The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread
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It's kinda hard to give any advice without knowing your conversations, how you behave in person, and how you look.Tinder worked very well for me, but I was in a college town, of college age and fit.
A friend's friend claimed that the paid dating sites are way better. You weed out the poor and unserious people.
A friend's friend claimed that the paid dating sites are way better. You weed out the poor and unserious people.
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Eh, the women are just "doing it on the side" whereas the guys are "serious" about it. Online dating is just real dating with all of the pretenses removed.
Warning, long text dump. The pic in her profile was of a cute girl with her grandmother or something for background info. She was responding pretty good and then just stopped responding to my text, and I'm pretty sure in this specific one I came off as needy. Because I ended up sending her like 4 texts in a row with not much time in between.
Hi, you're sexy, I like your glasses in your profile pic, want to hook up sometime?
Hey, I'm Allie. I just reactivated my profile. I have had a lot going on at work for the past few months so I had temporarily given up on dating. If you are still interested, I'd love to talk and get to know you! You seem like one of the few decent guys on here. I hope to hear from you!
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Hi, you just did hear from me???
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Yea I think we were both sending messages at the same time. But I'm not the one wearing glasses in my picture...
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I thought you appreciated a man with a sense of humor?
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Haha I do! But that one threw me off. I have received some really odd messages on here in the past so I can't always tell who is joking :/
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So if I told you I wanted to smell your feet, you would be like "ok, so now I remember why I deactivated my account"
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Haha! Sadly that pales in comparison to some of the things I've read. That doesn't even phase me.
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Fuck yea, in that case come on over, you think I was joking!?!?!?!
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Just kidding, your feet are probably gross.
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And I don't have a foot fetish.
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Hey now. My feet aren't that bad! But also, not looking to just hook up. Lol just putting that out there! But seriously, I never realized how common foot fetishes are until I started online dating...
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I am not interested in "just" hooking up either, but I also don't believe in delaying sex for some arbitrary 3rd date rule either. Every single one of my relationships has been within the first 2 times of meeting. My last relationship lasted for 16 months and we were having sex within a few minutes of meeting.
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Fair enough. I know it happens quick from experience, but in my experience it doesn't last much longer than a few weeks. There is no mystery left, and no reason to keep discovering more about each other.
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Well, if it's a bad relationship, then yea, it won't last more than a few weeks, I've had a few of those, but if you enjoy spending time around the other person, it doesn't matter as time goes on, because the sex will sometimes not be as hot as that initial time, but sometimes it'll be even better.
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I agree. I'm the type of person that doesn't need to be attached at the hip to a guy, but it's if both people really want to spend a lot of time together.
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I tend to attract the opposite type, or maybe it's just the sex is so good they never want their hips to be anywhere else except against mine. Lol.
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But I think it's probably more of the former and less of the latter.
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Lol well aren't you confident
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Comes with the job.
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I'm pretty independent though. I'm not usually the clingy type....unless the sex really is THAT good lol
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Well you can come find out firsthand.
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But you're probably right, I can't possibly be THAT good, I probably just attract clingy women.
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Lol I never said you couldn't be that good! There are a lot of crazy women out there though...
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They give the rest of us a bad name.
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I mean, I pretty much just do whatever I feel like these days, I used to try emulating romantic movies, then I switched it up to just doing what I saw in porn, and things got better.
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I didn't say there was anything wrong with clingy, except well twice when it got out of hand.
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Lmao! I like a little mix of both depending on my mood
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Uh oh. Did someone go full crazy stalker on you?
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Yea, just once, the other was just over-reacting to me because she was an alcoholic and I broke up with her after 2 weeks.
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And he called me 20 times a day for about a month.
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She
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The crazy stalker one was a little scary, she showed up at my house at 4 am and just let herself in after we'd been dating only 1 week. My dog lunged at her because she was sneaking into my room.
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I thought I was being robbed.
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Woah. That's messed up!
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What kind of dog do you have?
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The only thing unusual that I've had a few comments on is that sometimes I can't orgasm right away, so 15-20 minutes is the quickest I've ever cum, sometimes it's much longer, it's only been a negative for one woman ever.
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Usually 30-40 minutes is normal, and I've had multiple comments on it.
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I had a pitbull, unfortunately he died last year, he was a great dog super friendly, but yea, he'd definitely get protective if I was sleeping, I think I waited too long to neuter him.
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But then again, sneaking into my bedroom at 4am after you've only met my dog once isn't really smart either.
