Girls who broke your heart thread
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the only reason i can see why you"d want to pay is to play the alpha male role.
if you"re paying without her knowing about it i don"t see the point of it at all.
if you"re paying without her knowing about it i don"t see the point of it at all.
She"s going to know as soon as her statement shows up and there"s no charge from the restaurant. I guess you could push the lie, "wow they must have screwed up and not charged", but if you like her, you really want to start off the relationship lying just to maintain your ego? Especially about dumb crap like this?
Believe it or not, it"s just as important to some women to pay sometimes as it is to you to always pay. If she has any kind of independant side, she"ll probably be pissed off when she finds out what you did.
Believe it or not, it"s just as important to some women to pay sometimes as it is to you to always pay. If she has any kind of independant side, she"ll probably be pissed off when she finds out what you did.
Failure.Saidin said:
She needs to pay AT LEAST half of everything you guys do together. Rule of thumb is like.. whenever she paid more than you overall, youre good.
Why? First it makes her invest into you, which is what you want.
Second, if you pay for stuff you make her a whore. You dont want to be with a whore and you dont want her to feel like a whore. Hell, you dont want to feel like you are paying for sex(/relationship/timespendtogether).
Stop whatever you are doing, clear your mind of your stupidity and then keep going, letting her pay next time.
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Eomer
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This. If she"s a decent, independent girl she"ll WANT to pay from time to time, even if it"s not exactly 50/50. Frankly I don"t care who pays and will generally grab the bill first, but if they want to pay I just say "okay great thanks for dinner" and leave it at that.MorinkhanMT said:
Went out on a date with Lilly today to go bike around a park and some sightseeing. As well as going shopping for a new jacket.
Things went well, she ended up paying for lunch which threw me a little bit.
I have noticed that I have an issue with kino escalation. At least with people that are not my girlfriend or good friends, I always feel a little strange with personal contact. Because I know this is an issue for me, I make it a habit of watching when other people initiate contact and attempt to replicate it. I have no problem with handshakes or eye contact. I have started offering my hand to women on dates as we walk down stairs. But I just cant escalate the kino very well...
As for the Nora/Jenny situation, went out with Nora last night, she ended up confessing that she is interested in me but cannot do anything because Jenny is starstruck with me. So I got a bit of good advice on what to do, just have to put that into action.
Ivana (the ex girlfriend) wants to get back together, even though she is talking about wanting to get married and I am not interested in that at the moment. Its not fair to her to string her along, but if she knows my intentions from the outset I cannot be held at fault for having fun with her while we wait for other things... (after typing that out, it sounds like an awful idea)
Oh well, many other women around, and plenty more to meet!
Things went well, she ended up paying for lunch which threw me a little bit.
I have noticed that I have an issue with kino escalation. At least with people that are not my girlfriend or good friends, I always feel a little strange with personal contact. Because I know this is an issue for me, I make it a habit of watching when other people initiate contact and attempt to replicate it. I have no problem with handshakes or eye contact. I have started offering my hand to women on dates as we walk down stairs. But I just cant escalate the kino very well...
As for the Nora/Jenny situation, went out with Nora last night, she ended up confessing that she is interested in me but cannot do anything because Jenny is starstruck with me. So I got a bit of good advice on what to do, just have to put that into action.
Ivana (the ex girlfriend) wants to get back together, even though she is talking about wanting to get married and I am not interested in that at the moment. Its not fair to her to string her along, but if she knows my intentions from the outset I cannot be held at fault for having fun with her while we wait for other things... (after typing that out, it sounds like an awful idea)
Oh well, many other women around, and plenty more to meet!
AAAAAAhahaha this is a funny thread. Hey guys Today I was trying find this old porn video that I remember being really hot but I couldn"t find it. I had to end up resorting to redtube and it made me really depressed.
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I"m one of those suckers that still downloads porn. Everytime I tried to use a tube site it looked like I was watching vintage VHS grainy shit.
