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I don"t think I"m being bashed, however I"m attempting to set the record straight. I posted a story of some strange behavior which ended with me quite specifically stating that I wasn"t upset or hurt, mostly just confused about her behavior and that I wasn"t sure where I stood with her. Then...

Ummm, I"m not obsessed. I doubt she had sex with her ex, but who knows. I"m just curious for opinions on it because the whole thing was pretty bizarre. I"m not going to and haven"t been actively pursuing her other than looking for a hook-up here or there when we happen to be in the same town...

You guys are reading way too much in to what I said. I likely said something similar regarding New Anne and look how that"s turned out: disinterest. Sheesh, relax. No comments on Diane"s bizarre behavior? () The female friend I related that to basically said she"s a cunt for doing what she...

Oh trust me, on the ski trips I"ve lately very much been feeling it. I turned 29 last week, and the demographic on the trips is early 20"s most of the time. Although actually the two smoking hot sisters from a couple trips ago that I wanted to get with but felt guilty about it had guessed my age...

wat I dunno bout you, but when I"m 50 and quite possibly tied up with a wife of similar age, I"m not going to be oogling cute girls walking down the street because I think they might be intellectually stimulating. I"m oogling them strictly due to their physical attractiveness, and likely...

Diane"s the long time friend that I hooked up with, so there"s no cutting her loose really because other than the story I will relate below, nothing"s happened. It"s New Anne that I have to cut loose. Please note that the following story was actually sent to a female friend that I"ve been...

Your second sentence describes Original Anne to a T.

Backstory in the spoilered part: Went to the Oilers game with the Brit last night. Met her for dinner prior to the game as well. I really, really enjoyed her company. Right off the bat when I messaged her on Facebook a couple weeks back she was a smartass, and I really like it about her. I...

How in the shit is an inspector supposed to find a pinhole leak on a pipe that can make itself known at any time? Shit, I"ve seen baseboard nails that puncture pipes hold for 2 years before letting go when they rust out. It"s just shitty luck. If you have hot water recirculation and copper...

heh, yeah, I was so relieved when I got the phone call saying the test was negative, even though in practical terms it made absolutely no difference to me. I"m just hoping to fucking god our local health authority got out of the stone ages and can do the tests on urine like they do elsewhere...

woo, a pissing contest about who"s had the most hardcore STD! May the man with the most burning or itching win!

Like I said, I would imagine it"s voluntary, but they certainly don"t emphasize it when they put the form in front of you. Not even sure if it"s a "Canada" thing, since our health systems are run provincially. Here"s a link to a job opening that kinda references it:Sexually Transmitted...

Drama ahoy me mateys! Spoiler Alert, click show to read:Backstory: I was dating a girl awhile back, 5 or so year ago. She was the only girl I was sleeping with at the time, and we weren"t using rubbers. I got back from a 3 week trip to NZ, where I struck out repeatedly (she thought she was...

lol, quite possibly a new world record!

eh? There"s just the "main one" and the "New One", and I got sick of typing Annabelle! It"s really not that confusing!

Make it very clear to the ex that you"re NOT going to a lawyer because you"re upset about something that"s currently going on, or something that"s happened in the past. Make it clear that you"re doing it to reduce any problems for either side in the future, and that you feel it"s important to...

Hey you know how I was saying we weren"t being dicks? Etoille was a dick :/

Again, not being a dick, but I don"t know how it"s "quite superior" to just having a written agreement with regular payments and a visitation schedule/terms. Unless money is the deciding factor and the only goal is to pay as little as possible for as much access as possible. At least with an...

While still on the "not being a dick" theme but also realizing that this can be taken the wrong way, I"d personally want to be providing some sort of financial support to my son. I"m not saying Brad isn"t because he"s not giving the mother cash, he may well buy him clothes and that kind of...

^They don"t necessarily even have to be lawyers. I"m sure there"s people who specialize as mediators or advisors in such situations.

No one"s trying to be dicks man, they"re trying to give what you seek: advice. Near as I can understand it, you don"t have any sort of written custody agreement with your ex-wife. I"m no expert in this shit, that"s for sure. But basically I"d say you don"t have much right to complain about...

