The fact that you"re having those feelings tells me that you don"t really want to be in a relationship with DG. Let me see if I can sum up your relationship: comfortable, nice and boring as fuck. Am I close? Be honest with yourself and be honest with her - you"re young and you"re in a situation a lot of people would kill to be in and you"re not letting yourself enjoy it because you want to play it safe. Break up with her (tell her the truth, don"t be a pussy and lie), enjoy yourself and don"t look back. The time for a steady, long-term relationship will come; no reason to try and force it now if it"s not there.
Girls who broke your heart thread
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If a girl you"re interested in has hinted interest of a threesome or tells you she"s had a threesome with one of her girlfriends and a "random" guy (says she didn"t coitus though)
Whats your take on it?
(When I say: "has hinted interest", I mean she didn"t jump on, but didn"t really oppose to the idea)
P.S. Shes 19ish and apparently has a tendency to not oppose "foreign" suggestions or advice, even though she probably doesn"t really agree with said suggestions. She seems to be a go with the flow kind of person until put on the spot about it.
EDIT: I forgot to mention, the opportunity arose at her friends house twice or so.
We were hanging out one night at one her best friends house and she (her best-friend) brought up the topic. I totally played it off because, I don"t like her friend in that way, because shes already a "fatal" attraction.
Whats your take on it?
(When I say: "has hinted interest", I mean she didn"t jump on, but didn"t really oppose to the idea)
P.S. Shes 19ish and apparently has a tendency to not oppose "foreign" suggestions or advice, even though she probably doesn"t really agree with said suggestions. She seems to be a go with the flow kind of person until put on the spot about it.
EDIT: I forgot to mention, the opportunity arose at her friends house twice or so.
We were hanging out one night at one her best friends house and she (her best-friend) brought up the topic. I totally played it off because, I don"t like her friend in that way, because shes already a "fatal" attraction.
I forgot to mention, the opportunity arose at her friends house twice or so.
We were hanging out one night at one her best friends house and she (her best-friend) brought up the topic. I totally played it off because, I don"t like her friend in that way, because shes already a "fatal" attraction.
We were hanging out one night at one her best friends house and she (her best-friend) brought up the topic. I totally played it off because, I don"t like her friend in that way, because shes already a "fatal" attraction.
yea bro hit it and split it AMIRITE?!OhSeven said:
that was just sad even for youaychamo_aycono said:
forgot, vim, are you really asking if you should have a 3-some that is apparently well within your grasp?
Dolce and Gabbana. Same brand as that spiffy little case your boyfriend bought you for your dental dams so he can still harpoon your face when those pesky little "canker" sores are acting up.aychamo_aycono said:
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Hm. I"d like to thank you guys for the the feedback on the hand full of postings I made. The guy who suggested "go caveman" and the "just tell her" were both right, btw.
We met, got some food, did some talking about the fight on sunday (mostly to delay what I was going to say after that; and actually I got burned hard because I messed up on sunday, not her). So after apologizing I tell her what I feel and that "just friends" is no more an option for me.
She tells me that she thought about it alot but me leaving in 2 months makes it pointless. Yea, forgot to mention that in previous posts. Going back to Germany for an internship and two semesters soon, but plan on coming back here.
So anyway, I change topic because there is no point in discussing something like that or reasoning with her about feelings. We met the others, watched a great show, said goodbye to the others and were walking towards the next underground station when she brought the topic up again. She basicly informed me that she is still thinking about what I said earlier. So I told her that it was no yes/no questions, just information so she can prepare herself.
When we were about to part, I said goodbye and turned away. The curt way I did it was a gamble tbh, but it payed off. Stayed at her place.
Now that I have the girl the difficult part begins :/
We met, got some food, did some talking about the fight on sunday (mostly to delay what I was going to say after that; and actually I got burned hard because I messed up on sunday, not her). So after apologizing I tell her what I feel and that "just friends" is no more an option for me.
She tells me that she thought about it alot but me leaving in 2 months makes it pointless. Yea, forgot to mention that in previous posts. Going back to Germany for an internship and two semesters soon, but plan on coming back here.
So anyway, I change topic because there is no point in discussing something like that or reasoning with her about feelings. We met the others, watched a great show, said goodbye to the others and were walking towards the next underground station when she brought the topic up again. She basicly informed me that she is still thinking about what I said earlier. So I told her that it was no yes/no questions, just information so she can prepare herself.
When we were about to part, I said goodbye and turned away. The curt way I did it was a gamble tbh, but it payed off. Stayed at her place.
Now that I have the girl the difficult part begins :/