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  1. Cutlery

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Yep, finally. What a fucking shitshow. But, much happier now. I've got the house, better than half time with my kids, the dog, and the cat. I've got everything but the problem.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    My oldest said about a month ago "I'm not sure what bothers me more...the fact that mom has changed so much, or the possibility that she hasn't." All you can do is be the stability for your kids. Just be the rock they need for whatever time they're with you. You can't control what happens when...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Well, and that's the thing. Everyone here is talking about what kind of relationship you'd have with a 16 year gap, and that's not really the point. Early on, relationships are based upon chemistry anyway, and either the spark is there or it's not. There's nothing wrong with throwing down...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Brad, stop. There's enough red flags there. Just walk away
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    Car ?'s

    Kind of an old post, but it's been a rough summer. They redesigned the Ram to it's new style in 03 I believe. I know they didn't offer it for very long, so I'm guessing 03-05. Its one of those things I was probably stoked about when I got it but I've long since forgotten about, since I just...
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    Poll Chipotle vs Moes - why does one suck shit while the other is great?

    Can't speak for Hawaii, but the first runs of the year for the mainland were a couple weeks ago.
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    The Metal Thread

    The new Dee Snider album is heavy as shit. Pretty much just an hour of riffs.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I don't disagree with you, but my ex does. And therein lies the problem..finding something you both agree on. Fuck, we had one "organic" lube we tried that was like $25 a bottle and all it did was just give us yeast infections back and forth for like a month until we figured out what was...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It's hard to find a good one that doesn't irritate either of you, cleans up easily, stays slick and doesn't gum up, and doesn't taste like shit.
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    Poll Chipotle vs Moes - why does one suck shit while the other is great?

    Cherry Sprite is a normal flavor. Has been for almost 2 years. Also, the next Sprite flavor coming down the pipe is
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Pho answers the question of "what happens when a former child soldier pours hot rain water over fish nightmares?"
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    FOH Shower Thoughts

    Nah, those farts are just contractions for the turd baby you're gonna push out later.
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    The Paranormal, UFO's, and Mysteries of the Unknown

    Hrm, that raises an interesting question. So, we still have gold, so they weren't after that, but what if they were after something that we don't have? The periodic table has elements that don't occur in nature...what if they were all used up and that's why they don't? What applications could...
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    Gloomhaven

    How could you only have 2 or 3 perks at level 5? You get one every time you level up, in addition to check marks.
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    Tool might eventually release a new album someday

    It's not gonna be worth the wait and we all know it.
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    Gloomhaven

    The Gloomhaven Reddit has an excellent write up on every starting class. You may not agree with every decision they make, but it definitely helps you get your feet in the water until you can start making your own decisions based upon your playstyle.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I like you bro, we've had a lot of good discussions over the years, but you're making way too many assumptions here. She has always been number one. Always. Side action is side action. Furthermore, the open relationship was her idea. Due to the childhood I had, she wanted me to form more...
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    Car ?'s

    Not so much a question, but a brag. I have a 2004 Dodge Ram with 189k miles on it. A couple weeks ago, the rear axle started just roaring, I figured the differential probably went out on it. Brought it to my local shop, they call me back and say "Yep, pinion bearing broken. We're gonna order...
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    Vasectomy Inc

    I still get pain from time to time, but I can say without a doubt I'd do it again. My orgasms have changed now, almost to be like a second peak midway thru. Sex is easily twice as good now. Totally worth all the hell I went thru at the beginning.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    To be fair, I was tricked. She moved in with me pretty quickly, and didn't bring a lot. It wasn't until her mom sold her townhouse that she called and said "Hey, are you gonna come get all the shit out of your room?" That was when I first gazed into the abyss, and the abyss gazed back.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    The kids preceded it. And as it turns out, it works out fine with ground rules. It does not work out fine when one party is completely inappropriate with their emotional attachment. We call this party "Women." However, uhh, yeah, open relationships are shit. Every single one I know of has...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It's entirely possible. I do have a bit of a homewrecker streak. They know what they're signing up for, though!
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    In addition to all of that, thanks to all of you, for helping to strengthen my resolve. I love her, but yes, she's a pretty shitty person. The love part and the archtypical male in me say "it's okay if you fuck up, I'll take care of you." Obviously there need to be limits to that. I won't...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It does sound like that! Unforunately Love and Like can be 2 completely seperate concepts and are not required to overlap. This is basically it. She has so far been very conciliatory on wanting to make sure everything is fair and equal. I just let her know that me losing the house would...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Exactly! I'm doing the right thing! I'm gonna walk out of this with joint custody of my kids, a 2500 sq foot house that's basically empty (and I've already got some leads on renting out some space to help with the house payment), almost an acre on a pond, and I get to continue living my life...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Well, I'm as reasonably certain as I can be about it. I often came home early at irregular times. If she has been cheating for years, she got really goddamned lucky with me coming home at random times between midnight and 3 a couple of random days a week. I don't buy it, nobody gets that...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It sure appears that way, doesn't it? Take it from me, a guy who thought the rules didn't apply to his wife - she's not yours, it's just your turn. They're all the fucking same.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I worked overnights for 20 years. My wife stated years ago that if she had known what it was like being with a guy who worked overnights, she never would have married me. That weighed heavily on me for many years. She doesn't remember this. As soon as my kids were all finally old enough to go...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    18.5 years. I get the house, she takes the debt. Joint custody of the kids. Why am I still sad about this arrangement?
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    Retail Apocalypse aka The E-Commerce Thread

    It's also because every fucking retailer you go to now has a rewards program and every single fucking person out there feels they need to sign up for every one of them, but can't remember which phone number they used to sign up for it, so every transaction ends up taking 3 minutes longer while...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I know that's a joke, but I highly doubt it's 15%. 2-3% maybe, but considering the size of sperm cells, the contribution from the testicles is absolutely dwarfed by the contribution from the seminal vesicle. Varies day by day, but there's essentially no difference before and after.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Same.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Might as well just jerk off at that point.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    You're saying all of this from the perspective of a guy who gets what he needs though. Remove your steady piece from the equation and you may find things changing fairly quickly once you come to the realization that it's your hand or nothing in your scenario. In that case, the random encounter...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    What was the old Carlin line? "A fag was a guy who wouldn't go beat up queers with you?" Something like that.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Out of sight, out of mind, man. Break it off. She ain't coming back to you anyway.
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    Blood Bowl 2

    Well, dice ARE dice. The game RNG is better than dice. Dice are biased towards certain sides much more than the game is. Maybe your problem is literally the dice? I dunno. It's also possible you're not doing anything wrong except playing Norse, where the low armor can create real streaks that...
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    Blood Bowl 2

    Probably stunty league, but then none of us would have been playing dark elves.
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    Blood Bowl 2

    Doesn't sound like me. I still have my teams, don't think I played DE in either season, although I don't remember what I played after the orcs. I can check when I get home.
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    Smartphones

    No Facebook I'm not seeing a problem!