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    Fall 2014 Anime Thread

    What happened to the fan service on log horizon? So far zero boobs -(
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    Pregnancy Thread

    Well guys. It's go time. Water broke... Hopefully everything goes well.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Update. She decided to stay at her mom for a little while, lets see how it goes.
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    Depression

    Holy crap...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Did you miss the part about the divorce lawyer?
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I have no issues with any names or gender names she could have picked, for boy or girl.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    DT... My mother apologized to my wife, and the over all feeling was one of resolution. So what can I do? when it actually is not true, when she hasn't forgotten / forgiven.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    emphasis added
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    If this was 1850 i would have punched her long time ago and gotten a younger wife, or have a series of mistresses with multiple children.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It is the social norm for the father to name the child. It is the norm for if she pics one name, the father selects the other. Those are societal rules and customs, not governmental rules.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    You may give her diarrhea though..
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    None. Babies head is harder than your penis. and u are not mandingo. Plus the cervix is blocked, so unless you ram it into her cervix, which she will know and scream in pain, you are fine.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Prude.!!!
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It is OUR football. Be honest, Tenks. if your wife tells you not to be present, because she is mad at you. How would you take it.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Trolling? Because that is exactly what cad is saying.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    There are legal rights and there are non legal rights, legally she has all the rights. Morally, traditionally and practically I have rights as well. It is not my legal right protected by the law to be in the delivery room. But as a father, i should be there.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It goes back to what Cad says.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It is legal. The mother is a patient on a medical setting. If she says to the doctor to kick me out. The doctor wont hesitate, as the mother is the patient at that point.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Because her point of view can be fixed by sitting down with my mom and talking their problems. Which we did btw, we sat down and talk to my mom about all the stuff she has done and at that point in time my wife told me that it was ok, she forgave her. Turns out she didn't forgive her. My...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I am not in that position Trickle, i would have tried to convince her, not divorce her over it.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Not it is not right/ nor fair. You do understand that there are 35k positions, for around 50k people every year right? It has nothing to do with skills, but with discrimination, prejudice and the sheer number of people that apply. Look at this first page http://www.ecfmg.org/forms/factcard.pdf...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Her mulata ass got to me, i have a genetic predisposition to it. Plus if you look at the whole thing she is/was a good candidate, very driven individual, studying to become a doctor, smart, nice, pretty. You would have to be nostradamus to forecast what would have happen.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Xeque... I know the odds and problems with her career. I know you are right. I'm not banking/betting on that. "but either learn to stand your ground and get a decent number of things your way even if it causes fights" this is what I'm going for, my scenario, i fight over something that I'm...
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    Butthurt white guys, an Asian virgin and an angry lesbian walk into a bar...

    Innate ability can be overcome by personality traits. Some kids that are not as smart but work harder, will appear in the 10%, and you want them there. It is those kids who will actually finish college, the ones that are trained to overcome their intellectuals deficiencies by work and attitude...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    1/1 800 sp feet. It is a nice place for a single person or for a couple without kids. I'm under water probably 30k, which is nothing.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    We live in a 1/1 underwater 85k mortgage, $450 a month. 5k in Cc debt, mostly from her applying to medical programs this year. 30k at 10% in student loans ( currently down to 20k, monthly payment is $400), i have paid for a big chunk of her education as her expenses from traveling come from our...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I don't want to be the one who walks out the door without a major reason to, now specially that I have a daughter. Even though me forcing the name issue may have that outcome. Tenks, reads other comments and you'll see a split into if I have the right to name the child or not. The thing is...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Never on my description of my relation I have mentioned anything regarding her cheating. All I have painted and described is a toxic relationship of her with my family, and me at times. Look it would be so much easy if she were a cheating whore. It would be so much easy if the child is not...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Can you calm down the diarrhea? Why do you think all women are cheating whores?
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Khane. Are you obsessed with been cockolded? Also the counselor gave the right advise as most people on the thread. I have the right to name my daughter, it is not an issue for any normal couple, the mom gets a name, the father gets a name. This problem is not about the name, is about how much...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    The only way I could give you her reasons is by having her post here. Today I went to the councelor by myself, and explained it to her. She says we both have right to the kid, she has the first name and I get the second, regardless of my wife feelings for my mom. So I came home and told her...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    So I'll let it sit for a couple of days and then I'll talk to her calmly, that she picked the first name and I get the second one. Hopefully it will go better.
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    Pregnancy Thread

    Grats
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I was compromising to the middle name, anyways.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Khane sometimes all people need is hope, or encouragment. The advice is simple. Does the name matter, then stick with it, does the name does not matter then just drop it. The name matters. I would love to hear the other side of the argument, just to know im not wrong. It doesnt solve anything I...
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Plus my morher doesnr hate her. My wife has some very misconcieve notions. My mother says rhe wrong things, but it is nor out of hate or dislike.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Simple answer... it didnt started like that. I bare some blame by not stablishing ground rules and boundaries and by not standing up when this was managable.
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    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    So bros. Latest update on the roller coaster. Today i sat down my wife and told her in a very calm manner, how important it was for me that my daughter second name is as my mothers second name. The nameis important to me as is an indirect way of honoring my mother. Now my mother and my wife...
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    Butthurt white guys, an Asian virgin and an angry lesbian walk into a bar...

    Omg yes how could i forget about coercion. Did you finally learn how coercion and contracts work? And the gem...