Brad, is there a written document that outlines the custody arrangement, child support and the like? How was this document agreed upon?

Huh? Xerxes and I remained friends after we stopped dating and hung out a few times, so it"s not like I"m running back to her or somehow showing weakness. I might look her up, if anything just for the fun of smoking a joint and playing some Rock Band. Evening went really well with Anna last...

On an unrelated note to the current girl, Xerxes added me as a friend on Facebook last weekend out of nowhere. One or the other of us had removed the other sometime back last spring or summer, not sure why or when. So I added her and sent her a message asking what was up: Me: Hey, what"s up...

That"s not really the case here, if only because that"s more along the lines of how I"d be if it was a girl that I really liked but was unsure where she was at. In this case it"s mostly the opposite of that, or maybe we"re both like "they"re cool and all, I guess we"ll see where it goes."...

Yeah I"d say it"s a combination of all of the above, really. Spoke with her for a few minutes a couple seconds ago. She was just checking in to a hotel in Calgary for some competition thing relating to her MBA course work, so we chatted about that for a bit and agreed to hang out Monday; likely...

It"s unfortunate, because from what I know of her she would be a qualified candidate. Or I guess it would be unfortunate if I was looking to get married right away, which I"m quite undecided on. Actually the hairline hasn"t budged, but yeah it"s thinning no question. Vin Diesel gets bitches all...

Chuck I just flat out screwed up, again that"s readily apparent. But that was a 3 week quickie, not some long drawn out disaster. Xerxes was quite hot, and still is, but just the totally wrong personality type in a lot of ways and I certainly didn"t drag that one out just for her looks nor was...

The jury"s out at this point. I enjoy hanging out with her and she"s pretty much an ideal catch, but there hasn"t been a huge connection from my end. If anything I"m kind of waiting out her classes, which end in April, and then we"ll find out pretty quickly where things are at because the ski...

I"d agree in most cases/situations, but it was on a Monday night. As I"ve said, our schedules are brutal when trying to sync up for even phone calls. Tues-Thurs she has class in the evenings and isn"t typically done until I"m already asleep. Friday-Sunday I"m typically gone for the weekend, and...

I"m not really playing stupid games. Like I said I was curious to see if she"d call, and then got really busy and just kind of forgot to when she didn"t. As far as whether I like her or not, as I"ve said I"m not head over heels but I"ve enjoyed her company to this point and don"t see any reason...

So yeah, it"s been a little over two weeks since we last saw each other or spoke. Up to that point I had called, messaged or texted her first each time to set up dates etc. We haven"t ever really chatted on the phone, typically it"s just a couple minutes of small talk and then bidness setting up...

Have you maybe considered that you were just a little fucker and had it coming? Wolves can do no wrong is all I"m saying.

Yes, I do deny it, because in reality that only happened with Anne. Chuck I just handled incredibly poorly in retrospect, but it was never going to go anywhere anyway due to each of our very different circumstances. Xerxes was in to me just fine, but when she realized that I likely wasn"t all...

Refresh my memory, what happened with that anyway? Didn"t Brad have some quick move in awhile back?

Well, I"m going to use another expression: "getting your foot in the door." I fully agree that if you try to be something that you"re not, you"re bound for failure. But most of the advice in this thread hasn"t been about that at all. Like it or not first impressions last, and there"s nothing...

ugh. Don"t "focus on money." Focus on being a happy, well adjusted, productive, and "complete" individual who doesn"t necessarily need either money or women to be happy. And of course worry about making sure your son is being brought up properly in a good emotional environment. That"s priority...

"likely"

I think he"s more saying that getting into a relationship with someone with that background without realizing that it"s likely going to be emotionally taxing/confusing for both sides is not a good idea.

*shrug* All"s I know is that the past half dozen or so relationships I"ve had, sex has come within the first couple dates (which took place over no more than a week), and they"ve not gone anywhere. So in some ways I"m glad that things in my current situation are proceeding quite slowly, perhaps...