Girls who broke your heart thread

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Antarius said:
If she doesn"t contact you, that means she wasn"t down for it.
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Or it means she"s just not sure. Maybe she thinks he"s always a douche, but if he explains he"s sorry he was just acting like one, then she"ll at least realize he"s not always a douche and when he is he"s self-aware enough to recognize it.

Chicks often err on the side of caution, letting the guy come to them, expecting the guy to apologize first, that sort of thing. If he came on too strong, it may not mean she isn"t interested, it may just mean she"s expecting him to basically pull his head out of his ass and realize what he did.... and her thinking is probably if he doesn"t, then shrug, he"s just an idiot anyway.

Especially in such a situation, she may be afraid she"ll come across too easy if she responded at all to such a come on. If he gives her an out, basically saying he"s sorry for acting too quickly or whatever, then she gets to still like him and respond without it seeming like she"s the kind of girl who responds to what she probably saw as a booty call.

Gotta give her an out before she feels comfortable letting herself back in.
 
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Solariss said:
I"m in the process of writing this story... it"s gonna be long though. I"m not sure if people will really want to read it, but it really falls in line with the title of the thread. We"ll see how it ends up. I may not finish it tonight, but tomorrow I"ll post it I think
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Does your story involve an uncertain, self-doubting, apologetic guy who seems unable to ACT and instead just talks/posts about acting.

Basically, I want you to feel welcome to post... but at the same time, wtf, dude, post or get off the pot. All personal stories are welcome, especially if your heart got ripped out Temple of Doom style, so post that shit and stop posting about posting it!
 
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Anyone ever date a woman who refused to bang with the lights on? I"ve been banging this chick for something like 3 months now, see her maybe once a week or so and we"ve had lots of sex, but she absolutely will not fuck unless it"s dark.

She has a great body and from what I"ve seen there"s nothing visually wrong with the vagoo/tits. We"ve banged during daylight hours when it wasn"t really that dark, but she still made me turn off the lights, even though I could see just as well without the lights. I asked her multiple times what the deal with that was, why she wouldn"t let me see her naked when I"ve already been INSIDE HER and the answer"s always the same: "I"m embarassed!"

What the fuck is up with that? I"ve heard of this phenomenon before but never run into it personally. What"s more, she"s black, and I mean Wesley Snipes/Charlie Murphy black, so if we fuck at night and it"s really dark she literally disappears if her mouth and eyes are closed. And even when they are, it"s freaky as hell, because it looks like there"s a disembodied pair of eyes/set of teeth in my bed... I call her Cheshire Cat now.

As an aside, if you"ve ever wondered what it"s like to fuck the invisible woman, have sex with a black girl doggy style in the dark.
 
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Appropriate:

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Camerous

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Wrathcaster said:
Anyone ever date a woman who refused to bang with the lights on? I"ve been banging this chick for something like 3 months now, see her maybe once a week or so and we"ve had lots of sex, but she absolutely will not fuck unless it"s dark.

She has a great body and from what I"ve seen there"s nothing visually wrong with the vagoo/tits. We"ve banged during daylight hours when it wasn"t really that dark, but she still made me turn off the lights, even though I could see just as well without the lights. I asked her multiple times what the deal with that was, why she wouldn"t let me see her naked when I"ve already been INSIDE HER and the answer"s always the same: "I"m embarassed!"

What the fuck is up with that? I"ve heard of this phenomenon before but never run into it personally. What"s more, she"s black, and I mean Wesley Snipes/Charlie Murphy black, so if we fuck at night and it"s really dark she literally disappears if her mouth and eyes are closed. And even when they are, it"s freaky as hell, because it looks like there"s a disembodied pair of eyes/set of teeth in my bed... I call her Cheshire Cat now.

As an aside, if you"ve ever wondered what it"s like to fuck the invisible woman, have sex with a black girl doggy style in the dark.
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More than likely, she was either molested, raped, or mistreated as a child. She doesn"t like the way her body looks and wants to hide it from you. Generally, the prettiest women have the most hangups about their body.
 
Eomer

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A chick has to be raped, molested or mistreated as a child to have a negative body image? Jesus christ.
 
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Yeah she definitely has crazy body issues. Pretty standard for a giant percentage of chicks.

Lavishing her with compliments about her looks and how much you love her body/bodyparts while in bed will score major points.
 
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To the point of not letting a guy see her with the lights on? Yeah that"s not normal everyday uncomfortable with herself sorta deal. It usually manifests from those 3 traumatic experiences I mentioned. of course nothing is 100%.. never said it was.
 
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Camerous Valde Unus said:
She was either molested, raped, or mistreated as a child. She doesn"t like the way her body looks and wants to hide it from you. Generally, the prettiest women have the most hangups about their body.
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Only thing she"s told me to that effect is that she was pressured into sex when she was pretty young, 14 or 15 I think and that her first time was horrible. But she said it wasn"t rape, she wasn"t forced to have sex and the dude didn"t try and hurt her, just made her feel really guilty about not banging him. She did explicitly say she"s never been raped/molested before. On a somewhat unrelated note, she"s never given anyone a blowjob before and won"t do it, and is really weird about seeing other women naked... When we were watching the first episode of Game of Thrones, she balked at the amount of sex/nudity and said she didn"t want to see any more of the series if there was more of the same. She can"t stand porn. She doesn"t even like her girl friends to see her naked and is very, very apprehensive of homosexuality, sort of gives off the impression that she"s afraid that if she"s around a lesbian, said lesbo is guaranteed to make a pass at her.

I"m wondering if it"s a combination of past experiences and a cultural thing. Her parents are Haitian immigrants (although she was born and raised in the US).

