Porkchop’s Pretty Protracted Portrait Posts - Transitioning Takes Time

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Is it ok to be cool with people being whatever gender they think they are but also think calling people weird things like zim and xir and they and them is a bit silly?

Absolutely. I think being transgender is all a bit silly. Just like a lot of things that help people get through everyday life.
 

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So MtF, alright. What gender are you into then? V is into women which makes V, mmm, mmmm, a transitioned gay person. Or is there a prefered term? It’s’ all very confusing.

I consider myself a lesbian. I am married to a woman and have mostly dated women. I tried dating men but didn't care for it.
 
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I consider myself a lesbian. I am married to a woman and have mostly dated women. I tried dating men but didn't care for it.
So were you, from your previous post, married while you were male in appearance, straight outwards to all but your spouse? Any kids? Then started transitioning. Or did you marry after the fact? What does your wife think is what I’m getting at. Is she gay too or adapted? What’s your intimte relation like now after HRT? I take it it’s different than before, libodo wise?
 

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So were you, from your previous post, married while you were male in appearance, straight outwards to all but your spouse? Any kids? Then started transitioning. Or did you marry after the fact? What does your wife think is what I’m getting at. Is she gay too or adapted? What’s your intimte relation like now after HRT? I take it it’s different than before, libodo wise?

Yes, I was presenting as male when I met my wife. But when I felt that things might get serious, I told her I was trans and to probably expect transition in the coming years. This is when she came out to me as being bisexual and told me how excited she would be to one day have a wife.

Yes, I have one son with my ex. but he lives with his mom a few hours away and I do not get to see him much.

Getting the intamacy right has been trial and error. The first anti-androgen I was on caused me to have zero sex drive, which was awful for both of us. After a break, I am now on a different drug that hasn't completely killed my sex drive.
 
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What do you think about Jerle? Does this post scare you?
 
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What do you think about Jerle? Does this post scare you?

Yikes! I had never read Jerle's suicide note before. That's eerie reading it!!

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Porkchop, I'll never understand what you must feel like, but I respect you and you seem otherwise normal and intelligent. Basically the complete opposite of the retarded attention whore who's name wont be mentioned.
 
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Bi, 5 posts up ___^

Ah, that’s perfect. I have a friend who is a biological lesbian, and is dating a FtM trans, it all works out. Really smart girl but a little too deep into conspiracy theories. Porkchop Porkchop thank you for answering our questions, these relationships are obviously complicated and lots are curious the inner workings.
 

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What’s your favorite movie? And comic books? Whatching Valerian and the City of a Thousand Planets. Loved the comic books when I was a kid. Movie sucks ofc, but what gives.
 

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What’s your favorite movie? And comic books? Whatching Valerian and the City of a Thousand Planets. Loved the comic books when I was a kid. Movie sucks ofc, but what gives.

I know you weren’t asking me, but I agree on Valerian. I thought the opening scene was super interesting, then we see the girl in a sexy bikini, but the movie straight takes a dump on itself after that. So bad.
 
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What do you think about Jerle? Does this post scare you?

It doesn't scare me. I completely understand why someone would prefer to not live anymore after living this life. I've had plenty of chances and motivation to end it all, but i'm pretty sure I don't have the suicide gene. I would like to understand life more before I can place a value on it.

Bi, 5 posts up ___^

Right, she considers herself bi but understand that the world sees us as a lesbian relationship.

What’s your favorite movie? And comic books? Whatching Valerian and the City of a Thousand Planets. Loved the comic books when I was a kid. Movie sucks ofc, but what gives.

My favorite movie is still Dumb and Dumber. It might be because that was a silly time in my life, but that movie just sticks with me. I've also been a Jim Carrey fan since In Living Color. The guy is a wack job sure, but that is part of his charm, reminds me of what it must have been like to know Dali in his prime.

I don't really do comic book series, but occasionally pick one up for the cover art lol. I have most of the Bombshells issues, and used to be a Superman fan. I still enjoy the Superman movies, Batman movies and some of the MCU. I saw Valerian once, and probably never need to see it again lol Tried to read the comics, but couldn't get into it.
 
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It doesn't scare me. I completely understand why someone would prefer to not live anymore after living this life. I've had plenty of chances and motivation to end it all, but i'm pretty sure I don't have the suicide gene. I would like to understand life more before I can place a value on it.



Right, she considers herself bi but understand that the world sees us as a lesbian relationship.



My favorite movie is still Dumb and Dumber. It might be because that was a silly time in my life, but that movie just sticks with me. I've also been a Jim Carrey fan since In Living Color. The guy is a wack job sure, but that is part of his charm, reminds me of what it must have been like to know Dali in his prime.

I don't really do comic book series, but occasionally pick one up for the cover art lol. I have most of the Bombshells issues, and used to be a Superman fan. I still enjoy the Superman movies, Batman movies and some of the MCU. I saw Valerian once, and probably never need to see it again lol Tried to read the comics, but couldn't get into it.
How does the "bi" situation work with you and your girl? The world doesnt see you as lesbians... its a dude who is now a girl but your girlfriend still likes some hard pounding cock? Or does she go for super fem type boys to feel that and not trigger the man hating sort of thing?
 

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Oh great. Another one of these on our forums?! I've said it many times and I will never stop saying it: BAN ALL SIMS 4 PLAYERS FROM OUR COMMUNITY!!!
Yikes. Let’s cool it with the Simphobia. Thought we were better than this.
 
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Yikes. Let’s cool it with the Simphobia. Thought we were better than this.
How does Porkchop Porkchop play sims? Lock them in basement with no exit or bathroom to starve and malaise like a true gamer or more like a gal playing house?
 
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How does Porkchop Porkchop play sims? Lock them in basement with no exit or bathroom to starve and malaise like a true gamer or more like a gal playing house?
I’m not sure what this means. The only Sim I’ve ever played was SimAnt. All I remember is colonizing the shit out of some back yards. Probably not a good quote for a trans related thread but there it is.
 

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I’m not sure what this means. The only Sim I’ve ever played was SimAnt. All I remember is colonizing the shit out of some back yards. Probably not a good quote for a trans related thread but there it is.
Well, transition takes time. Baby steps. Here: