dbg cant shut down a server for taking donations and getting alt currency, that is not what brought down THJ... you cannot prove that ever happened. the only mention of $ in the THJ lawsuit was a random comment/hearsay. p99 and takp still take donations.
modifying the client via dll's and providing direct download to their steam repo is what did it... obviously dbg pursued it because of $ but you wont find an eqemu server out there providing their own .dll that modifies the rof2 client... quarm does, but they dont take donations and they are restricted to non custom changes (aka just to fix the bugs that exist in the old eqmac pc hack)
you can read about the rules on eqemu discord. however if you do this the eqemu community will frown on you because it puts them at risk, so thats probably good enough.
why did akkadius nuke everything? (he never once took a donation for anything)... because he was directly responsible for the scaling architecture that THJ needed to support 10k people... that was another thing dbg could present as evidence.
but anyways this server is pretty fun... casters are a little gimp but casters in melee spec will get a /bow from me