Girls who broke your heart thread
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Assuming you"re in the US, take them to a baseball game. The sport makes zero sense to them and our overwhelming knowledge of the game is a massive in. Let alone the length of a game and the amount of time you spend together one-on-one. I"ve done the same thing with French girls. Believe it or not, baseball games are amazing because they earn to learn American culture and you"re automatically an expert because it"s fucking baseball.Voyce said:
great advice. On an unrelated topic, could someone remind me why some baseball games have more innings than others? One time I went to a baseball game. It was in Texas and we had seats in the sun. All I remember was being covered in sweat to the point where I just left my seats and walked around in the shade for the rest of the game. Anyway, one time I saw a bollywood movie (no english subtitles) about cricket. Between the baseball game I went to and the cricket movie I"m sure I can piece together enough of the game to sound like a genius to some foreign girl. Now to find a french MILF...
The first time I viewed baseball I thought the purpose was to hit the bat man as hard as possible with the baseball. Later I discovered this was wrong and the game is much more boring.AlexTheDictator said:
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I just meant in terms of good/bad idea. Despite living beside each other we"ve maybe bumped in to each other less than 10 times in the year she"s lived in the building. Always quite flirty, or at least I think she is, but I tend to confuse an attractive girl being friendly with wanting me quite easily. I"ve heard mixed things about her, as we have more than a few mutual friends, of perhaps having been a bit promiscuous and/or going after other chicks" guys in the past.Brad2770 said:
Need perspective please.
Met girl of my dreams. I"ll leave it like that. I"m almost 30, did the player thing for the past half a decade, never saw myself settling down. Met this girl and she turned my world upside down. First time in my life I pictured marriage, kids, buying a house together.
Dated 5 months. She felt the same. She never wanted to be married until she met me, couldn"t imagine kids until now blah blah.(Shes 24 i"m 28) Mind you, we arent looking to get married or have kids or even move in. We are both done with school, have excellent jobs, solid savings.
We just got back from this incredible vacation. Best sex of my life, genuine good time, worked great as a team. It was a big stepping stone for us I guess. So I didn"t want to do to her what I do with every girl I bang more then once, which is string her along. I havent been seeing anyone she hasnt been seeing anyone, so we had "the talk" aka; hey are we official?
She lost it. Many things were said, but ultimately it was a combination of her not knowing if she was ready to sacrifice her time and independance and her ability to grow as a person for a serious relationship (she had two over the span of about 6 years, had a fuck buddy for 4 months prior to me, i"m the fourth guy shes been with) I attempted explaining to her that a healthy relationship should never inhibit or take away anything from anyone. She said that she feels either way she would be making a huge mistake, either letting me go or settling down and not knowing.
She said she assumed all along we were together, and she knew how she felt about me, but she kept herself secure in her head by telling her maybe I didn"t feel the same (female logic) so when it turned out I did, it made it all quite real for her.
There"s more to it but I don"t want a bigger essay. I"m just fucking devastated. I can"t even remember even being hurt by a girl since I was seventeen. It just wasnt my MO. I just don"t know how to go about coping besides the obvious staying busy etc. I just never pictured a future, so i"ve never been in the position to have that future shattered. Not eating, not sleeping - i"m sure people have been there.
We spoke and as it stands she needs time. She feels emotionally depleted and doesn"t know why. It"s so out of left field and such a strange reason. Oh, everything is perfect let"s break up. With what she"s saying I don"t have the answers. You can"t "make it better" if someone fears they will lose their independance or wants to make new friends or meet new people. It"s not something I can fix, which also makes me helpless. I"m trying to give her space to get her shit sorted, but while shes figuring it out i"m miserable and it"s pretty telling where it"s going to end up.
Ps we both have hung out with each others families, stayed at each others houses made all the introductions I mean, it was pretty serious. She even met my grandmother.
tldr; fuck relationships.
Met girl of my dreams. I"ll leave it like that. I"m almost 30, did the player thing for the past half a decade, never saw myself settling down. Met this girl and she turned my world upside down. First time in my life I pictured marriage, kids, buying a house together.
Dated 5 months. She felt the same. She never wanted to be married until she met me, couldn"t imagine kids until now blah blah.(Shes 24 i"m 28) Mind you, we arent looking to get married or have kids or even move in. We are both done with school, have excellent jobs, solid savings.
We just got back from this incredible vacation. Best sex of my life, genuine good time, worked great as a team. It was a big stepping stone for us I guess. So I didn"t want to do to her what I do with every girl I bang more then once, which is string her along. I havent been seeing anyone she hasnt been seeing anyone, so we had "the talk" aka; hey are we official?
She lost it. Many things were said, but ultimately it was a combination of her not knowing if she was ready to sacrifice her time and independance and her ability to grow as a person for a serious relationship (she had two over the span of about 6 years, had a fuck buddy for 4 months prior to me, i"m the fourth guy shes been with) I attempted explaining to her that a healthy relationship should never inhibit or take away anything from anyone. She said that she feels either way she would be making a huge mistake, either letting me go or settling down and not knowing.
She said she assumed all along we were together, and she knew how she felt about me, but she kept herself secure in her head by telling her maybe I didn"t feel the same (female logic) so when it turned out I did, it made it all quite real for her.
There"s more to it but I don"t want a bigger essay. I"m just fucking devastated. I can"t even remember even being hurt by a girl since I was seventeen. It just wasnt my MO. I just don"t know how to go about coping besides the obvious staying busy etc. I just never pictured a future, so i"ve never been in the position to have that future shattered. Not eating, not sleeping - i"m sure people have been there.
We spoke and as it stands she needs time. She feels emotionally depleted and doesn"t know why. It"s so out of left field and such a strange reason. Oh, everything is perfect let"s break up. With what she"s saying I don"t have the answers. You can"t "make it better" if someone fears they will lose their independance or wants to make new friends or meet new people. It"s not something I can fix, which also makes me helpless. I"m trying to give her space to get her shit sorted, but while shes figuring it out i"m miserable and it"s pretty telling where it"s going to end up.
Ps we both have hung out with each others families, stayed at each others houses made all the introductions I mean, it was pretty serious. She even met my grandmother.
tldr; fuck relationships.
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That shit sucks, man. Not sure what you can do, other than hope she comes around to it. I don"t think trying to "convince" her would be a good idea.
If she really feels like being with you, then she"ll make up her mind and it"ll all be golden. If she"s not mature enough to go for it or for any other reason, well, honestly you may be dodging a bullet.
If she really feels like being with you, then she"ll make up her mind and it"ll all be golden. If she"s not mature enough to go for it or for any other reason, well, honestly you may be dodging a bullet.
