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  1. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Didn"t read the last 30 pages, just wanted to check in and state that I did, in fact, get married to Annie (the woman I met 2 years ago, posted about her in here back then) on July 30th. Next: making babies.
  2. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    This is what everyone should write down in their fucking brains. If you"re coming off as needy, you LOSE. Found out the hard way and didn"t want to believe it. When I met Annie, I was totally indifferent. Hell, I found her sister hot, and that was probably it. Now I"m marrying Annie on our...
  3. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    The engagement ring I bought did not cost anywhere near (monthly salary)x3 ... and I still got told I"m crazy by a) my best man and b) my fianc?e (didn"t tell her the price but I told her it cost more than her wedding ring, which is true). Different culture I guess.
  4. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Yeah.. I wasn"t bashing your whole post; just stating that sometimes there are other reasons. no h8
  5. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    On the whole "if she"s 30 and still has no kids (or a horribly wrecked relationship) to show, something is wrong with her" theory: It"s wrong. My fianc?e (heh) was single for over 10 years before she met me. No one-night-stands either. Nothing. Just her and her hand. Her brother told me...
  6. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Can"t remember if I posted this one a few years ago: There was my best friend"s little sister. I was 20, she was 15, and yeah it probably was legal. Or maybe not. I don"t know and I don"t want to know I was "dating" her for a week, and that "dating" included holding hands, kissing, and...
  7. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Yeah. Evidence in this thread.
  8. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I was going to comment and somehow forgot to. Sorry bro.
  9. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I used to do that with the crazy ex. Call me names now, but a man has to do what he has to do when she demands to talk on the phone every night, and those calls never lasted under 1 hour, often 1.5 hours. Can"t let my raid group wait that long. Only problem was the keyboard... too loud...
  10. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Story sounds almost like mine, minus the flirting. My crazy ex last year always accused me of stuff I didn"t do and in the end it was what ruined our relationship. Tell Tom to grab the puppy and run.
  11. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Thanks for the kind words, folks. I was sort of offline for a few weeks, time to deliver that ring pic. (noticed I managed to fuck up the focus... ah well). It"s Palladium btw. She doesn"t wear gold jewelry and white gold looked too white... I like it a lot. It"s simple, yet somewhat...
  12. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I somehow managed to not post that pic when I still had the ring. Annie usually asks me to "wear something nice" or "let me iron that for you" when we go out with friends... so yesterday I decided to turn it around and as she was getting ready, putting her jewelry on, I said "please, wear a...
  13. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Damn man
  14. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well it might be coincidence - who knows. I"m just saying.
  15. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Considering I mentioned all of those relationships blowing up like the fucking death star, I"d say "no".
  16. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Girls that I fucked within 24 hours of getting into a relationship with: - my ex wife - my crazy ex (early in this thread) - steph (climber girl) from last year - nici, the girl that kept running back to her ex (though technically we were not in a relationship) all of that shit...
  17. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Excellent, best of luck man I agree with Dabamf - experiment. And by experiment I mean go for the girl spanking her, she looks cute in that pic.
  18. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Which one is she again? I"m looking forward to your ski trip reports btw, and I mean it Also, Well that"s different then. There was definitely screaming, namecalling, and days of silence when Marion menopaused onto my feelings. And the reason was always some petty shit that doesn"t matter in...
  19. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    If the fights are always about the same shit, then yes, they do turn into a problem. Not saying the OP is not (part of) the problem.
  20. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Not going to write a fucking book about it, but if she"s also a bit crazy on the side and you get into fights regularly (3 monthsispretty regular), it"s not worth it. 5% of this thread covers me getting back with my ex, and it was not a good idea, though it did seem so at the time.
  21. Ronaan

