Wow, way to jump the gun(
Rune, fuck you and your stupid prejudice, you uncultivated bastard). Sadly, I am not surprised.
Instinctual emotions referred to making friends, travelling the world, possibly moving to another country to find "a better life", alone time, personal space, etc.
I am really social person and I make it a personal mission to put myself second and them first, nothing sexual about it, at least not when I am already in a relationship. My partner, being younger isn"t so quick to make friends and/or socialize like I do. I also like to listen to other people problems and try to give them advice, she sometimes gets bothered by this. For example, I"ve become better friends with her friends girlfriends, and even some gay guy friends too, than she has.
Second, my education comes first, and right now I going for another bachelors and quite possibly a masters. Even before I met her I"ve said that I am not interested in fully committing to anything till I have this sorted out... Same thing goes to possible immigration to another country be it work related or personally motivated.
Lastly, even though I am very social, I also like to be alone for extended periods of time, this, sometimes bothers her as well.
Reason I really asked this is because I would love to have the one life partner situation in my life, but it seems from other peoples personal experience... The least successful marriages and commitments, including of various family members and especially close friends, seem to be from people who followed blindly silly myths about how telling yourself irrational reasons for something that isn"t from personal experience. Yes, there are successful, relationships that work this way, but still everyone has doubts and everyone questions themselves. If you tell me you don"t or you aren"t supposed to, fuck you, and stop posting because you know nothing.
My parents have been together for 35-40 years and before they got married (not a big fan of marriage) they broke up, took sometime apart, got back together; at least 3 times. They did see other people, but it wasn"t their reason, but they always tell me it reinforced the feelings they had for each other. I can mention at least another 10 cases like this.
However, I look at the divorced family members, divorced friends, lonesome family members and friends (which obviously outnumber the succesful ones), and the pattern seems clear. Relationships that were based on lack of experience, were based on the fairy tale story, getting married because of family, social and sometimes religious pressure; failed miserably. Obviously, this isn"t a rule, but it makes the most sense. Shit, one of my friends parents were together 26 years before they got married, they lasted 1 year married, explain...
Thats not the point though, fuck I even forgot why I wrote all this.
EDIT:
@Saladus Actually the phrase "If you love her let her go and if she loves you she will come back" is true but most men wait to long to let them go or artificially extend it when things start going downhill and letting it drag on.
I"ve been through this in both ways but an example to you is: What do asshole Alpha males do to women that makes them come back? They dump THEM. Usually in a non-chalant "Oh sorry it"s me not you, love you babe bye" kind of simple statement.
No explanations, no real apologies, no real sorrow in their voice, no real concern for her feelings, and what does she do? Cuss him out to every male friend she sees while writing him a dozen letters detailing her love for him.
Some of the "males" with successful relationships or marriages that I"ve talked to (including my father and my fathers friends) have sort of confessed to acting like this in an indirect or direct way. Adding more fuel to my reasoning behind my questioning.