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Curious, how does she dress/act when out in public?
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Very shy and very quiet, especially around new people. Openly admits she"s sort of afraid of talking to new people, which is weird considering she works in a retail clothing store and at a nursing home.
 
Camerous

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Only thing she"s told me to that effect is that she was pressured into sex when she was pretty young, 14 or 15 I think and that her first time was horrible. But she said it wasn"t rape, she wasn"t forced to have sex and the dude didn"t try and hurt her, just made her feel really guilty about not banging him. She did explicitly say she"s never been raped/molested before. On a somewhat unrelated note, she"s never given anyone a blowjob before and won"t do it, and is really weird about seeing other women naked... When we were watching the first episode of Game of Thrones, she balked at the amount of sex/nudity and said she didn"t want to see any more of the series if there was more of the same. She can"t stand porn. She doesn"t even like her girl friends to see her naked and is very, very apprehensive of homosexuality, sort of gives off the impression that she"s afraid that if she"s around a lesbian, said lesbo is guaranteed to make a pass at her.

I"m wondering if it"s a combination of past experiences and a cultural thing. Her parents are Haitian immigrants (although she was born and raised in the US).



Very shy and very quiet, especially around new people. Openly admits she"s sort of afraid of talking to new people.
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Maybe so but seems like a phobia or psychological abnormality. Best of luck though, hope it works out.
 
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Camerous Valde Unus said:
To the point of not letting a guy see her with the lights on? Yeah that"s not normal everyday uncomfortable with herself sorta deal. It usually manifests from those 3 traumatic experiences I mentioned. of course nothing is 100%.. never said it was.
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Current girlfriend was the same way, wouldn"t do it with lights on, for a good 2 years. Never had any issues even remotely close to that her entire life. Just was embarrassed. Sometimes she still asks me to turn the lights off, I just shove her face in the pillow and tell her it"s dark.
 
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Only thing she"s told me to that effect is that she was pressured into sex when she was pretty young, 14 or 15 I think and that her first time was horrible. But she said it wasn"t rape, she wasn"t forced to have sex and the dude didn"t try and hurt her, just made her feel really guilty about not banging him. She did explicitly say she"s never been raped/molested before. On a somewhat unrelated note, she"s never given anyone a blowjob before and won"t do it, and is really weird about seeing other women naked... When we were watching the first episode of Game of Thrones, she balked at the amount of sex/nudity and said she didn"t want to see any more of the series if there was more of the same. She can"t stand porn. She doesn"t even like her girl friends to see her naked and is very, very apprehensive of homosexuality, sort of gives off the impression that she"s afraid that if she"s around a lesbian, said lesbo is guaranteed to make a pass at her.

I"m wondering if it"s a combination of past experiences and a cultural thing. Her parents are Haitian immigrants (although she was born and raised in the US).



Very shy and very quiet, especially around new people. Openly admits she"s sort of afraid of talking to new people, which is weird considering she works in a retail clothing store and at a nursing home.
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Jesus, Camerous is the living embodiment of the saying "when you"re a hammer, everything becomes a nail." Just because you nonchalantly blame all of your problems on Asperger"s, that doesn"t mean other people with hang-ups have crippling psychological issues or trauma.

This girl just sounds like a combination of 1) fairly shy, and 2) bred from bible-thumping stock. The upside is, even though religious chicks can be uptight about "surface" issues like having sex with the lights on, that rarely prevents them from being freaky in the sack (it"s part of the dichotomy most religious people have to go through to reconcile their faith with the facts that intrude on it). Shitty about the lack of BJs, though. Sorry, bro. =(
 
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My girlfriend is sort of the same way, doesn"t have a problem having sex with the lights on, just doesn"t like to talk about sex at all. She grew up in a fairly conservative home, so I think that"s part of the problem.
 
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Waywatcher said:
Jesus, Camerous is the living embodiment of the saying "when you"re a hammer, everything becomes a nail." Just because you nonchalantly blame all of your problems on Asperger"s, that doesn"t mean other people with hang-ups have crippling psychological issues or trauma.

This girl just sounds like a combination of 1) fairly shy, and 2) bred from bible-thumping stock. The upside is, even though religious chicks can be uptight about "surface" issues like having sex with the lights on, that rarely prevents them from being freaky in the sack (it"s part of the dichotomy most religious people have to go through to reconcile their faith with the facts that intrude on it). Shitty about the lack of BJs, though. Sorry, bro. =(
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Perhaps you should reread what I said.. NO where in there did I say it HAD to be what I said nor did I say it was the ONLY thing it could be. l2read mkay? But carry on!
 
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Talineth said:
Lavishing her with compliments about her looks and how much you love her body/bodyparts while in bed will score major points.
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Yeah, major points, as that"s probably exactly what her molester did! Just like chicks that are nervous during sex because they"ve been hurt from being raped or molested just want you to tell them "it won"t hurt" over and over and over like you"re trying to convince them. Hell, add in a "little girl" and "our little secret" and you"re gold!
 
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Camerous Valde Unus said:
Perhaps you should reread what I said.. NO where in there did I say it HAD to be what I said nor did I say it was the ONLY thing it could be. l2read mkay? But carry on!
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Here was your original - and declarative - post:

Camerous Valde Unus said:
She was either molested, raped, or mistreated as a child. She doesn"t like the way her body looks and wants to hide it from you. Generally, the prettiest women have the most hangups about their body.
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You proceeded to backpeddle when Eomer facepalmed.

My reading comprehension skills are just fine. I"m just calling a spade a spade. Your initial assumption was stupid. I"m glad you decided to back away from it rather than double down, but that doesn"t change how stupid it was.

Maybe it"s just your Asperger"s flaring up again, bro. =(
 
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