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There is nothing wrong with that. I hate quickies. It takes me a long time to orgasm, and usually guys are only worried about getting themselves off, so I've only had a few orgasms in my life :/
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Oh I'm so sorry! I love dogs. I have 2 of my own and always had dogs growing up.
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And yes, that was really dumb of her.
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That sucks, seems like for most women I've been able to get off with my fingers, but a few couldn't get off without a vibrator.
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But yes, I have been with many "crazies" which is a shitty term for it, but pretty much no girl on antidepressants I've been with has been able to orgasm.
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Lol I've never used a vibrator so I don't know. Fingers are good to a point. Lol Do you go down?
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Of course I will, some girls like the beard, some don't, I've shaved it a few times specifically for that reason, but I prefer to keep it.
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So for those girls I just wouldn't go down on them, heh.
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Wtf no vibrator, ever? Were you raised super religious or something?
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Nice! That's my all time favorite and a couple of the times that I've gotten off was from that. Some guys think it's gross. If I'm going to suck on cock and balls, why shouldn't I get some tongue action?! Lol!!!
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If it was gross or smelled bad I wouldn't want to stick my penis in it either.
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No I'm just too embarrassed to go get one!
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Lol don't worry, no gross/smelly/nastiness here
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Btw, I like facial hair I'm not a fan of long, grizzly beards but I like well groomed beards
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Ok, cool, that's how I keep mine.
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Sweet!
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So how about we fix that vibrator thing, you live close, I could take you to cirillas.
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Lol nothing says romantic first date like a trip to cirillas!
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I can't help it, I'm a smart ass and very sarcastic
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No way! I couldn't tell!
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Hahaha
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How about we talk a little more before planning trips to the sex store? Lol although I should warn you, I am a closet freak...
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Warn me? You mean encourage me that you're worth knowing better?
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Awe lol oddly, I take that as a compliment!
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You're welcome.
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What're you up to today, what's your general schedule like?
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Lol I don't have any plans today. I worked 52 hours this past week (which is a lot for me) so I'm just relaxing today and playing it by ear. I work M-F no later than 6:15 but one of my coworkers got a promotion last month so we have been short handed. I worked 10+ hours every day this week, which I'm not used to. How about you?
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Well I have Sunday and Monday off for the rest of the year, but I work Friday night from 10pm till 6am, so I essentially have a 3 day weekend. I really enjoy it because it's the first time in my life I've ever had weekends off.
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As for today, I'm thinking of going shopping (not for dildos) but I haven't decided for sure.
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Same here. I started working at Walgreen when I was 16 and worked EVERY weekend for the next 5 years. I love working for the Clinic because I don't work nights, weekends, or holidays. I don't want to assume, but do you work at Cleveland Hopkins? Lol I need to go grocery shopping, but I hate going to the grocery store.
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Thanks...Now all I can think about is toys. I went to ambiance once but my friend Ana was with me so I wasn't as embarrassed.
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Lol, sorry, I can come over and make you forget all about toys.
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I don't work at Hopkins, I work at the Cleveland regional en route center, it is a little busier.
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And yea, I need to do grocery shopping and laundry too, but I do that pretty much every weekend, I have been thinking of buying a car.
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Mmm very tempting I have no idea what/where that is. Do you like you job? Those are my weekend chores too. I need to buy a new car but I'm trying to make my baby last a little longer. Hopefully next summer I'll have enough saved up!
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Yea, love my job, been doing it for 6 years, I'll be doing it for another 23 years until I retire. I've been pretty bad with cars, I've always upgraded within 4 years.
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That's awesome! I love my job most days...I've been a pharmacy tech for 5 years now. I have had the same car since I was 16. Lol it's a 14 year old Saturn. I want a new car, but at the moment my focus is my mortgage and paying down some bills.
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Hey, good morning, sorry I fell asleep on you earlier.
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You have your own home? That's really awesome, I still rent.
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Hey! That's ok, you worked all night so I guess you're entitled to some sleep
yea I bought it when I was 22 because renting with 2 dogs was rough.
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I have roommates, but I also only pay 300 a month, so I don't feel bad about renting, even if a few people at work give me shit about it.
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Were you able to think about something other than sex toys today?
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Seriously? Why would people give a shit about if you rent? Lol for a little bit yes, then I was right back to the toys...
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They just like to tease me about bringing women back to my place and "having" to introduce them to a roommate or whatever. As if living with other people is unattractive or something.
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Hah, I knew it, one of my first thoughts after waking up was (after: thirsty, piss, what day is it) I wonder if that girl went out and bought herself a dildo.
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By the way, my name is Adam, I'm assuming you are Allison?
