I spent a minute or so trying to figure out how to say this is not neccesarily a good thing in the eyes of a well-adjusted woman. Everything will be misconstrued and I will leave it to that, and ask you which you think this short-term lady friend would"ve preferred in the long run: Watching a Lord of the Rings movie or having you plow her for that long. Hint: Balrogs are probably more exciting.Antarius said:marathon sex session (3 hours).
Years ago, I refused to fuck a girl without a condom (we forgot we were out). Ran to the gas station, got a 3-pack, was back in 5 minutes and banged the hell out of her. We were both rebounding and casually boning; neither one of us would have been happy if I had done put a bun in the oven. Did I kill the mood a little? Yes. That is preferable to getting a girl whom I had no intentions on maintaining a long term relationship with pregnant.Antarius said:But when a girl asks you to fuck her. You do it. If you don"t have a condom, you fucked up. So you either risk std, or you break the relationship.
There is NO recovery from... "yes, I"d like to fuck you, but I think you are a dirty whore or trying to trick me into a marriage with kids, and I don"t have a condom on me, so hold on while I leave to go get one."
The difference is that you banged her after you got the condom. Not... cuddled up next to her and fell asleep.Bronyaur said:Years ago, I refused to fuck a girl without a condom (we forgot we were out). Ran to the gas station, got a 3-pack, was back in 5 minutes and banged the hell out of her. We were both rebounding and casually boning; neither one of us would have been happy if I had done put a bun in the oven. Did I kill the mood a little? Yes. That is preferable to getting a girl whom I had no intentions on maintaining a long term relationship with pregnant.
All"s well that ends well...
That just seems excessive. I need a break every so often when I"m sexin". Going and going and going just sort of does not appeal even a bit. D:Antarius said:Exactly like kegkilla described.... minus the breaks.... and the DBZ
Well, I do too, evidently.JerleMinara said:That just seems excessive. I need a break every so often when I"m sexin".
Sorry, but please ignore the entirety of this post. Not having unsafe sex is an insult? uh......................................Antarius said:This isn"t advice to you, you are beyond hope, but for anyone else reading the thread.
But when a girl asks you to fuck her. You do it. If you don"t have a condom, you fucked up. So you either risk std, or you break the relationship.
There is NO recovery from... "yes, I"d like to fuck you, but I think you are a dirty whore or trying to trick me into a marriage with kids, and I don"t have a condom on me, so hold on while I leave to go get one."
The girl has every right to feel humiliated and ashamed after you denied her in such a way. If I was her, I would have just pretended to fall asleep after you left, so that I wouldn"t have to deal with you any more. I know that empathy isn"t a highly valued commodity these days, but imagine a girl, probably been with an average of less than 1 guy per year, finally gets up enough social courage from years of conditioning that she needed to be a "good girl" (drinking to provide the excuse), only to have a guy not turned on after seeing her naked enough to want to have sex.
Careful, you"re trying to use logic to figure out how a woman feels.Dabamf said:Sorry, but please ignore the entirety of this post. Not having unsafe sex is an insult? uh......................................
Mood killer...yes. Sex dealbreaker...fuck no. If a girl wants to bang, she"ll wait for you to get the domes.Antarius said:There is NO recovery from... "yes, I"d like to fuck you, but I think you are a dirty whore or trying to trick me into a marriage with kids, and I don"t have a condom on me, so hold on while I leave to go get one."
Back when I first met my girlfriend the first time we were going to bone I was a rookie and didn"t come prepared. It was like 2:30 A.M. on a sunday as well. So I was literally driving from seedy gas station to seedy gas station checking every bathroom for those crappy little machines. Eventually found one and all they had were banana flavored condoms, but I bought like 7 of them. It still wasn"t enough and I reaked of bananas for days.Adebisi the Onion Knight said:Mood killer...yes. Sex dealbreaker...fuck no. If a girl wants to bang, she"ll wait for you to get the domes.
I"ve never been with anyone who put up a fuss (beyond a sexually frustrated pout) over having to get condoms. I mean, maybe if she was pre-2008 Bristol Palin she"d be pissed...
Major surgery?Antarius said:Kinda pointless isn"t it?
A) wear a condom to prevent stds
B) wear a condom to prevent kids
If A) isn"t a factor, then make the chick get on birth control.
Major surgery... versus a shot once every 3 months... hmmmm.