Two of my friends told me that they really do not like Nora. They told me its a womens intuition about why they don"t. I assume they know something about her that I do not and are just refusing to tell me.
Went out with Ivy last night, that girl just makes me melt but its shitty knowing nothing will happen with her. We kissed twice but there was no feeling behind it, so as for now, thats dead in the water.
So for those of you keeping track.. that leaves:
Nora (friends do not like her)
Jenny (I do not like her as much as Nora)
Ivana (wants a very serious relationship)
Ivy (dead in the water, but still hot and fun)
Lilly (strangely at the head of the pack...)
Jenny invited me out for sushi this weekend, but I had to turn that down since we have a tentatively planned boys weekend out.
Went out with Ivy last night, that girl just makes me melt but its shitty knowing nothing will happen with her. We kissed twice but there was no feeling behind it, so as for now, thats dead in the water.
So for those of you keeping track.. that leaves:
Nora (friends do not like her)
Jenny (I do not like her as much as Nora)
Ivana (wants a very serious relationship)
Ivy (dead in the water, but still hot and fun)
Lilly (strangely at the head of the pack...)
Jenny invited me out for sushi this weekend, but I had to turn that down since we have a tentatively planned boys weekend out.
It will be easier once you figure out what the hell YOU want. Do you want to date, just want your willy wet, or do you have a long-term relationship goal here?
Think about that.
Think about that.
Nope not from Ohio, although I have been there a couple times. I am no longer in California either, but I am hesitant of posting my whereabouts (I do have a crazy stalker)
As for what I want:
A girl that looks as great with a martini and a set of pearls as she does with a beer and a sweatshirt.
A girl as comfortable sitting at home on the couch as she is drinking at the lions head pub in london, a cafe at the Champs Elysees, a beerhall in munich, or a hole in the wall in hong kong.
Someone that isnt afraid of introducing me to the things she likes to do, as well as willing to try the things that I like to do.
If she gets home first: Someone that will give me about a half hour of me time when I get home from work to relax and unwind before any questions or anything like that.
If I get home first: Someone that appreciates the thought that goes into making her favorite drink and having her sit on the couch with the remote or whatever her fancy maybe then talking about her day.
Someone that will rock my socks off in the bedroom, or the kitchen counter, or wherever it happens to take place. But can still act like a lady in front of my mother.
Pretty much, I want it all. I have had bits and pieces and everytime a relationship ends, I end up setting my standards higher, because why should I settle for something less?
Right now, I am not ready to be married or have a kid. But I am ready for a longer term relationship (with the right girl).
One of the reasons I post about this is because perhaps writing it down and seeing it and having other people read it might get me to see a better decision. For example, getting back with Ivana seemed like a great idea, until I wrote it down.
As for what I want:
A girl that looks as great with a martini and a set of pearls as she does with a beer and a sweatshirt.
A girl as comfortable sitting at home on the couch as she is drinking at the lions head pub in london, a cafe at the Champs Elysees, a beerhall in munich, or a hole in the wall in hong kong.
Someone that isnt afraid of introducing me to the things she likes to do, as well as willing to try the things that I like to do.
If she gets home first: Someone that will give me about a half hour of me time when I get home from work to relax and unwind before any questions or anything like that.
If I get home first: Someone that appreciates the thought that goes into making her favorite drink and having her sit on the couch with the remote or whatever her fancy maybe then talking about her day.
Someone that will rock my socks off in the bedroom, or the kitchen counter, or wherever it happens to take place. But can still act like a lady in front of my mother.
Pretty much, I want it all. I have had bits and pieces and everytime a relationship ends, I end up setting my standards higher, because why should I settle for something less?
Right now, I am not ready to be married or have a kid. But I am ready for a longer term relationship (with the right girl).
One of the reasons I post about this is because perhaps writing it down and seeing it and having other people read it might get me to see a better decision. For example, getting back with Ivana seemed like a great idea, until I wrote it down.