    Long full disclosure

    Get a Lawyer. Yesterday, if possible.
  22. Ronaan

    Long full disclosure

    Man, I thought my ex was abusive/controlling ... looking back, it wasn"t 1/10th as bad.
  23. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I just wasted a full hour clicking through the first 300 pages of this thread and rofling over last year"s shenanigans. Holy shit, looking back, that was really fun. And by fun I mean I was really fucking stupid back then. Haha!
  24. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Lips in 3rd pic are awesome. If she knows how to use those you"re lost. Might be a bit chubbier than your average poledancer, but still worth checking out I say.
  25. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    ^ this It was the other way round with Steph last year... I *need* the physical touch, she was somewhat different. With Annie now it"s on the same level. We"re both very physical-touch-y, so it works out fine. Now I just need to get her into gaming.
  26. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Ever since my first post about the crazy ex in this thread, my life improved thousandfold. I am more confident about myself, too. Thread is full of win. Latest example: sl4ck3r"s story about daddy"s little princess. Well done P.S. get tested.
  27. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Sounds a lot like my crazy ex.
  28. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Good idea on the shark fishing thing, not so practical though - not enough shark. It"s been a year and a few weeks (Aug 10 2009). I"m looking at "around christmas" for the question. Yeah I know, "too soon". Well I was with the crazy ex for roughly 4.5 years and marrying her never crossed...
  29. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    You guys are probably right... I shouldn"t ask her in front of everyone unless I"m 100% sure she"s waiting for it. I"ll probably try for a lonely moment under the tree in their yard. If she says no, it"s a great place to hide the body. Seriously though, I"m buying that ring, and I"m...
  30. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    No, I"m dead serious.
  31. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well done, congratulations. Trying to think of a way to find out my lady"s ring size without her noticing... We were joking around a bit some weeks ago and when it came to a [ring] she said "Well you can buy me a ring np, just don"t attach any [questions] to it." Deep inside she wants...
  32. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    So during our 2 week holiday earlier this month we packed up my shit, threw half of it away (stuff that"s been sitting in the basement for 2 years, and in the attic 2 years before that, i.e. useless), and moved my remaining possessions to her place for now. Selling my apartment, it"s...
  33. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I wasn"t questioning that fact, but until then it wasn"t clear if he"s diagnosed with it or if it"s just some gut feeling... Duh. Come on, I"ve said much stupider things than that.
  34. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I get it. It"s still possible though (I"m in my mid 30s and until 2 years or so ago I was a real loner. Never made friends myself, only when someone else initiated contact...). Anyway, either way he does it, he needs to do something.
  35. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Yeah well, in 2004 when I banged that nail studio girl (the one who dropped me to stay with some asshole she was unhappy with, because "if i stay with him and have kids some day at least i know they"ll have food on the table", who in turn married a different woman last year), she used to do my...
  36. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Oh. Yeah, been there (Steph, climber girl, last year). It sucks when you do everything right and still end up getting dropped for it because she doesn"t think she deserves it. Or maybe in my case she just wanted a taste of someone else"s cock. Who knows. Bravo. You made a mistake, you stand...
  37. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Hi5bro? I mean, 23 doesn"t make you that much of a manslut. I hope you used protection though. That was stupid and you know it. Did my fair share of drunk driving years ago and I"m glad nobody got hurt. Looking back, I want to kick myself in the nuts for being such a retard. I hope you do too...
  38. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Imagine the blast from the past that hit me straight in the face when I walked through town festival this weekend holding hands with my gf and, lo and behold, the woman from above is crossing my path. I hadn"t seen anything of her in the past 10 years. Had to look twice actually. She still has...
  39. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Latest news: planning to move in with Annie soon (or somewhat soon). Both our places are too small for two people, so I"ll rent out my apartment (bought that two years ago, thought I might need it for longer... ah well, whatever). Staying in the same city, just going to have something with an...
  40. Ronaan

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well said, basically that"s how it is. We"ve been hanging out 4-5 days of the week since the beginning (with me knowing that that"s a big no-no but ignoring it), and lately it"s closer to 6-7 days. Spent a week in greece, get along really well, like each others relatives, they like us back, and...