The Tanoubliette: Pussy Hurt and Delusions or TTPHAD for short.

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sjw's are like islamic terrorists, they have a right to act that way because they're lesser people somehow, you however should act like Hindu monks, calm in front of all storms, every utterance is within your distinct control so you are wrong to not exercise utmost chastity and turn the cheek at all moments, the other lesser beings may act as they please without qualm, they are a made up problem, your own individual restraint is everyone's problem because you're the only being with agency.
 
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Quaid: "She behaved inappropriately, and how he chose to respond in the face of this behaviour is entirely irrelevant. "

This is where you and I disagree then. I can accept that she behaved inappropriately, but that in no way excuses or justifies his choice of response. He certainly doesn't deserve to be celebrated for acting like an asshole.
 
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Fana, I read your posts and they have a very ethereal quality. It's like, the words are English and they are strung together in ways that sort of make grammatical sense, and yet there's nothing there that holds any meaning. I feel like you're really, really trying to make some kind of point, like you're an alien piloting a human body, trying to communicate by forming phrases that, according to your observations of human behavior, SHOULD make sense, but they're missing something. Some sort of logical connection to the conversation at hand, perhaps? Any relevance at all, really?

Don't give up, though. You're welcome to practice here as often as you like.
 
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Tanoomba_sl said:
Quaid: "She behaved inappropriately, and how he chose to respond in the face of this behaviour is entirely irrelevant. "

This is where you and I disagree then. I can accept that she behaved inappropriately, but that in no way excuses or justifies his choice of response. He certainly doesn't deserve to be celebrated for acting like an asshole.
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Assholes are going to celebrate when assholes behave like assholes.

I'm not saying his response was 'justified', only that it was a possibility given the circumstances. Different people respond in different ways when placed under stress. Some lash out verbally or violently. Some retreat into ignorance or safe spaces. She caused him stress when she had multiple avenues to do otherwise, and shouldn't be surprised at any outcome that came from that.

If she wanted to avoid confrontation, she should not have initiated it. So ya, I disagree with his choice of response, but I feel the blame for the interaction lies squarely on her.
 
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I don't celebrate people being assholes unprovoked. In this case, it's Kool and the Gang time, though.
 
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Fair enough. Hell, I've spent quite a lot of time behind DJ booths. I'd yell 'FUCK OFF' over the mic for repeatedly requesting shitty songs (or any song really - go listen to your iPod), let alone getting accused of rape insensitivity while I'm just doing my job playing top 40s and getting people to dance.
 
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Exactly. The fact that it continued beyond that evening and turned into some article on the web, just makes her behavior even worse, in my opinion. Granted, it was a site I have never heard of.
 
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Tanoomba_sl said:
Quaid: "let alone getting accused of rape insensitivity"

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You're right. Maybe she was just sharing a cool story about her vagina. Maybe her intent wasn't to imply that the DJ's selection of that particular song was insensitive to rape survivors. Who can say? Certainly not you or I.

I just know how I would have taken it.
 
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The exact text: "'I know you want it' are the exact words my rapist said to me before he raped me. I don't want to hear this shit."

I'm sure she was just sharing for the fuck of it. It's her "ice-breaker" for conversation.
 
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Soy: "I don't celebrate people being assholes unprovoked. In this case, it's Kool and the Gang time, though."

Here's another fundamental difference between me and the peanut gallery: I don't think it's OK to act like an asshole, even when provoked. I have no doubt that you will incorrectly interpret that as "Tanoomba says you should just let people shit on you" when what I'm actually saying is "There are better ways to respond to being provoked than by acting like an asshole." And yes, as much as many people here hate to hear it because it goes entirely against their "FIGHT THE BAD GUY!!!" mentality, sometimes (often?) ignoring provocation is by FAR the best response, EASILY several orders of magnitude better than lashing out or acting like an asshole.

But who wants to respond in a responsible and productive manner when all you're interested in is the fight itself? Not the Anti-SJWs, that's for sure. Stoke that fire! Widen the divide! You're with us or against us!
 
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"She showed him a text explaining why she, a rape victim, didn't want to hear a song that trivializes rape."

It does?
 
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Funny that you don't think its ok to act like an asshole, yet you've been trolling the shit out of these boards for 2+ years
 
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Tanoomba doesn't believe in acting like an asshole, even when provoked. Here's a selection from last page in response to me:

Are you retarded? "...articulated his response in a 500 word novella on a stall door"? You already know what my response would have been, you jerk: I would have ignored the easily-ignorable text message.
 
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And Tanoomba acting like people only do something "for the fight itself" is only second to hodj saying the same thing for most hypocritical position EVER
 
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Who is ignoring provocation 'better' for? The victim? The provocateur? Both parties? The business? Society? Are you so arrogant to believe you know what is 'better' for everyone? Jesus fuck.
 
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Quaid: "I just know how I would have taken it."

See, earlier you jumped down my throat for drawing from the "anti-SJWs are claiming to be attacked" well, but here you are doing exactly that.

"I have a problem with something you did." =/= "You are a bad person for doing that."

This is probably the biggest reason SJWs get so much hate. It's not because they're whining about stuff that doesn't matter, it's because if they claim there is a problem, people who think there ISN'T a problem will jump to the conclusion that they are being "accused" of something, that they are being highlighted as part of the problem and therefore as bad people. They feel they are being judged/attacked by SJWs, therefore of course they are justified in turning this into a war. You tell me I'm a bad person, of course I'm going to defend myself, right? The guy who made those "Why are you so angry?" videos goes into much more detail about this phenomenon.

It's grade-school logic posing as moral indignation.
 
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Tanoomba_sl said:
Stuff about not being an asshole.
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That's idealistically great, but I live in the real world. It's funny you mention "respond in a responsible and productive manner". There never should have been a reason to respond. I'm not interested in the fight. I'd be happier never having known this story ever existed. However, now that it's been brought to light, I'm happy to see this DJ turn the butthurt up. There are assholes out there in the real world and if you're triggered by random, normal, everyday things(like pop music)...you're going to have a bad time out there.
 
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Gee why would the targets of SJW's feel like they are being accused of anything? Thats so unreasonable. Those cis white male shitlords should stop being so uppity.
 
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