lost said:
I think if a girl told me she was naked every time we talked and how she cant give up dick, I would have made my move for my own piece of mind then moved on if it wasnt a signal. Sounds crazy, even then she"s so liberal I"d be scared how liberal she"d be with other guys if I was banging/dating her. Maybe keep her as a now and then fuck buddy..
The problem is, when she started telling me these things, I was ~800 miles away. None of it was in person, except for a few odd comments about sex in general and women"s lib bullshit. I only actually hung out with her in person once or twice, and it was just to get a sack and smoke with her, since I didn"t want to be rude and grab the gear and dash. In all that time, I never got the feeling she was coming on to me. Then again, she knew basically nothing about me then aside from the fact that I smoked. Once she found out I have absolutely no religious or political convictions, she started talking to me online or through texts pretty much every day.
As far as being crazy goes, she is on antidepressants and has been doing a lot of various psychedelics lately. But she is sane enough to make it through a semester of law school with good grades and seems to be on a pretty even keel whenever I"m around... No loud outbursts, no random crying, no violent mood shifts between mania and depression, and no noticeable signs of mental illness...
I"m interested primarily because I think she"d be fun in the sack and I like fucking with chicks who are open minded about drugs and politics. My last girlfriend would trip with me, smoked with me every day, and would pretty much let me do whatever I wanted without any kind of scolding. I know that must sound like a pretty shitty reason to get involved with someone, and that I"m basing a lot of my decisions concerning her with substances in mind, but I have a serious problem with people telling me what to do and not being understanding about my lifestyle.
I"m not an addict and I don"t do the particularly nasty shit like coke, heroin, meth, etc and neither does she. I"m an extremely heavy drinker on weekends and special occasions and she is a moderate drinker at best, which is a plus in my book. I think getting with anyone who drinks as much as I do would probably be trouble. Mainly I just enjoy tripping and smoking and I love doing those things with girls... And I love fucking when I"m tripping.
I say she"s a 6/10 but I have weird standards. She has a great face and awesome boobs/ass, but is ~10-15 pounds overweight, mostly in the midsection. Doesn"t have a big gut, but doesn"t have a totally flat one either. She"s the kind of girl who in the right myspace angle, would make you go OH SNAP, but in person is less stunning. I have a problem with any girl who weighs more than me, and considering I"m a pretty small dude weighing less than 150 at my heaviest, it comes up quite a bit. Basically, she loses 2 points because she has a little too much weight around her arms and stomach. I"ve seen older pics and she was trim and pretty gorgeous.
I also have an unhealthy attraction to people with problems... I have my fair share as well. Behavioral perfection unnerves me for some reason, and I"ve never really understood why.
I guess I"ll make a pass after I pick her up this weekend. This month has fucked me up considerably. The day of my dad"s funeral I found out that he and my mom separated not because of money, but because she cheated on him when I was a baby. I haven"t been the same since I found that out. I"m trying to get my old self back, but I"ve had several chances to hook up with two ex"s and just couldn"t figure out how to go about it, like I was 14 again with all the awkwardness associated. I"ve never had a problem with that before. Christ, I don"t know why I"d tell you guys this, but honestly I trust some of your fucked up advice more than I would a shrink.
Anyone ever had success with a ultra-liberal, psychedelic loving, sex crazed, anti-depressant taking pothead? How"d that work out?