It's ok to feel that way. Nobody is saying you are wrong for feeling that way. Just don't expect a triple A game being designed to "change the market" to recycle dated mechanics from a 14 year old game that rose to prominence under extremely specific circumstances. I wouldn't expect a WoW-anything either, but EQ:Reskinned it will not be.
I'll extrapolate before a hipster attempts to do it for me. EQ was around when the internet and online persistent gaming were pretty new, with 3d online persistent gaming being super new. It was the only game in town for a couple of years, and it was the only working PVE friendly game that wasn't FFXI for longer.
Lots of those memorable players that we ran into during our EQ careers wouldn't have played EQ (at least not very long) had the casual, solo friendly option been available. But it wasn't, so being the only horse in town lead to the very specific circumstances that was the forced "community" that existed in EQ during the early years. It was also much more difficult to box in the early days, as it was a combination of cost and technology prohibitive. Dialup was still the primary internet connection speed during those years, so the average person was not boxing his entire group. From velious+, it was quite easy to box all the necessary classes to effectively group with yourself, which is what many many many people did. Especially at the high end. So yeah, ignorance and newness of the genre, the type of connections available, and the fact that it was the only PVE focused game on the market that worked, all contributed to EQ being what EQ was. The problem arises that those circumstances are all marked false right now, so you have to be a little out of touch to think that the same thing could exist again in the same way.
There is nothing wrong with liking and appreciating that style of gameplay. But EQ:N isn't going to be the same as EQ and even hoping for it is to really just pretend that the last 13 years of technological/mechanical/thematic/social changes didn't happen. The guys at SOE may love their baby "EQ," but they are first and foremost a business. They -know- what has changed in the world and marketplace at large, so seeing a repeat of an idea that flourished under extremely specific circumstances is probably simply not going to happen from any triple A company in their headline products.