I"m sick of him shitting up every thread I"m in. Hey, post something you"ve dedicated years of your life to, and have the rest of us ridicule it, kaygkillah. You"re so sure I can"t deliver? Shut the fuck up about itpermanentlyor man up and ban bet me.
Girls who broke your heart thread
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Just because she is crazy doesn"t mean you should act like a retard, too. If you just up and leave her, you will fuck her up for life even more than she is now.
Just make it gradual. Stay distant for a while, tell her you"re thinking. She"ll start worrying which will essentially prepare her for when you say you want to move out temporarily, which will prepare her for making it permanent. Normally this is what people do naturally and is what I think is really cowardly and torturing. But in this case it seems like the biggest worry is some rash action by her that could end up with someone dead or in the hospital, so slow and gradual is preferred.
This is in theory. Of course, doing it slow could just fuck with her head even more and you both end up in the paper.
Typical response. Knew he would just shrug it off and not actually back up his shit talk. E-bullys are cool d00d.Ser Kegkilla said:
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Ok, so I tried talking to her about it. We sat down last night and I explained that I can"t continue to live life like I have been. That is, to feel like I always have to walk on egg shells around her for fear of her getting offended and exploding due to some offhand, harmless comment/question. And I can"t continue having her question my devotion to her and being so jealous about me saying a good thing about a female, or being around females.
As expected, she cried a lot, begged and pleaded, but I stood my ground. Eventually she wandered out into the hall and down into the courtyard of our building, but I refused to follow her. Finally she came back up and collapsed on our floor, and starting saying she was dying and her heart was barely beating. I called an ambulance, despite her begging me not to, and sat with her while we waited. When they arrived she grabbed my arms and legs and physically tried to stop me from answering the door, and eventually I didn"t answer because she sat up and started talking normally again.
We continued talking all night, mostly her asking for "one more chance" and me saying "No, I can"t." We"ve already been through this song and dance at least 2 other times, with each time her promising to change, and each time me giving her one more chance and then it repeated a few months later. So I told her I can"t take it anymore.
I eventually calmed her down enough so we could both sleep a bit, but in the morning, when I told her I hadn"t changed my mind, the begging and pleading began again, and she started bargaining about fixing her "complexes". I told her that it"s too late, that I"ve given her chances, and that"s my final decision. But she just doesn"t want to accept it.
She doesn"t have anywhere to go so I haven"t asked her to leave, but if she continues to refuse to accept it I"m going to just pack up my valuables, grab my passport, and walk out. I feel like I"ve done all I can.
We"re both still in the apartment at the moment, but I"ve emotionally checked out, and I told her as much.
As expected, she cried a lot, begged and pleaded, but I stood my ground. Eventually she wandered out into the hall and down into the courtyard of our building, but I refused to follow her. Finally she came back up and collapsed on our floor, and starting saying she was dying and her heart was barely beating. I called an ambulance, despite her begging me not to, and sat with her while we waited. When they arrived she grabbed my arms and legs and physically tried to stop me from answering the door, and eventually I didn"t answer because she sat up and started talking normally again.
We continued talking all night, mostly her asking for "one more chance" and me saying "No, I can"t." We"ve already been through this song and dance at least 2 other times, with each time her promising to change, and each time me giving her one more chance and then it repeated a few months later. So I told her I can"t take it anymore.
I eventually calmed her down enough so we could both sleep a bit, but in the morning, when I told her I hadn"t changed my mind, the begging and pleading began again, and she started bargaining about fixing her "complexes". I told her that it"s too late, that I"ve given her chances, and that"s my final decision. But she just doesn"t want to accept it.
She doesn"t have anywhere to go so I haven"t asked her to leave, but if she continues to refuse to accept it I"m going to just pack up my valuables, grab my passport, and walk out. I feel like I"ve done all I can.
We"re both still in the apartment at the moment, but I"ve emotionally checked out, and I told her as much.
