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I suck at having conversation. When I try to talk with people there's always long awkward pauses. Its clunky there's little to no flow, etc. I usually just try to end it as fast as I can because I suck so bad at it.
A bit of a history to see where I'm coming from. Grew up playing video games, didn't play sports or any kind of group/social activities. Shy, quiet, didn't really want to talk to people that much.
It used to not bother me at all, but as I get older(29) with a wife and kid, I'm seeing the value in it and the potential connections that can be made through it(i.e. career advancement, getting in with different crowds of people, etc.)
What am I not doing? What are your go to conversation fillers? Is there any resources you guys could recommend to help?
A bit of a history to see where I'm coming from. Grew up playing video games, didn't play sports or any kind of group/social activities. Shy, quiet, didn't really want to talk to people that much.
It used to not bother me at all, but as I get older(29) with a wife and kid, I'm seeing the value in it and the potential connections that can be made through it(i.e. career advancement, getting in with different crowds of people, etc.)
What am I not doing? What are your go to conversation fillers? Is there any resources you guys could recommend to help?