. /shrug
  33. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    To be fair, this is probably the first post I haven't been called dumb in, so it's an understandable conclusion to jump to. Haha Just opened the site incognito, and yup, images in this thread just show up as name.jpg. If you click the link it asks you to log in. So, you would least have to...
  34. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I would imagine they are at far greater danger of being murder/raped by a random local insane person. I would imagine they are far more likely to get hit by lightning than my previous example. I imagine that one of them somehow acquiring a winning lottery ticket and collecting is an even...
  35. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    And a_skeleton_03, just so you know, I can't ever remember reading a post of yours and thinking "fuck that guy" or anything. You come off as pessimistic and overly dramatic a lot of the time to me, but not hateful or anything. No worries. As for the "Ohh we aren't allowed to tease Onoes?"...
  36. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    See, couldn't be more wrong here, but at least you didn't outright call me a stupid fuck in this post. My kids are doing wonderfully, excellent in school, super happy kids with awesome lives and loving parents. I have them 50% of the time exactly. I don't go more than 3 days without seeing...
  37. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Ohh so that's not all just in my head huh? Most of the time it doesn't bother me at all, it's really just posts like ZyyzYzzy's, that are literally nothing but straight insults and hateful mockery that rub me the wrong way. There have only been a couple of times that I've thought "Why the...
  38. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Ohh fuck off, I said I'm not qualified for my job, that doesn't mean I don't do a good job at it. Way to bring some valuable insight to the thread though!
  39. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I would argue it depends on the situation. The last couple years of my marriage were filled with loneliness and rejection. I didn't want to be alone at all when I got out of it. I wanted to be happy and loved. If I had been in an abusive relationship, or was in a depression or something...
  40. Onoes

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    You think its weird the guy who shares his deepest personal shit with a bunch of strangers on the internet might be upfront with actual people face to face in real life dealings? I'm upfront and honest with people, that tends to make people open up and tell me stuff they don't usually say to...