You do understand that your mother simply doesn't respect you? She dismisses everything you say that doesn't agree with her own positions on things. You have a complete total of zero influence upon her.Yeah, I've done this dozens of times. Unfortunately you can't have a substantive discussion with her without her just flipping out and doing something irrational, which frequently means something financially self destructive.
Why do you need a plan besides working in a career and making yourself happy?I'm not totally disagreeing with you. A big part of my problem is that I can't figure out what I would be doing with my life if I wasn't doing this.
I'm sure it's been explained before, and if so please post a link, but why are you handcuffed to your mom exactly?She will impose costs on me for disagreeing with her, either by becoming even more obstinate or in extreme cases by breaking shit when I leave the house.
The "n-count" part made me laugh.I have "dated" 5 women in the last year. I have slept with around 15 if you count prostitutes. 7 if you don't. Every woman I have dated, I dated more than once. I've slept with around 10 women more than once in the past year. I am currently trying to be exclusive with 1 girl, that I've been dating for 3 months. She is a 25 year old widow with a claimed n-count of 2 (former husband mid 50s lawyer).
Nagger?
What would you tell someone if say a wife said what you just posted about their husband?She will impose costs on me for disagreeing with her, either by becoming even more obstinate or in extreme cases by breaking shit when I leave the house.
She is literally impossible to deal with. She is a screaming maniac and she is used to everyone capitulating to her in order to shut her up. She's been doing it her entire live. You should see her at a fucking department store, they basically pay her to leave. I've been told by every single person that's ever encountered her that she is by far the most difficult person to deal with in the history of people.
*theirWhat would you tell someone if say a wife said what you just posted about there husband?
Jesus H Christ, any shred of compassion I had for you mothers situation just completely disappeared. Get the fuck out now and figure out what you want to do in life later. I'm sure when you'll be able to figure out something to do with your life when you don't have the depression and anxiety caused by your mother. Or at least you won't be able to blame her for it.She will impose costs on me for disagreeing with her, either by becoming even more obstinate or in extreme cases by breaking shit when I leave the house.
She is literally impossible to deal with. She is a screaming maniac and she is used to everyone capitulating to her in order to shut her up. She's been doing it her entire live. You should see her at a fucking department store, they basically pay her to leave. I've been told by every single person that's ever encountered her that she is by far the most difficult person to deal with in the history of people.
Leave for five days without announcement, and let the chips fall. Come back, then leave again for another five days if shit is messed up. Repeat.She will impose costs on me for disagreeing with her, either by becoming even more obstinate or in extreme cases by breaking shit when I leave the house.
She is literally impossible to deal with. She is a screaming maniac and she is used to everyone capitulating to her in order to shut her up. She's been doing it her entire live. You should see her at a fucking department store, they basically pay her to leave. I've been told by every single person that's ever encountered her that she is by far the most difficult person to deal with in the history of people.
CAN I GET OUT TOO?!Mist, to quote Stuart Smalley, youre good enough, youre smart enough, and Doggone it, youre worth having your own goddamn life.
You know most of us here beat the shit out of one another relentlessly, all in good fun, but seriously. You deserve to have more in your life. Get out, for your own good.
Depends. Most marriages aren't pretty either. At least most of the ones I know about.What would you tell someone if say a wife said what you just posted about there husband?
I have no idea what happiness looks like. My childhood was miserable. Teenage years were fun but it's really hard not to have fun as a healthy teenager. My job was fun, being an overpaid IT monkey at before I was old enough to have a license was pretty cool. I don't know many happy adults. I know a lot of functional alcoholics that lie to themselves that they're happy, like most of the professors in my department. There's an unbelievable amount of drug addicts around here. My smart, beautiful cousin just ODed on Heroin and had a psychotic episode. Or maybe it was a psychotic episode and then she ODed. Who the fuck knows.Why do you need a plan besides working in a career and making yourself happy?
Thanks keg, some late 90s vaguely Christian alt rock always helps!Mist i feel this song really describes your situation well. if Scott Stapp can't get you back on the right path, all hope is lost.
I dunno man, youre pretty far gone.CAN I GET OUT TOO?!