I know I"m being a bit stereotypical, but I tend to avoid club/bar scene working girls. I dont know how it goes with bartenders, but it can"t be far off from VIP bottle girls (hostesses whatever). My 5 yr ex was a bottle hostess, which entailed late nights taking free shots/drinks from guys at her table, flirting with them, giving her number and being texted/called at 4 am on her off nights (while sleeping next to me).
That"s all fine, unless they"ve cheated before, and my ex had.. so in my experience girls that work at these places are prone to a lot of attention and temptation/partying/tons of guys etc.. I know other chicks that do the same, these chicks tend to be in the same areas: strip club hostesses, club hostesses, bartenders, shot girls, promotion girls at liquor stores for liquor companies. The other chicks I know that do the same are all very similar, very fake/money oriented/good at flirting getting what they want/always lots of guys talking to them, not afraid to be scandalous for a job etc, and can"t maintain a long relationship. Drugs and tattoos are around too, yeah its always fun for sex but not for long term.
I just think a certain way of life/maturity comes with girls that work in those areas, and well there"s going to be your exceptions of course, but you can judge that.
Sure things were fine in the beginning when my relationship was strong w/ my gf when she started at club scene, its when things are weak/you"re fighting/losing interest etc that the temptations come sneaking in. Plus I mean, what"s her future plans? Forever work in the night club scene? I dont care how cool the chick is, I"d like to eventually have a chick that can support herself without being gone late nights all the time.. you work during day to come home to her going off to work, to waking up to her coming home from work while you go to work. I remember a story from my ex after we broke up, she got wasted after working one night, was with her new bf, a friend and they were all in a cab.. she blacked out and apparently somehow gave the friend a blowjob in the back of the cab while her new bf was in the front seat, turns around going WTF.. doesnt remember it at all (who knows) or how it happened. I loved that story considering the bf at the time was the one she cheated on me for, fuck em both (no i dont talk to her, this was 2 years ago that story happened)
Had plenty of drunken sex from her coming home too, its great sure, cant count how many times she woke up next day with no recollection but the fact that her pussy hurt to tell her we had sex, cause i mean of course she has to get wasted at work to please her tables to get better tips. I can always trust a girl that gets extremely intoxicated at work.
