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haha truth be told she actually wasn"t all that fat or anything. Most of you guys would say she"s "average" but as has been said in the past I"m Shallow Hall when it comes to physical features. It was mostly that she was basically a total whore in her personality and behavior. So Grobster, I...

Wow man, you"re so wise! So let"s see: you got married to someone you ended up hating, so much so you were sniping each other on these very boards. You then went and got a friend of your ex-wife preggers out of wedlock, and (I think?) ended up marrying her. At some point along the way whether...

I was thinking of Brad, but I love you both equally. Especiallynow that it"s come about you knocked up someone else"s wife. And you honestly come here and tell me that the way I live or act or my relationships with women are fucked? Really? Jesus christ. Although full disclosure, I fucked...

I know of one, but I don"t think you want his advice.

Done! I can always make time for e-detectives!

So? Don"t be a dick and "expose" him or something. If he wants to remain anonymous, let him be. Date with Brit on Wednesday was a lot of fun. Grabbed a quick bite at a pub and then went and played some pool and bowled a frame/round/whatever. We have a ton of interests in common and...

Ah, whoops! Been busy. I will endeavor to not miss obvious shit in the future!

I fucking love not having a mortgage payment any more. Not for any practical reason like I have more money to spend, it just feels better somehow not paying one every week or month.

Cool, I was asking more in general terms but congratulations on that. I would however like to take this moment to take you to task for not having posted her tits yet. Selfish. Plain selfish. Welcome to the internet and especially FOH. One day it"s Dabamf, the next it"s Tarrant, and I"m sure...

That"s a great link, thanks. As far as it being better in the long run to rent or not, as you say, perhaps you can make an academic argument for renting but the practical reality is that most people just don"t have the financial discipline for it to play out the way it does in the ideal...

ugh. /facepalm It"s "intents and purposes" for fuck"s sake. He returns! How she hanging bro?

Plus there"s way more drama to report on when two marriages are in tatters! Yeah, very true as well. You don"t want to get the reputation as a dirt bag. Back in the day I made out with a girl while I was still dating another one that I had been intending on breaking up with due to disparate/lack...

No need to play it up as a big fight or something, sheesh.

It"s not a troll at all, they"re making valid points. Sucks being on the other side for once doesn"t it?

Well yeah, that"s kind of self evident. But it also goes against what you"re saying. I think? You seem to be arguing that there"s no reason NOT to cheat if you"re in a committed relationship and the other person can"t find out. But now you"re saying you shouldn"t be in that relationship to begin...

Not in the long run no, of course not. Also it"s entirely possible I"m reading too much in to it as I love to do. If I were in her position I wouldn"t even mention the other guy if he was actually a romantic interest, so it"s as likely that he really is just a friend. Like I said, we shall see...

Called her tonight, chatted briefly about the weekend. We were each supposed to have gone to the mountains (different places), but as it turned out neither did. She had mentioned she was going with a "friend" previously, and said that she didn"t end up going because he called at 4am the morning...

I don"t disagree with you on that, however some of the shit that"s been written in a few of the posts above flies in the face of what I"ve posted. But I better not respond to any of it because that"s just me being defensive right? A small sample: I had already posted: Yeah yeah yeah, no...

If by "getting defensive" you mean "putting things in their proper context and perspective" then sure. But fuck it, what"s the point? It"s much more fun to just take the negative view on absolutely everything right?

Personally I"d rather date someone who has shit going on in their lives than someone who wants to spend every evening together. Again, with the last Anne she was genuinely interested but we weren"t able to sync up our schedules more than every couple weeks, because I"ve got shit on the go as...

Called Brit last night. No answer and she called back a few minutes later. Chatted about random stuff for a few minutes (I really enjoy talking with her, she"s almost as witty/smartassed as me!), and asked if she was around Thursday with the intention of checking out a friend"s documentary he"s...

haha yeah, I wrote the friend back and said pretty much exactly what Dabamf said: thanks for interpreting where she"s at, but fuck no I am not sending flowers, do I look like Hugh Grant to you?

I was thinking more along the lines of a singing telegram, whatever the hell they"re called. Then The Package.

Well actually the girl I"ve been chatting with about dating and life in general has basically said the exact same thing about me, but in general terms. The constant sarcasm and smartassed comments pretty much IS me, whether that"s a good or bad thing, it"s pretty central to my personality. As...

You know Whyme may have a nugget of a point. I don"t think it"s a good idea to just outright say "hey I really like you" but after discussing this with a female friend a bit (and receiving a text from Brit not 20 seconds ago), it may well be that she was put off by my not having called for a...

Personally I think I"m charming, fuck you guys! Honestly though, in her case she invites it as she"s quite similar in her smartassery. But duly noted. What? After one date? I"m not sure if you"re confusing this with a different backstory, but that would just be bizarre. Neither of us knows...

Back story:Spoiler Alert, click show to read: So I"m at a bar last night with a bud (the one who manages a bar), dragged out on a Sunday night because he was supposed to be meeting one of his waitresses that he"s messed around with a bit in the cooler at their work (classy). Only reason I...

I brought it up, and had been using a condom. If your partner was possibly exposed to an STD, which apparently mine was even though it was unlikely she had contracted anything, you get tested whether or not you were using a condom. I"ve been hating life recently, but it has little or nothing to...

I"m not sure exactly what you"re getting at, to be honest. When I used the term "common law" I meant a couple living together but not legally married. My bad if that"s not proper usage of the term.

Depends on where you live, actually.

Shacking up with no legal obligations other than what"s imposed in terms of child support.

For fuck"s sake, my entire argument with you has been around the fact that marriage is a legal contract and terminating it is much more difficult than walking away from a common law one, because you made this specific statement: Any way you cut it, that"s a fucking retarded statement because...

What? I"ve never made any comment about what I think marriage is for, so I don"t get what you"re talking about. I merely took issue with your opinion that marriage is "no big deal" and so why the hell not try it right? That"s just a fucking retarded viewpoint from a legal as well as emotional...

He"s full of shit, his original marriage went down in fucking flames and the two of them spent a ton of emotional energy hating each other for awhile, even if it"s all good now. Marriage makes it much harder to just walk away from a relationship that isn"t working out. Again, I"m not...

I"m not criticizing his decision, but saying that marriage is just a tax break is re-fucking-tarded. It is entering in to a binding legal contract whose termination can cause years of emotional and financial hardship for both parties as well as the child. Far be it from me to criticize his...

Move on, the relationship is likely over for good. In other news, looks like my initial impression was correct and the Brit just wasn"t all that interested: Spoiler Alert, click show to read:Me: Out of the blue question: would you be interested in going to see Muse tonight? They must have...

Sometimes there"s just no spark, or other circumstances serve to work against things. I wish I knew why I didn"t fall for her, or had control over who I did or did not because there"s no rational reason most of the time.

Alright when you put it that way I see what you"re saying, and you"ve said it before in the past. I"ve done my best to listen, I swear! Met New Anne yesterday for lunch and broke up with her after while walking back to our cars, if you can call it breaking up. She was really good about it. I...

Backstory: Not necessarily ending it with New Anne because of Brit. It"s just run it"s course unfortunately. I don"t feel the need to be in a relationship just for the sake of being in one; if I don"t feel a spark I don"t prolong it. For all I know I"ll ask Brit out again and she"ll turn...

To clear things up: Diane: friend hookup from awhile back that acted all flakey. New Anne/Annabelle: girl I"ve been dating for nearly 3 months, but only seen half a dozen times. That"s the one I"m breaking things off with. Brit: british girl I"ve been on one date with and am madly in...