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I don't see anything wrong with it. Haha I guess we got so sidetracked by sex talk we forgot the whole introduce-ourselves part....yes my name is Allison but I prefer Allie. But no, I didn't go buy one lol
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Sex talk is distracting, not as distracting as actually having sex, but still up there.
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Yes, well I case you noticed I'm not a big fan of following social norms, ie: inviting you out on a first date to a sex shop.
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Or talking about sex before I know your name.
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(Or actually having sex without knowing a name either for that matter)
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I'm just all sorts of messed up.
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Lmao! Oh man...
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So you're not a romantic Im assuming?
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No, if I ever give you flowers or something, you know you did something incredible.
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Or if you mean romantic vs pragmatic, I'm not romantic in that sense either.
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I used to be romantic, years and years ago, but that was slowly ground down like glass at a beach.
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Is that a dealbreaker for you or something?
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Hi Allie, I was enjoying our conversation before, are you interested in meeting sometime? You didn't respond to my last couple of messages so I'm just going to assume you lost interest and I'll move on if you don't respond to this one.
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I'm sorry, but no. Good luck with everything!
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Bye
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Hey, if you don't mind, could you maybe give me some pointers on why I lost your interest? Trying really hard at online dating, I'm not the most experienced man in the world and I'm trying to get better.
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Hey, I'm Allie. I just reactivated my profile. I have had a lot going on at work for the past few months so I had temporarily given up on dating. If you are still interested, I'd love to talk and get to know you! You seem like one of the few decent guys on here. I hope to hear from you!
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Hi, you just did hear from me???
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Yea I think we were both sending messages at the same time. But I'm not the one wearing glasses in my picture...
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I thought you appreciated a man with a sense of humor?
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Haha I do! But that one threw me off. I have received some really odd messages on here in the past so I can't always tell who is joking :/
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So if I told you I wanted to smell your feet, you would be like "ok, so now I remember why I deactivated my account"
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Haha! Sadly that pales in comparison to some of the things I've read. That doesn't even phase me.
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Fuck yea, in that case come on over, you think I was joking!?!?!?!
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Just kidding, your feet are probably gross.
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And I don't have a foot fetish.
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Hey now. My feet aren't that bad! But also, not looking to just hook up. Lol just putting that out there! But seriously, I never realized how common foot fetishes are until I started online dating...
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I am not interested in "just" hooking up either, but I also don't believe in delaying sex for some arbitrary 3rd date rule either. Every single one of my relationships has been within the first 2 times of meeting. My last relationship lasted for 16 months and we were having sex within a few minutes of meeting.
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Fair enough. I know it happens quick from experience, but in my experience it doesn't last much longer than a few weeks. There is no mystery left, and no reason to keep discovering more about each other.
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Well, if it's a bad relationship, then yea, it won't last more than a few weeks, I've had a few of those, but if you enjoy spending time around the other person, it doesn't matter as time goes on, because the sex will sometimes not be as hot as that initial time, but sometimes it'll be even better.
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I agree. I'm the type of person that doesn't need to be attached at the hip to a guy, but it's if both people really want to spend a lot of time together.
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I tend to attract the opposite type, or maybe it's just the sex is so good they never want their hips to be anywhere else except against mine. Lol.
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But I think it's probably more of the former and less of the latter.
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Lol well aren't you confident
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Comes with the job.
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I'm pretty independent though. I'm not usually the clingy type....unless the sex really is THAT good lol
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Well you can come find out firsthand.
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But you're probably right, I can't possibly be THAT good, I probably just attract clingy women.
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Lol I never said you couldn't be that good! There are a lot of crazy women out there though...
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They give the rest of us a bad name.
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I mean, I pretty much just do whatever I feel like these days, I used to try emulating romantic movies, then I switched it up to just doing what I saw in porn, and things got better.
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I didn't say there was anything wrong with clingy, except well twice when it got out of hand.
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Lmao! I like a little mix of both depending on my mood
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Uh oh. Did someone go full crazy stalker on you?
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Yea, just once, the other was just over-reacting to me because she was an alcoholic and I broke up with her after 2 weeks.
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And he called me 20 times a day for about a month.
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She
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The crazy stalker one was a little scary, she showed up at my house at 4 am and just let herself in after we'd been dating only 1 week. My dog lunged at her because she was sneaking into my room.
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I thought I was being robbed.
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Woah. That's messed up!
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What kind of dog do you have?
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The only thing unusual that I've had a few comments on is that sometimes I can't orgasm right away, so 15-20 minutes is the quickest I've ever cum, sometimes it's much longer, it's only been a negative for one woman ever.
