I've watched a bunch of those review videos and the only woke shit mentioned was in one vid where this guy went off on a very long and repetitive rant because the main character (who can be male or female) is referred to in dialogue as they/them. Not enough to bother me in the slightest. I was more annoyed that I wasted my time watching the video.
It's basically X-com with a bit more focus on story. I'm in, but I'm seriously disappointed that it doesn't have mod support, which adds so much replay value.
According to the recent skill-up video, the developers have a system implemented where it takes stock of your team after every battle and customizes a bit of dialogue to fit whoever's survived, and make a few references to whoever died.
I don't think long-term the story will actually change, it'll just be some references to the extras that rotate in and out.
I don't think I've ever seen a TBS youtuber go 'man this game sucks'.
looks really good, i haven't bought a single new game this year (maybe even last) and would be very tempted by this but i'm on vacation next week out of country so doesn't really make sense. will definitely pick this up on PC when i'm back and it goes on sale and a few patches though