Girls who broke your heart thread

Tarrant220 said:

Correction: I saw her takeTHEpill.

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Yeah, whatever makes you feel less played!

Don"t mind hm he likes penis

So you think she"s never had sex in her life and just suddenly the pill decided just not to work? Tons of research dollars have been thrown into this thing the odds it just "doesn"t work for her" are about zero.

Tenks is right about the pill. When taken properly, it works 100% of the time. The "miss" rate is a product of human error and probably helps them avoid lawsuits by morons who don"t use it properly.

Factor in the fact that you were apparently using a condom and the already infinitesimally small chance of pregnancy drops to zero.

Somebody fucked up.

That said, I"m very glad you two are happy about it.

Brad2770 said:

Been hanging out with [Julie] now for 2 weeks. Thurs morning, we had plans, but was cancelled because someone side swiped the passenger side of her car. She is ok and the car is drivable. She was pretty pissed off. She called me right after the wreck and later that day and also sent me pics of the damage.

Since we have been hanging out, there have been quite a few sexual advances, mostly due to her. She makes comments that she is still surprised that I ignored her when she was my tenant, but now we are getting "close". Gauging how things are going, sex would have happened soon.

Anyways, back to my issue- We made plans Thurs evening to meet for breakfast Friday morning. I called at 8am and again at 10am. Nothing. I called last night. Nothing. I know I am to leave things alone now, but what is going on?

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I haven"t really mentioned her much more because it"s been up and down for the last couple of months. The logical part of me told me to leave her alone, but she was fun and I still felt she was interested in me so i would leave her alone for a couple of weeks and then I would contact her or she would contact me. Anyways, started talking to her again 3 days ago. She completely opened up to me, almost so much, it freaked me out. We had already made plans to go out last night, so i didnt want to be like her and stand her up (She even called me to make sure I was still going and said "I was just making sure you werent going to get revenge and stand me up").

Anyways, I had a lot of fun. Got a little drunk and fucked her. First Mexican chic I have fucked and I really have no words. She did shit I have only seen in porn. I am at a loss for words.

Still not sure how I feel though. She was very standoff-ish before and now she is completely open with her feelings and seems like she could be clingy. It"s a complete 180.

No, it"s actually kind of funny. The stripper is acting the same way. Like she is interested, but when I mention things to do, she is always "too busy". This is how Julie acted for the last three months pretty much. I told the stripper I refuse to come back to her job to see her, so if she wants to see me, she has to go out with me on a normal "date". She hasnt asked em to come to her job, but I wanted to make it clear that i wouldnt before she did.

The above chic (Julie) is the one that was my tenant for like 2 years at my old job and she said she had a crush on me, but I was married, so I didnt talk to her. We bumped into each other back in April and it"s been up and down since then.

brekk said:

I doubt it was an intentional fuck up. My GF is terrible with her birth control sometimes.

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Oh good lord, I had so many panic attacks because of this. I am pretty sure I die rather early because this shit is going to kill me. I hope she will somehow manage to follow a simple routine for another two years or so, then I wont care anymore. Its like extremely bad for a major fuckup like this in our lives right now.

Tarrant220 said:

She had never been on the pill before, for some women it"s not effective even when taken. With her however we believe it was a few other medications she is on that caused the effectiveness of it to decrease, which there was a chance for it to do.

That being said, The Pill has no effect for my ex wife either, even taken at the same time each day and every day she can still conceive which is why after she had her twins she just had herself tied off.

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Ok, so you left out some very important facts. Her taking "other medication" fucks up the whole birth control process of the pill - which both of you should have known about and prepared for. So basically you both fucked up.

He left out the facts because it"s none of our fucking business. He wasn"t saying "WOE IZ ME I HAVE A KID I DUNNO WHY!?" He only started talking about it when someone tried calling him out.

Second, I don"t think you "fuck up" if you"re happy about the consequences of what happened and take responsibility for them. Saying he fucked up is a pretty moot point, plus you sound like a douchebag.

Getting kinda snippy there aren"t we? You"re the one who told everyone you knocked up your girlfriend after knowing her for three months. You"re smart enough to expect comments here and there! .. Right?

Oh, I figured that. I am not looking to get married. If I am the one getting laid, i dont mind at all.