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That relationship is near unsalvageable but to overcome a breaking of trust they have to do things for eachother . The only way to fix shit like that is for each person to put themselves out there 100%. You"re either all in, or you should get out. You can"t half trust someone and you can"t keep...

Distance doesn"t make the heart grow fonder because of some kind of supernatural function. I think that statement comes from the fact that any relationship that withstands a time with the burden of distance and separation pressing on it is already strong, and subsequently the relationship feels...

Follow this instinct, underhanded investigation is not the way to deal with this. If you have to do anything you must talk to her face to face. You can preface it with saying that this is about you, and the distance, etc. Don"t just attack her with "Are you/did you cheat on me with this dude...

If this relationship doesn"t mean enough to you that 6 months is the deal breaker, then get out. I don"t know what this girl means to you, what you mean to her, what your plans for your life is. If she"s busy, and not avoiding you and is invested as you say in this relationship then stop...

Long distance is 100% a two way street, if she isn"t as invested as you are in making it work, and vice versa it will fail. Be creative, If Skype isn"t working well what about cell phones with unlimited plans after 7pm or something. There are a lot of f2p mmo"s now that are decent if cash is...

Its just the moral question, are you your brothers keeper, or do you serve only your own interests. If you are a physically imposing person you have more capacity to intervene in physical altercations. The question is should you? The logic of being a bystander when you personally could do...

It technically doesn"t, but for the implications of this thread what kind of relationship do you want? That"s up for everyone to decide obviously, but if honesty isn"t a bedrock then what do you actually have? If you and your gf/wife want a relationship where you both have the ability to have...

I think that being dishonest to yourself is personally the most destructive thing you can do in your life to yourself. And I don"t mean big issues alone. If you say to yourself "I am going to go to the gym 3 times a week." And when the time you set aside comes around you say "I...

I think its a lot simpler than respect. The easiest person in the world to lie to is yourself. I think that the more you practice deceiving yourself the simpler it becomes. If you enter into a relationship and the agreement you make is to be monogamous you do it. Not because you"re beholden to...

If you"re up to the task then do it. It isn"t the easy way out, but you don"t always get to decide what baggage the girl you fall for has. If you have the capacity and patience to gain her trust - and not react when you feel that she"s constantly questioning yours. Keep in mind that when she...

Logically Tarrant"s situations is terrible for 99% of the population. Especially if you"re not established, in your 20"s, still want to "see the world". But if you were early 30"s, recently divorced (assuming the instability was not instigated by you), with a couple kids already, your own...

Dabamf, the only thing I will say is that you shouldn"t dismiss her statement about love. I think its pretty plain what she intends, if she can"t ultimately let you see all of who she is, i.e. "the Truth", then who will ever be that person in her life than a significant other figure? In reverse...

If that"s your plan Eomer then doesn"t it seem to be counter productive to ask for relationship advice? If the fall back plan is to have booty calls on all 7 continents it sounds ridiculous that you are in any way ready or desirous of a life time commitment to anyone but yourself. Which is 100%...

If you aren"t interested then you aren"t interested. But you need to recognize your checklist of traits is possibly not the most ideal checklist to find someone to settle down with. Don"t dismiss what LeGrassi says in as much as just tell her you"re not interested. If she asks you should be...

People can exercise a hell of a lot easier than they can change their personality. Eomer is welcome to do whatever he wants obviously but you have to be ready to get what you look for. Eomer wants a physical 10 before he decides if their personality fits. I think this method is much harder to...

I can"t understand the negative press that a job system is getting, your identity is tied to your character even more. Additionally if you really want disconnected jobs, there is no reason that this is not allowed for you to do anyways. Anyone who wants to do multiple reputation or storyline...

FFX has the best "functional" house, where you actually do a lot of things within the confines of the house itself. The entire gardening minigame + bonus you get from certain furniture is all self contained within the house. The house is also your bank access, and where you change your jobs...

Except that gamers don"t necessarily quit gaming. As time passes, there will be 50 year olds who do play MMO"s in higher numbers, they did it when they were younger. This is assuming of course the "Video Game" is here to stay in some form of interactive digital entertainment for our lifetimes.

I would really like to see a western MMO jump on the FFXI job system, as well as combat synergies of their skillchain system. Both are very rewarding, and allow you to have "alts" but without being forced to repeat very meticulous things (faction grinds) on later characters. You are rewarded...

Changing class in town, is no different than logging onto an alt in that same town. Not having to double up on faction grinds, having your characters reputations remain valid across all alts, even to those you do not know very well. The motivation to be capable of toggling you/your guilds...