ARPG suggestions for co-op?

My amazing fiance has been kind enough to pick up gaming as a hobby so is pretty new to games. We did FFXIV MMO which actually was really great for her but ultimately got spread thin abit as we were trying other things out and difficulty started creeping up so i didn't want her to get discouraged too much. Tried a few games but ultimately i'm pretty niche in what i'll play any more myself.

We know do DFFOO on the ipad as a good time killer when chilling and play Smite 90% of the other time which she has picked up actually pretty great. I wanted to expand into something that was abit more drawn out with staying power opposed to just 30 minute matches but still co-op.

So i think ARPG's might be a really good fit. Any suggestions on a ARPG that is abit newer yet has some staying power (expansions/updates, something we can play for a good 12-24+ months)?

I think D3 is abit too far established and just didn't quite like it myself the few stints i've done.

POE while i did enjoy probably might be just abit too complicated for her plus those fuckers banned one of my main accounts for jack shit and then took 3 months to respond to probably 50 emails. Be damned if they get a cent from me again or my time.

Was actually debating Grim Dawn, i did enjoy that when it first came out even though it doesn't have quiet the continuous development as i'd like (2nd expansion coming i guess in 2.5 years).

Any other games for consideration? Tried Warhammer inquisitor but was horrible in beta. There was a Korean one that came out back in Dec that looked really promising and almost a light MMO in a APRG setting but can't remember and of course those tend to be extremely grindy and pay to win.

Appreciate any suggestions!

Actually bought her Divinity Sin 2; i keep saying i'm going to finish it myself 1st to make sure a replay will be easy going for us to co-op. Alas i rerolled and tried new class mods like 10 times in 1 week and havent finished chapter 1 again hah. Maybe in november....but end of the day i do want something with some longevity that we can really sink our teeth into across the next year or so but not that feeling of obligation/addiction that comes with a full blown MMO.

Damn near want to do everquest hah but with us playing smite 1-3 games a day at least i don't think we could find a good balance both being in pretty demanding professional careers. Would be fun to 2 box on FV or something and start from scratch but have a pocket top deck wizard or something to go rape older content. Might actually not be a bad idea....have a pretty high disposable income to enjoy gaming so could throw some money at plat/items to enrich our experience ...

Sounds like MU legends was a bust and cant find any other good recent ARPG's and LostArk doesnt have a global release that i saw.

Appreciate the feedback. Thinking probably will let her try Grimdawn and D3 abit and then sink some pretty good time into them.

The desire to have a actively developed and updated game is because 1) i just dont enjoy 95% of single player games, i rather invest what time i have into something. MMO is definitely the perfect game for me but just don't have the time to commit to be competitive and can't handle being a casual in an MMO....call me an egomanic. 2) Since she is new and while she really enjoys gaming now that i showed her she still ultimately does it for me, its much easier to have 1 game to sink our teeth into for the future vs. something that has a pretty finite end point.

Really, really was watching Mu Legends and was planning on that as it looked perfect as a ARPG but set in a more MMO environement. We went on vacation the week servers went live and i fucking hate missing server openings so i decided not to have us play it. Luckily was a good call by sounds of it, 90% of the player base has been run off.

If Grimdawn had the D3 longevity i'd definitely be all in on that as i loved it when i played to max before but then made the mistake of downloading a tool to help me on alts and lost interst knowing uberness was just a click away. Still will play with her, between smite keeping us busy should still last pretty long just playing here and there and then some power sessions on weekends.

Lost ark still zero global commitments?