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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I disagree. Like I"ve said logic has made me very successful in my life so I"m not going to leave it behind the first time I encounter a situation where more disagree with me then don"t due to my own logic. Evelys.. Are you telling me its not possible to do what I am doing and not get caught...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I get the point none of you agree with cheating. Are you all expecting a bunch of ad hominem attacks to change my mind? Does that ever work for you? For any of you who have ever followed a thread I was in you have seen me change my mind or opinion when someone presented better logic. I have...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I spoiler ed this because your honestly going to ignore most of it anyway... but here it is.. your welcome to debate any point you take issue with. Ialwayswelcome debate. Spoiler Alert, click show to read: If you didn"t cherry pick and ignore most of my posts you would have seen how I got...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    The entire second half of that post you just quoted already addressed what you said...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Alcestis have you ever seen two people in a relatiohship like yours that looked perfect and yet it failed? With a 50% failure rate I imagine you"ve seen more then a few. I know I have. I"ve seen people who were perfect couples with all the goodness and godliness in their hearts one could ever...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Alcestis that was a nice cop-out. "way to doom marriages before they fail..." . It"s called being realistic. Being realistic has granted me great success in my life. Avoiding many of the pitfalls that are normal to my race, sex, and color among other things. A fact is a fact 50% of marriages...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I didn"t tell my fiancee because she thinks like you. In other words I can quote her the statistics of marriage and reasons for divorce all day yet she (and I imagine you) will believe your the exception to the rule and expect your life to be different... There"s a 50% shot shes right. I just...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Alcestis I"m not justfying anything. I"m only explaning how I came to the decision I"m at. I don"t need to justify it to anyone but I"m telling you so that you and the others mightunderstandwhere I"m coming from. Your pretend at telling the future and speaking of some karma stylized event...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Some of you are still thinking to linear.. let me try to explain why this issue is not so simple... Conventional wisdom is those vows = trust = never lying to your fiancee about anything ever. Yet 50% of marriages fail from people who give those vows believing in them at the time. I don"t...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    brekk asked something similar See response here If you don"t like my response I can"t help you. Your welcome to explain to me why people get married if you feel your understanding is superior.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Alcestiyour getting angry. I"m not. Stop that. I was pointing out a benefit to not burning your bridges and you don"t agree with it. I get that. But you can talk this through rationally. Congratulations on your long term relationship. What"s your point? I pulled out 90% and said it was a...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Let me put this in terms your child like mind is failing to understand. Let us say you imagine the ideal man. Someone who provides for their wife and kids. Someone who shows tokens of their affection. Someone who praises, raises, and disciplines their children correctly. Someone who takes their...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"ve thought about it and honestly I am not sure where I sit on that issue. My thinking on the subject is as such.. I know it"s selfish of me to enjoy my freedom but to deny hers (assuming she wanted to do the same) if I did deny hers that is. -OR- I could be ok with it and what difference...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    The fuck buddy is completely aware of my situation 100%. Hell I think she knows more about me then I know of myself. She knows I"m getting married. She knows my fiancee is pregnant and just about everything else under the sun. Including stuff my fiancee doesn"t now I would bet if there is...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Burning bridges is always bad. I have personal experience to back up why you shouldn"t burn your bridges. One situation now that I enjoy having very much and free of obligation. High School Sweetheart This is your standard we met in high school, she was my best friend, we dated, she was my...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Your screwed. It"s over. Drop her and run. You"ll get attached hanging around her hoping for a shot and it will never happen. There might be a very small off chance you get a one time pitty bang in a year or so but its NOT WORTH IT. Cut your losses and get out.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    This is actually pretty good advice if your having trouble finding a women... Marry the average women but fuck the shit out of the hot ones.
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    Home buying thread

    And you"ll get about 3grand more back in taxes every year to! But expect your other expenses to go up a bit more then that. You"ll also be buying new stuff for the house for umm forever? And that"s a regular cost that isn"t ever going to go away.. Oh buy your insurance costs on everything...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Keep both of them. There"s a decent shot that one of them isn"t serious about you and will drop you fast so keep your backup options open.
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    Home buying thread

    It sucks but two more months really isn"t that bad when buying a house. It just gives your more time to inspect the house over and sit on the idea if that"s the right house for you. More time to look around and check out other offers or maybe start pricing out materials for repair. Find a good...
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    Home buying thread

