Girls who broke your heart thread
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Pretty much could have stopped there. The one-time sex thing is whatever, the kid sleeping by the bed with both of you in it was fucked up enough.Camerous Valde Unus said:
RUN LIKE THE WIND.
Spit man, lots and lots of spit. And the kid thing is kind of weird. Just enjoy that for what it is and get out sometime soon, she sounds like a piece of work lol.Camerous Valde Unus said:
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Are you really fucking asking advice on this? ARE YOU FUCKING REALLY ASKING FOR ADVICE HERE?Camerous Valde Unus said:
JESUS CHRIST
Are you really that fucking desperate that you have to... I don"t even, god damn you"re stupid dude. This woman is a one of a kind, you should get her pregnant and marry her instantly.
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Bro, suggest that she get you off with her mouth/hands/feet/rear entry/titties before you do the deed first, then go with the vagoo. As for the kid watching,Camerous Valde Unus said:
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The jerking off thing is weird...I don"t see why undressing is though, it"s family, who cares?
I personally think it"s more weird you"re sitting there picturing the kid wanting a piece of his mom...
I personally think it"s more weird you"re sitting there picturing the kid wanting a piece of his mom...
The undressing thing I guess depends on the age of the kid. After a certain age it"s a little inappropriate. Mostly though, what sort of parent is perfectly okay with getting (mostly) naked into bed with some dude she"s only been seeing for three weeks?Darus Grey said:
Maybe things are different these days but I doubt as a kid I even would have met any boyfriends my mom had only been seeing for less than a month.
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Undressing in front of her kid isn"t weird. Undressing--in front of a man she is casually sleeping with--in front of her kid is weird. Doing sexual things in front of her kid is really weird, and doing sexual things in front of her kid with a man who she is only casually seeing is really fuckin weird.
And by weird I mean she"s a terrible mother. Marry her and save the day
And by weird I mean she"s a terrible mother. Marry her and save the day
I"ve been doing the OkCupid thing for a month or so after splitting from my ex and having no luck whatsoever. I normally don"t have trouble starting something up through the internets but it"s always been through facebook, or before facebook became so popular, instant messaging. I"ve banged a half dozen or so women almost solely using social networking as a springboard but 90% of the time it was someone I"d already met in person through friends or school but I can"t get anything going through OkCupid. It"s my first experience with an online dating site and the casual seemingly innocent conversations that worked so well in the past haven"t worked at all through this platform. I get contacted fairly frequently by attractive women, and almost always get responses back from women I contact but after a few messages it goes nowhere and I never get to the point of actually meeting up.
I"m not going about it as a creeper or clearly desperate for sex douche repeatedly asking to meet up or hook up, and I mostly just bullshit about music, school, shared interests or whatever but it never goes anywhere. Not really sure what I"m doing wrong here. Not trying to be arrogant but I"m a pretty attractive guy with a good body and it shows in my pics, and my profile indicates I"m almost done with school for a high-paying career field Figured I could snag a few "respectable" chicks or just shallow gold-diggers for a quick bang... I don"t actually say I"m going to make lots of money and be rich though, it"s just implied. I just never get past idle chatter. I"m somewhat selective and only hit up women that are clearly attractive and don"t clash with deal-breakers (no kids, "I LOVE JEEBUS THA LAWD" religious types, fatties, or complete and obvious idiots). Thus, I haven"t actively conversed with more than 10-15 women but can"t seem to get to the phase of meeting in person.
Any tips on getting past messaging stage? I"ve got confidence and looks on my side in person, and can usually seal the deal and get laid on first date/encounter... I just can"t get there using the dating site.
I"m not going about it as a creeper or clearly desperate for sex douche repeatedly asking to meet up or hook up, and I mostly just bullshit about music, school, shared interests or whatever but it never goes anywhere. Not really sure what I"m doing wrong here. Not trying to be arrogant but I"m a pretty attractive guy with a good body and it shows in my pics, and my profile indicates I"m almost done with school for a high-paying career field Figured I could snag a few "respectable" chicks or just shallow gold-diggers for a quick bang... I don"t actually say I"m going to make lots of money and be rich though, it"s just implied. I just never get past idle chatter. I"m somewhat selective and only hit up women that are clearly attractive and don"t clash with deal-breakers (no kids, "I LOVE JEEBUS THA LAWD" religious types, fatties, or complete and obvious idiots). Thus, I haven"t actively conversed with more than 10-15 women but can"t seem to get to the phase of meeting in person.
Any tips on getting past messaging stage? I"ve got confidence and looks on my side in person, and can usually seal the deal and get laid on first date/encounter... I just can"t get there using the dating site.
You are messaging the ones that are getting hundreds of messages a day. You will need to do more to stand out from the herd I am afraid.Wrathcaster said:
Normally, if we"re still talking I just mention casually something like, "we should hang out" and the chick"s usually down, but I don"t really have a follow up and fall out of contact. A few times I didn"t get a response at all and just said fuck it. For example, the last chick I was talking to I said something to the effect of, you seem cool, want to chill sometime? The response I get is "depends, do u smoke? if so then definitely" to which I say yeah but my hookup moved away. She says hers did too and I haven"t talked to her in days.Awlbiste said:
I guess I haven"t been assertive enough. IRL, I don"t normally have to ask women out, they ask me. Again, not trying to be arrogant but it"s just the way it happens most of the time. I talk to a chick for a while and I get invited out. Whenever I ask a woman to come out with me, it"s almost always informal and in a party situation, and I don"t really have to do anything. After hanging out I"ll hit her up and see if she wants get dinner or something and that"s the most I"ll do. Basically I"ve fallen into bad habits by having sex and relationships given to me, rather than going out and getting them through affirmative efforts. When you don"t really have to try, it"s hard to get experience trying.
I just don"t have much experience asking someone out on a date. It"s typically not how I start relationships or get laid... In person or talking with someone I already know, it just sort of works for me and I roll from there, but I"ve never had much luck with randoms unless it"s a drunken hookup at a bar or concert or something. I definitely don"t use pickup lines or cliches, and I feel like a total weird cheeseball hitting on people I don"t know at all.
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I"ve had the same issue lately, I don"t rush into asking for a date. I"ll casually chat on and off with someone for a week or more, seem like we"re hitting it off, then suddenly they poof, or the second I suggest meeting they stop responding.
I swear most of them get off on having lots of guys trying to get with them on dating sites with no intention of actually meeting anyone.
It"s also frustrating that I have to carry a conversation for two people, I have to ask the open ended questions, I have to come up with new topics to talk about, I have to end the awkward silences, I"ve forced myself the rule of 3 messages without responses = give up and move on. Online dating has spoiled far too many girls with far too many desperate guys so they act like a bunch of spoiled bitches.
I swear most of them get off on having lots of guys trying to get with them on dating sites with no intention of actually meeting anyone.
It"s also frustrating that I have to carry a conversation for two people, I have to ask the open ended questions, I have to come up with new topics to talk about, I have to end the awkward silences, I"ve forced myself the rule of 3 messages without responses = give up and move on. Online dating has spoiled far too many girls with far too many desperate guys so they act like a bunch of spoiled bitches.