Vanessa's Tranny AMA Blog Thread

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Void said:
I don't want to sound like I'm being critical, because I'm not, but I've always wondered about that. I see a good looking chick here, and then find out she has a penis, and I immediately have no further interest. I can intellectually see the dichotomy there, but I don't have a problem rationalizing it. Attractive face and body is attractive because it is trying to look feminine, so that doesn't freak me out or anything when I find out it is a dude, but I'm no longer attracted to the whole package (pun intended) either.

I'm not saying everyone should have my same interests, obviously, but I've never understood the desire to see an attractive girl with nice tits...and a dick. To me, in a purely sexual way and having nothing to do with gender identification etc., that's just a dude, great tits or face notwithstanding. If there isn't a vagina there, I'm not attracted to it. And I can't comprehend someone finding it attractive unless they are already attracted to dicks in the first place. Like I said, I don't care what other people are into, I'm just giving my perspective on things. I mean, I have no problem with dicks in porn, I just don't want them attached to the object of my interest, the females. Which is why I find it interesting because Gunnar is saying he is 100% not attracted to men. The penis ruins it for me, but enhances it for him.

Different strokes and all, and as far as I'm concerned people can fuck or jerk off/flick the bean to anyone they want.
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As weird as it sounds, the dick doesn't even register as masculine to me. I find the male form disgusting, facial hair is my nightmare. Ever see Buck angel? The pussy doesn't rate on my scale at all, that's a dude that is gross. I don't see the penis and think guy, as fucking bat shit as that will sound to people. The rest of the appearance is what makes the difference to me.
 
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Mario Speedwagon said:
What's your cat's name/gender identity?
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Ittle Bittle Dittles, and she's a she (wokka wokka)

Cad said:
How old were you when you transitioned? Your face doesn't look all that masculinized relative to most trans that we see in here who look like a dude in a wig and dress.
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Decided at 34, seriously started at 35, and am 38 now. I'm fucking old, help :*(

Kiroy said:
I can't remember if you said earlier, are you saving up to cut that donger off or just gonna leave it?
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Sorry, yes I read that but I skipped it...

My insurance currently doesn't cover SRS... until that changes, I'm keeping my twig and berries.

The issue is that I don't feel that SRS is something I should pay for out of pocket. ...and before people jump to conclusions about me being an entitled piece of shit that thinks taxpayers, "the system" or yadda yadda should pay for my issues, no... that's not what I think at all. I paid for all my doc visits, meds, b00bies, surgeries, clothes, makeup (LoL) myself. Insurance should never cover b00bs or voice surgery or nose-jobs etc. but the genitals is a very defining thing for trans people. I'm kinda the exception, as my dysphoria didn't take shape as having a revulsion to my junk as it does with most trans girls. I'm more or less indifferent to owning a penis... hell, it's fun being inside a vag honestly. But I also feel that how I look, how my body is and such... that having my junk doesn't make sense anymore. I can't wear super tight yoga pants, workout capris etc... even though I'm pretty small, it's still enough to be uncomfortable to both me and anyone that notices LoL :/

But... basically, once insurance covers it, yeah I'm going for it unless I marry a female (unlikely).

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Vanessa do you shred?
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Not that well anymore, but yes. Maybe I'll post a vid up in here soon. I kinda worry about being doxxed, as I know you guys as a collective are very very slick motherfuckers haha, but at the same time, I have nothing to hide really... you won't find a Samdaman pedo record on me LOLOLOLOLOL

consensus said:
Vanessa looks like a gypsy
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Uh... thx?


Okay I think I'm caught up duders~ Might as well post one more pic for attention whoring needs:
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It's weird though, I know sexuality isn't binary. But I think gender is. I understand that some men are born as women and vice versa. And not only is it a mental thing, it's chemical. But I still think at the end of the day you are a man or a woman, none of this gender fluidity bullshit. You are eiher a man or a woman. Some won't ever accept you as anything but a man, and many will accept you a the woman you feel you are.
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Your sex is black and white. Outside of birth defects you're either male or female at birth. Gender over the years has moved to more of a concept of identity based on characteristics rather than a definite A or B. It's more like a big gray-scale rather than a straight line.

I've worked with and hired plenty of transgender folks over the past few years and tend to ask them what their preferred pro-noun would be rather than just assume since they need to feel comfortable in the workplace first and foremost. Never ran into the whole "xe" thing yet though. Plenty of people go with they/them.
 
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I paid for them. This will answer any more questions about whether they're real or not. They're real; real expensive.
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MOTOR BOATING! Brrrrrrrrrrrrr


Great thread.
 
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Your sex is black and white. Outside of birth defects you're either male or female at birth. Gender over the years has moved to more of a concept of identity based on characteristics rather than a definite A or B. It's more like a big gray-scale rather than a straight line.

I've worked with and hired plenty of transgender folks over the past few years and tend to ask them what their preferred pro-noun would be rather than just assume since they need to feel comfortable in the workplace first and foremost. Never ran into the whole "xe" thing yet though. Plenty of people go with they/them.
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Fair, I agree with your statements. My point was more about the Xe and xer shit, or people that don't claim any sex. Or that they are neither. I just can't fully get behind that.
 
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I would have guessed a good 4 years hrt. Still amazing results for your age. FFS? brow ridge is remarkable feminine.


I do wonder why the sudden posting.
 
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Gunnar said:
Fair, I agree with your statements. My point was more about the Xe and xer shit, or people that don't claim any sex. Or that they are neither. I just can't fully get behind that.
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They're called non-binary.

By far, most of us trannies are binary.
 
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Why do you hate the homozygous compliment of X chromosomes found in every cell of your body?
 
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How did your family and friends take the news that you are Trans?

I don't understand labels, I've never been with a guy/trans/whatever but you can't rule that out and I don't think anyone really can.. It's just sex and it's fun...
 
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Caliane said:
I would have guessed a good 4 years hrt. Still amazing results for your age. FFS? brow ridge is remarkable feminine.


I do wonder why the sudden posting.
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Thanks bunches, that's sweet of you ^_^ ; are you a sister yourself?

Yes, I've had FFS. I was remarkably masculine previously and it's uncomfortable now to look at those pics... I think it would freak out the lot of you.

Well, I just made that ONE post about having a small peen and it kinda blew up (no one's fault but mine, but I didn't predict this level of debauchery would ensue tbh).

ZyyzYzzy said:
Why do you hate the homozygous compliment of X chromosomes found in every cell of your body?
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Your humor is well met; bravo~ To answer tho: I just do. I also hate my mitochondria... and oh em gee Becky, don't even get me started on my golgi complex; the loathing is unbearable.

latheboy said:
How did your family and friends take the news that you are Trans?

I don't understand labels, I've never been with a guy/trans/whatever but you can't rule that out and I don't think anyone really can.. It's just sex and it's fun...
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Shocked. I wasn't this gay, effeminate guy back then. It was really left field for everyone, but everyone that knows me knows that I'm genuinely happier, more gregarious, and more "at home" and I think it makes sense to them NOW knowing me versus just springing news on them back THEN. It's been a trip! :eek:

kegkilla said:
It probably helps that this one isn't nearly as insufferable as Jerle and the others.
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<3 <3 <3
 
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