    I didn"t do any bidding when I bought my house (I bought new) but if you have nothing to lose why not just bid on everything you can? I mean one after another that is in the order of ones you like the most to least like the most. I don"t think you can bid on more then one at a time unless you...
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    Home buying thread

    Ya 10k is to high to upbid. Especially in the current buyers market. Besides just check back in 3 months you"d be surprised how often deals fall through.
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    Home buying thread

    They don"t have two offers they have one and its yours. They are baiting you to try and get some more money out of you because they are seriously considering selling to you. Don"t move an inch.
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    Home buying thread

    I"ll just add that my current mortgage is about 40% of of my monthly paycheck. That"s is pretty damn high I know but my fiancee is still in school for 4 more months and hasn"t started working. Once she starts working it will be less then 20% or OUR net income which is much much better but as a...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    She lost her virginity to you? And she didn"t want to date any longer? What"s abnormal about that? Her first time sucked. It sucks for everyone. Usually its uncomfortable and painful and unless you were taking your sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet long ass time getting her ready it was still going to be...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    The only time you mess with a girl who already has a man is when your looking for a bootycall and NOTHING SERIOUS EVER. If you fall for a chick with a man and she leaves him then know that she WILL leave your ass to. It"s just a matter of time and a different dick later. .
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    Easy Way Steal Pizza

    How have they not caught on to this? This has to be some sort of viral marketing scheme.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Good lord your doing it wrong. You never have to put your tongue in it and unless you have a unnaturally long tongue it"s not going to do much for you anyway by doing so. You put your tongue right above her clitoris (above that little bump just short of tip top of the vagina) and lick that...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Remember guys there is nothing wrong with a chick who has kids as long as you have no intention of staying with her. Chicks with kids make great friends with benefits since they often think their real estate has gone down after having a kid (which is true) Also remember the rules for creating...
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    Adventures with lyrical - buying a business

    I read this thread and think "Wow all of this is absolutely amazing it would be awesome to be able to do this." but reality sets in and I realize there"s a reason why the top 1% make that kind of money. So I have a couple of questions for you Lyrical. Is this the kind of thing that can only...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    /Internet Psychotherapist 1. The first picture looks like some kind of vacation or event. Possibly something you two did together? I"d read that as shes remebering the good times you two had. 2. The second picture is more straightforward and obvious. Shes thinking about you and shes in a...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    For the record I don"t recommend picking up chicks at the club/bar/loung whatever. You get what you pay for and diseases are free. Try wal-mart or a college campus. College campuses fucking own. Use that divorce line but in person on a college campus. If the chick doesn"t start roleplaying...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    DO NOT LISTEN TO RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FROM THIS MAN.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Try going into a bar and just being as wild as fuck all you can be. Don"t try to get laid just try to talk to everyone. Hot as fuck girl or not. Be obnoxious, be loud, dance stupidly, drink excessively. Then when its all over just remember what shit you said had girls laughing and what shit you...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Most women think they are average even the hot ones. Just talk to the hottest girl you see and treat her like shes ok and she will work to impress you. Say things like.. "Your ok or you look decent" and not things like "OMG YOUR SO FUCKING HOT GAWD!!!" ** *Disclaimer: If you have mass amounts...
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    Home buying thread

    Might I ask a few questions Tuco? I read your home adventures and couldn"t find a couple of answers that I went through while buying my house. Feeling you"ve asked yourself these questions already I am interested in your PoV. 1. From your time line it almost looks like you went from Aug 2008...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"ve stopped my part in derailing this thread. How ya holding up aychamo?
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I am not about to argue the baseline definition of rape. That would 1 derail this thread even further and 2 well.. just no. no. Edit. Arguing a neo-nazi Jewish Holocaustic rape train on endangered animals from africa while burning blacks by the thousands would be a more civil argument then...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    No No its not the logical next step. Its not. I"m not going to argue this with you. Rape is simply not comparable or even similar to being videotape without permission during sex. No No its not. No No it is not. No.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    sigh.. fail. No actually I do think group morals are a necessity but that doesn"t make stupid ones any less stupid. for example a group moral (or law) which says you shouldn"t kill one another is a good thing. But another morale which defines another person as being a sociopath if they do...