So heres the thing for me. Joel dying in the game / show isnt inherently bad. He was a bad dude that got a second chance arc and chose to do the right thing, and the second game gave Ellie to do the exact same and she did and it cost her a lot. I think anyone who follows the meme's / whatever of the second game know the biggest "issue" was Abbey being how Abbey was and now that issue is not one in the show. There will be no "playing" as Abbey for half the show, yes we will get an episode to humanize her, but all the other bullshit will be left out. So it just becomes a revenge / growing up story which in itself is fine.
There iis a lot of opportunity to right a lot of wrongs even if keeping the general narrative the same, its up to Mazin to fix it though. Maybe it will work, maybe not, but I am not going to hate on it outright.
I give a lot of leeway to shows for the woke shit that pops up these days cause I expect it and try to enjoy shit around it. This show isnt egregious, even the "dyke" comments somewhat work if you consider humanity stuck socially 25 years in the past for the older folks still around. Theres no growth, and the mission should be re population which is obviously not what those two were up to. Yea it's a little eye rolley but there is still alot outside of it that I do like.
I want Tommy to be the "bad" guy in this, its shocking he isn't and I think we will get there. It's something I really enjoyed playing through it, and I love the morally grey shit.
Maybe you are right and it wont pay off, but theres enough different that there can be course correction on it.