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Usually 30-40 minutes is normal, and I've had multiple comments on it.
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I had a pitbull, unfortunately he died last year, he was a great dog super friendly, but yea, he'd definitely get protective if I was sleeping, I think I waited too long to neuter him.
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But then again, sneaking into my bedroom at 4am after you've only met my dog once isn't really smart either.
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There is nothing wrong with that. I hate quickies. It takes me a long time to orgasm, and usually guys are only worried about getting themselves off, so I've only had a few orgasms in my life :/
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Oh I'm so sorry! I love dogs. I have 2 of my own and always had dogs growing up.
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And yes, that was really dumb of her.
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That sucks, seems like for most women I've been able to get off with my fingers, but a few couldn't get off without a vibrator.
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But yes, I have been with many "crazies" which is a shitty term for it, but pretty much no girl on antidepressants I've been with has been able to orgasm.
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Lol I've never used a vibrator so I don't know. Fingers are good to a point. Lol Do you go down?
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Of course I will, some girls like the beard, some don't, I've shaved it a few times specifically for that reason, but I prefer to keep it.
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So for those girls I just wouldn't go down on them, heh.
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Wtf no vibrator, ever? Were you raised super religious or something?
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Nice! That's my all time favorite and a couple of the times that I've gotten off was from that. Some guys think it's gross. If I'm going to suck on cock and balls, why shouldn't I get some tongue action?! Lol!!!
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If it was gross or smelled bad I wouldn't want to stick my penis in it either.
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No I'm just too embarrassed to go get one!
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Lol don't worry, no gross/smelly/nastiness here
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Btw, I like facial hair I'm not a fan of long, grizzly beards but I like well groomed beards
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Ok, cool, that's how I keep mine.
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Sweet!
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So how about we fix that vibrator thing, you live close, I could take you to cirillas.
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Lol nothing says romantic first date like a trip to cirillas!
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I can't help it, I'm a smart ass and very sarcastic
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No way! I couldn't tell!
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Hahaha
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How about we talk a little more before planning trips to the sex store? Lol although I should warn you, I am a closet freak...
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Warn me? You mean encourage me that you're worth knowing better?
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Awe lol oddly, I take that as a compliment!
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You're welcome.
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What're you up to today, what's your general schedule like?
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Lol I don't have any plans today. I worked 52 hours this past week (which is a lot for me) so I'm just relaxing today and playing it by ear. I work M-F no later than 6:15 but one of my coworkers got a promotion last month so we have been short handed. I worked 10+ hours every day this week, which I'm not used to. How about you?
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Well I have Sunday and Monday off for the rest of the year, but I work Friday night from 10pm till 6am, so I essentially have a 3 day weekend. I really enjoy it because it's the first time in my life I've ever had weekends off.
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As for today, I'm thinking of going shopping (not for dildos) but I haven't decided for sure.
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Same here. I started working at Walgreen when I was 16 and worked EVERY weekend for the next 5 years. I love working for the Clinic because I don't work nights, weekends, or holidays. I don't want to assume, but do you work at Cleveland Hopkins? Lol I need to go grocery shopping, but I hate going to the grocery store.
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Thanks...Now all I can think about is toys. I went to ambiance once but my friend Ana was with me so I wasn't as embarrassed.
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Lol, sorry, I can come over and make you forget all about toys.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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I don't work at Hopkins, I work at the Cleveland regional en route center, it is a little busier.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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And yea, I need to do grocery shopping and laundry too, but I do that pretty much every weekend, I have been thinking of buying a car.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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Mmm very tempting I have no idea what/where that is. Do you like you job? Those are my weekend chores too. I need to buy a new car but I'm trying to make my baby last a little longer. Hopefully next summer I'll have enough saved up!
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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Yea, love my job, been doing it for 6 years, I'll be doing it for another 23 years until I retire. I've been pretty bad with cars, I've always upgraded within 4 years.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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That's awesome! I love my job most days...I've been a pharmacy tech for 5 years now. I have had the same car since I was 16. Lol it's a 14 year old Saturn. I want a new car, but at the moment my focus is my mortgage and paying down some bills.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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Hey, good morning, sorry I fell asleep on you earlier.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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You have your own home? That's really awesome, I still rent.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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Hey! That's ok, you worked all night so I guess you're entitled to some sleep
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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I have roommates, but I also only pay 300 a month, so I don't feel bad about renting, even if a few people at work give me shit about it.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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Were you able to think about something other than sex toys today?
