He's going to grow up as a guy that got raped by an adult.
Ehhhhhhhhhhhhh
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Okay I wanna preface this by saying, I don't agree with relationships of adults with children. This is just me thinking out the laws and standards in place and our reactions to them.
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I mean I 100% agree there is a double standard when it comes to boys and girls re: sexual encounters at young age and the punishments levied on the adults. The idea that the kid could end up fucked mentally for life almost entirely depends on the type of kid that got sexed and the encounter.
I think the laws need to be re-evaluated and could possibly be changed to be something like:
- If the person to initiate sexual contact is a minor then it should be a MisD, regardless of the role of the adult.
- If the person to initiate sexual contact is an adult and the difference in age is greater than (Arbitrary number) years then it is a felony, regardless of the role of the adult.
- If the person to initiate sexual contact is an adult and the difference in age is less than (Arbitrary number) years then, with regard to the role of the adult, it should be a felony.
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Basically:
- If you are a 26 year old teacher getting hit on by a child and you let them touch you, you would be charged with a MisD.
- If you are a 39 year old Basket Weaver and you convince a child to let you touch them, you get charged with a felony.
- If you are a 26 year old teacher and you convince a child to let you touch them, you get charged with a felony since you are in a position of power over them.
- If you are a 18 year old HS senior and you convince a child to let you touch them, the court would decide if the relationship is consensual and rule on it at that point.
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Ideally the point is to get away from these retarded soccer-moms abusing the "Adult" stipulation when a relationship pops up between their "Child" and an "Adult" (meaning a kid at school that is 18).
When I was growing up, girls around me were super over the top sexual animals, I honestly never thought about it at all growing up because I thought that shit was normal. It was only as an adult that I kinda took a step back and questioned why some girls didn't even masturbate when I experienced other girls that would grind their ass on my dick during school "Dances". So I don't fully understand the aggressiveness that parents have when they hear about their kids doing sexual stuff in the brackets of 13-18. You have been handing your kid the entertainment device for a decade and they have been watching mental programming for 10 years and you think that your kid will be the magical one that doesn't think about sex til 21? No. Your kid will be just another kid that finds "porn" and does the same thing billions of kids before them did. Porn doesn't even LITERALLY have to be PORN, it can be watching the little mermaid, Moana or Frozen.
I'm not saying give each kid a premium pornhub account, I'm just saying that we sit kids down in front of things that we just accept as "normal" and then expect them not to ask questions or seek stimulation til "They reach an age". Most people don't understand that content has gotten more and more stimulating, sexually and otherwise, for decades. Things like "The Bachelor", "Dancing with the Stars", "American Idol" and a slew of other consumer driven shows prey on making yourself appealing in multiple ways. People sit down with their family and watch these shows not even imagining that their kid will construe the parents observation of these things as a tacit approval of the behaviour and the kid will go on to emulate the behaviour observed in the show with the presupposition that the parent will be happy with them emulating that behaviour. The end result is a kid that seeks out multiple partners with varrying degrees of intimacy, each time they do something sexual and hit that dopamine release they will associate the encounter positively and they will attach that feeling, along with their parents adoration of these shows, with an understanding that what they are doing is good and acceptable.
Finally that touches on my changes, we move society in such a way that we sexualize younger and younger and then we tell people "GET FUCKED!" when they finally fall into a relationship with a teen. We always talk about girls as these porcelain dolls of sexuality that get broken by some big bad teacher and we just run under the assumption that boys are just being alpha. Why can't it just be that some people just wanna fuck 24/7 regardless of sex or age( to a degree)? I get that "Or Age" is a really fucking touchy subject and I agree with the sentiment, BUT...we have a shit tier double standard where men get fucked and women fuck in the judicial system because we coddle girls. We have 2 sliders for "give a fuck" and the slider on the boys side is too low while the girls are too high, we need to give a fuck in situations where it's needed and not give a fuck otherwise. We also need to stop showing tacit approval for shit tier relationship and emotional standards though watching utter garbage in media, set a higher standard for ourselves and our kids and we don't even need to change shit, law wise.
