iannis
Musty Nester
- 31,351
- 17,656
Get a subscription to penthouse letters.
Video porn will not serve you well for this kind of thing. And if you can get her to read it as well... you'll be drowning in uniqueness in 6 months.
The Girls Who Broke Your Heart Thread
- Thread starter Wintermute
- Start date
Video porn will not serve you well for this kind of thing. And if you can get her to read it as well... you'll be drowning in uniqueness in 6 months.
- 601
- 1,065
More than occasionally ones partners in life whether for life or the moment will like/want something you are Meh about. Abhorrence is one thing but ambivalence says that it's time to put on that priest collar and game on. See Dan Savage for the rules of being GGG (Giving, good, game I think?).
Leadsalad
Cis-XYite-Nationalist
- 5,981
- 11,979
Sutekh
Blackwing Lair Raider
- 7,489
- 106
You really DON'T need to go in detail, we all know that already. But for the sake of reading a good story I will ask that you do.
Nothing to share really, I just posted something stupid and then edited it in the time window before it shows I edited.
Completely unrelated to that, I was dating 3 different women last month, plus 2 more that I just slept with. One of the girls I'd seen the most, the one I spent pretty much every weekend with for the past 3 months, texted me yesterday "I want committment from you, I want you to be exclusive with me" I texted back. "no". A few hours later she texted me "I just wish things were different, you can just be ok with that?" I responded with "yes". She asked "Because you have backup girls?" I said "yes" She said "you're such a player, just what people told me, I'm a fucking idiot, apparently no one wants committment these days"... I ignored that. Today she texted me "I hope your day is going well". I was probably going to drop her anyways, I could have said something to keep her on the hook, she just wasn't that great, and I think I can do better for a long-term relationship.
Completely unrelated to that, I was dating 3 different women last month, plus 2 more that I just slept with. One of the girls I'd seen the most, the one I spent pretty much every weekend with for the past 3 months, texted me yesterday "I want committment from you, I want you to be exclusive with me" I texted back. "no". A few hours later she texted me "I just wish things were different, you can just be ok with that?" I responded with "yes". She asked "Because you have backup girls?" I said "yes" She said "you're such a player, just what people told me, I'm a fucking idiot, apparently no one wants committment these days"... I ignored that. Today she texted me "I hope your day is going well". I was probably going to drop her anyways, I could have said something to keep her on the hook, she just wasn't that great, and I think I can do better for a long-term relationship.
Big Phoenix
Pronouns: zie/zhem/zer
- 44,790
- 93,649
Sutekh
Blackwing Lair Raider
- 7,489
- 106
To each his own, some people like to have multiple chicks at once. At least you're upfront with the girl and not going behind her back like a dirt bag.
Today she was asking for advice on how she could lock down a man. I told her to lower her standards, to look for a 5 instead of the 7-8s that she is currently looking for or spend months of hard dedicated self-improvement. On the plus side, she's 27, she will likely be able to lock down a man, but she's honestly just a 6 herself, so the next few years will be awkward for her. Because she's looking for a family and kids, you know, just like every other woman that hits that age that didn't pop out a bastard at the age of 17.
Sutekh
Blackwing Lair Raider
- 7,489
- 106
Correct. Of course two 5's equal ten + Ant = threesome. Win, win solution. Aight?
I've had a few threesomes and a few foursomes, it's overrated.
Yes, I guess I'd rate her as a 6 and myself at about 7.5. She's about a 6-7 in terms of looks (body 7, face is 6), I give her a little bit of bonus for teacher (good for future), no kids, sexually submissive in bed (anal/gagging), but take away more because she is a little eccentric (in that crazy high school english teacher kinda way)/talks to her cat regularly even when not alone (and cat litter spread all throughout her house from her half-feral feline and it doesn't bother her), and because she dresses like a teacher too (intentionally and not interested in changing ie: not good arm candy in public), and she equally has little social life outside of dating.
I'm about a 7 in the looks department on a REALLY good day, and then having an amazing job/no kids/experience with women/redpill game bumps me up about a point, but a poor social life pulls me down a little. I've fucked quite a few 8s, but 9s and 10s just aren't interested, so I need to either up my game or up my looks, right now I'm working most on the looks portion of my life, lifting weights regularly since June... Biggest thing for me now will be cutting down below 20% bodyfat. Ideally I'd like to get down to 12% or so if I'm dedicated enough / have enough willpower.
Yes, I guess I'd rate her as a 6 and myself at about 7.5. She's about a 6-7 in terms of looks (body 7, face is 6), I give her a little bit of bonus for teacher (good for future), no kids, sexually submissive in bed (anal/gagging), but take away more because she is a little eccentric (in that crazy high school english teacher kinda way)/talks to her cat regularly even when not alone (and cat litter spread all throughout her house from her half-feral feline and it doesn't bother her), and because she dresses like a teacher too (intentionally and not interested in changing ie: not good arm candy in public), and she equally has little social life outside of dating.
I'm about a 7 in the looks department on a REALLY good day, and then having an amazing job/no kids/experience with women/redpill game bumps me up about a point, but a poor social life pulls me down a little. I've fucked quite a few 8s, but 9s and 10s just aren't interested, so I need to either up my game or up my looks, right now I'm working most on the looks portion of my life, lifting weights regularly since June... Biggest thing for me now will be cutting down below 20% bodyfat. Ideally I'd like to get down to 12% or so if I'm dedicated enough / have enough willpower.
Turns out that her "I'm a fucking idiot, apparently no one wants a commitment these days" is because after I told her no, she went and asked another guy that she had been keeping as backup, and he told her he wasn't interested in her either.
Big Phoenix
Pronouns: zie/zhem/zer
- 44,790
- 93,649
Zzen
Potato del Grande
- 2,808
- 3,393