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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Seriously? Why would people give a shit about if you rent? Lol for a little bit yes, then I was right back to the toys...
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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They just like to tease me about bringing women back to my place and "having" to introduce them to a roommate or whatever. As if living with other people is unattractive or something.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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Hah, I knew it, one of my first thoughts after waking up was (after: thirsty, piss, what day is it) I wonder if that girl went out and bought herself a dildo.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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By the way, my name is Adam, I'm assuming you are Allison?
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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I don't see anything wrong with it. Haha I guess we got so sidetracked by sex talk we forgot the whole introduce-ourselves part....yes my name is Allison but I prefer Allie. But no, I didn't go buy one lol
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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Sex talk is distracting, not as distracting as actually having sex, but still up there.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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Yes, well I case you noticed I'm not a big fan of following social norms, ie: inviting you out on a first date to a sex shop.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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Or talking about sex before I know your name.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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(Or actually having sex without knowing a name either for that matter)
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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I'm just all sorts of messed up.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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Lmao! Oh man...
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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So you're not a romantic Im assuming?
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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No, if I ever give you flowers or something, you know you did something incredible.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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Or if you mean romantic vs pragmatic, I'm not romantic in that sense either.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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I used to be romantic, years and years ago, but that was slowly ground down like glass at a beach.
Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday
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Is that a dealbreaker for you or something?
Sent on Sunday
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Hi Allie, I was enjoying our conversation before, are you interested in meeting sometime? You didn't respond to my last couple of messages so I'm just going to assume you lost interest and I'll move on if you don't respond to this one.
Sent Yesterday
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I'm sorry, but no. Good luck with everything!
Sent from the OkCupid app Yesterday
Block her Report
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Bye
Sent Yesterday
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Hey, if you don't mind, could you maybe give me some pointers on why I lost your interest? Trying really hard at online dating, I'm not the most experienced man in the world and I'm trying to get better.
Sent from the OkCupid app 11:09pm
cabbitcabbit
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That is absolutely physically painful to read. You're both throwing out the crazy right out of the gate.
I thought I had a legitimate sex addiction problem when I spent about 60k on myfreecams over 2 years, but I have cut way back on that...
But I didn't break up with her BECAUSE I wanted to hook up with an ex, those were two completely separate events.
I did watch the movie Shame, and thought it pretty sad that it reminded me of my own life. I'm not nearly as attractive as fassbender, but god that would be good.
But I didn't break up with her BECAUSE I wanted to hook up with an ex, those were two completely separate events.
I did watch the movie Shame, and thought it pretty sad that it reminded me of my own life. I'm not nearly as attractive as fassbender, but god that would be good.
If the conversation goes past like 4-5 messages and you haven't asked to meet up, you did it wrong. You should at least ask for her number and move along to texting. You were trying to figure out her schedule, make it work, etc., which is nice and considerate and also takes way to long and is super boring to 99% of girls. "I'm usually really busy, but I have (day off) would you like to meet up and see if we click in person?" Best way to ask for her number is actually to give her yours. "So talking to you is fun but I can't be on OKC all day, here is my number if you want to text instead." That isn't actually a great example, but you get the gist.
Usually if you don't bring it up the conversation will fizzle.
Usually if you don't bring it up the conversation will fizzle.
cabbitcabbit
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Mist
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You have just convinced me to start a sex addiction therapy practice via webcam.
You started a conversation with "Do you wanna hook up" and she responded. There will never be anything meaningful ever there. If you are looking for something more meaningful then a bang (which I am inferring you are based on your initial post on the subject) then I wouldn't start out asking someone basically if they wanna bang.
darkmiasma
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Everything about this, and the emoticon is awful.
Also, edit that fucking spoiler, at least do a fucking find/replace for "Sent from the OkCupid app Saturday" and "An image of AdamHenry" and replace them with a space or something.
Vanderhoof
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It was a joke, the woman in the glasses was obviously her grandmother. I didn't say I wanted to bang.. Her.
Do you get it now?
P.s. I had to delete about 8 smileys on (mostly) her end before I could post the log to this site, because smileys count against the maximum image per post count... So for example I used a wink after my initial message.
Do you get it now?
P.s. I had to delete about 8 smileys on (mostly) her end before I could post the log to this site, because smileys count against the maximum image per post count... So for example I used a wink after my initial message.
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I do get it, but it doesn't make it any less terrible. Call me old fashioned but I don't instantly start talking about fuckin 3 minutes after meeting someone, and I sure as shit wouldn't have a length conversation with them over a messaging service. I'd just ask her out to dinner or something where you can actually talk in person.