I have a friend in his 30s who"s been dating a russian girl for several years. She attempted to burn a bunch of his stuff in the bathtub once while he was home. He still doesn"t know why.
A few months later, he thought they had resolved their problems. She looked into his browser history and found some porn, he came home and the second he came through the door she attacked him with a knife and sent him to the hospital.
They"re still together.
My dad"s buddy divorced his wife for a russian girl, all the stereotypes about old fat white guys and golddiggers apply in this scenario. Two years later (after her green card went into permanent residency) he wakes up and his bank accounts are cleared out, and she"s back in russia. He died of a massive heart attack a month later. Since he was never able to get the paperwork through to divorce her she got pretty much everything and now owns his house.
On the other hand my russian friend has an equally crazy/hot wife but somehow doesn"t seem to mind getting beaten up by her in public with zero provocation, until inevitably she breaks down and starts crying.
A few months later, he thought they had resolved their problems. She looked into his browser history and found some porn, he came home and the second he came through the door she attacked him with a knife and sent him to the hospital.
They"re still together.
My dad"s buddy divorced his wife for a russian girl, all the stereotypes about old fat white guys and golddiggers apply in this scenario. Two years later (after her green card went into permanent residency) he wakes up and his bank accounts are cleared out, and she"s back in russia. He died of a massive heart attack a month later. Since he was never able to get the paperwork through to divorce her she got pretty much everything and now owns his house.
On the other hand my russian friend has an equally crazy/hot wife but somehow doesn"t seem to mind getting beaten up by her in public with zero provocation, until inevitably she breaks down and starts crying.
Don"t wait any further, get your truly valuable and irreplacable shit together now and keep it on you or at work until she leaves or you do.McCheese said:
Longer you stay there a bigger the chances you guys reconcile. Or she pulls something cuckoo-bananas.McCheese said:
(PS Aamina, was I right about the Witchblade thing)
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An honorable way to end it too. Better then just chicken shit vanishing into the night.Haast said:
Just don"t let it sour future relationships. Any and every girl you"re going to date is going to get irrationally angry at you about some stupid shit. Just be prepared in the future to ignore them when they do instead of fucking it up like you did with this chick. Talking or trying to reason/argue with them only makes it worse and reinforces the behavior.
LIke I said, treat it the same way you would a child throwing a tantrum. Ignore it. Either they correct the behavior and are worth keeping or it gets worse and you curb them.
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Two songs by one band sum up this entire thread.
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On another note. Single life is going fine. Working, been poking my nose around online dating again chatted with a girl or two. Haven"t put any effort in yet.
Went on first legit date with a girl I hadn"t talked to in close to 3 years. Past few weeks I"ve met up with her twice for coffee at a Dunkin just to chat. Went to see Contagion this afternoon.
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On another note. Single life is going fine. Working, been poking my nose around online dating again chatted with a girl or two. Haven"t put any effort in yet.
Went on first legit date with a girl I hadn"t talked to in close to 3 years. Past few weeks I"ve met up with her twice for coffee at a Dunkin just to chat. Went to see Contagion this afternoon.
Yes, Keg successfully pisses me off. Mission accomplished for a troll or whatever. I don"t feel the need to "redeem" myself, but I"m sure everyone would love to see some stamped T&A. And I have it, but seriously, screw posting it when there"s a gigantic faggot shitting up every thread I post in for no reason. He says I can"t get it, I say, let"s bet.
Of course he won"t, because e-faggots like Keg claim to be super manly and all alpha, but when it comes down to it he won"t respond to a real challenge. I will ban bet that I can provide, can he back his shit-talk up? Of course not.
Now back to your regularly scheduled GWBYHT.
Of course he won"t, because e-faggots like Keg claim to be super manly and all alpha, but when it comes down to it he won"t respond to a real challenge. I will ban bet that I can provide, can he back his shit-talk up? Of course not.
Now back to your regularly scheduled GWBYHT.