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Well she"s only the second chick I"ve been with BEFORE and AFTER she had a kid (only this one is mine) and in both cases the difference was noticeable. I"m not saying it was cavernous or anything but if you are telling me your women had a baby and snapped back exactly like she was before then...

@Erronius Oh I have my black stereotypes but girth isn"t the problem. It"s more of a before and after thing. If you"ve been with a women and before it was super tight and excellently wet then she has a baby and now it"s only sometimes tight your girth isnt going to change that. I dont care...

Well there is one other thing that attracts men to childless women which is that they are still tight down there. I know a lot of men and women will say it snaps right back but no it really doesn"t. It"s not super loose or anything after having a child but you would be lying or really blessed...

@Foghorn that article is an excellent example of the advice single women should NOT follow. That women has an super inflated value of herself and since she has a blog maybe her value as a single mom is higher then normal but for a single mom reading that blog that advice is poison. First...

How old are you? Reason I ask is there is like an 80% divorce rate in this country. It could just be that where you live women do tend to stay married but I know a lot of women here in their late 30"s who are single. Not so many in their 40"s if only because where I work there aren"t that many...

This is just ancedotal evidence but I know A LOT more women that are single moms then I do that are in active marriages. Thought I do know more than a few who have been in several marriages and have kids from multiple fathers. But most of those women are usually single because they say they...

@ Lefazz I would make one change to this statement to make it true an that is: So, would you say that most single women with children viewthemselvesasun-wed-able It seems like a small change but it"s but it"s such a common misconception that men and women have that it needs to be...

@Phoenix Male birth control pills/implants are expected to be out in 5-7 years .... sigh way to long a wait I know but at least if I have a son I can make damned sure hes on it!.

The thing about Single Mom"s and 20 something"s chicks is easier to understand if you know the value system. The value system is something like this. A women between the ages of 16 through 24 is at the prime of her life. For her this is a GOOD as it will ever get. A women at this age can and...

If she"s putting out and you are able to stay detached then go for it but if she"s not putting out or you still have feelings for her then RUN away.

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Here is a big question that applies to you and that might help. Since you are married do you plan on starting a family in the next 5 years? If it is even a realistic chance that you might be having kids in 5 years then think very hard about getting a house.

You will get an immediate and very large tax break if you buy a house while if you were to pay for your tuition you would get only the tax break that allows you claim what you pay in tution. Now it may sound that they are somewhat even BUT they aren"t because if you were to buy a house you...

@Brikker when you say partner of 5 years did you mean marriage? At first I assimumed that from what you said your relationship was pretty much over but then I noticed it was 5 years long and that makes a big difference. Usually a women will decide in the first few months to <1 year if a guy is...

Have you ever seen a women who was in an abusive relationship and you wanted to rip the mans head off? Even if you didn"t know the woman? The male family instinct is different from a womens in that the male is more about protection, herding, providing and so forth while a women is more...

@Erronius That urge to have a family isn"t likely to be something as simple as "oh shit I want kids now" rather it will be more along lines of "I am starting to feel comfortable in longer relationships and prefer them over short ones", "I talk to my partner and want to know how they are feeling...

Zoe says hi double post monster...

This is the point in the relationship where you find out if she"s in it for the relationship or in it for the temporary fun she can get out if you. If she"s always complaining about never going out, never doing anything, and tired of doing the same things then you either need to take her out...

When you start to get older every women you date or your friend dates becomes potential wife material. This is because that natural male instinct towards protecting and raising a family becomes stronger then sticking your dick in any 2 legged walking object. When you are young, friend > pussy...

@tenks have you ever worked out really hard and had huge cramps, tired muscles and pain all over afterward but still felt good anyway? Like an adrenilne high that lasts all day and sometimes all if the next day? Kids are like that but times 1000. It seems like ao much work and effort but...

Now if all you want is advice on how to pick up a quick ho for a fuck for a month or two then go pick up a couple cans of four loko and ask out every hot chick you see till one says yes. The law of averages says one will eventually.

@inconsiserable a healthy an long lasting relationship involves several factors that are nearly always mutually exclusive to a friendship with your "bro". The two biggest factors are money and time. I am explaining this because bro"s have to take a backseat to future wife material for both...

Then you haven"t had wife material yet. Yea your average fling, bitch, or ho is lower then your bro your future wife material isn"t. As you get older and switch from dating to finding a wife your bro takes a backseat. Even a long lasting childhood friendship is nothing compared to the...

Never say this. In fact don"t even think it even if it might be true. Have you ever seen a really hot women who is with a guy who is fat, ugly, disabled or other wise hampered and yet she is still totally happy? I"m sure you have. Women don"t think like men. A women can and will find herself...

Bros before hoes really on lasts until you get older and start looking for marrige material. If your friend is trying to pick up a girl that you really click with anytime you around her then it is practically your duty to go after that booty. No seriously puns aside if she"s the one then you...

Ok but see this right here? This doesn"t happen. At least no in the way I think you are trying to get across. The women in this example doesn"t shift friends and fuckables from one ladder to the other. No what she does is shift fuckables from top to bottom and vice versa. But that has always...

Ah see but a women"s "parameters" don"t change. What changes is her circumstances. What a women wants is a combination of what she can visually see, hear, know and comprehend in her world and this view is different at 16 as it is different at 20, 30, 40, 50 and so on. But what isn"t different is...

The thing is, is this doesn"t run counter to the Ladder Theory if i read your rambling correctly. When the 3 rules were written he was explaining it from the position of "Why the guy isn"t interested in her" but it is still just as accurate to say "The girl[/b already has a[b]guymuch higher than...

Labels for different aspects of friendship shouldn"t be so surprising. Bestfriends, close friends, girlfriends (girl to girl), boyfriends, life friends, etc. Ask any teenager and they should be able to give you a dozen types of "friends" off the top of their heads but you are excused for not...

Lithose if the first time you heard about the friendzone was on the internet then consider yourself very lucky indeed. Though that does explain why you have no clue what it means and why you wrongly think it"s internet slang.

There"s friend and friendzone. I don"t know what you are playing the semantic game because you know what I am talking about. You know what this whole discussion has been about. There is a difference between a friend who is in the friendzone and a friend who is potentially and eventually fuckable.

IF A MAN FINDS YOU ATTRACTIVE YOU CANNOT BE FRIENDS Spoiler Alert, click show to read: Lithose you weren"t ever in the friend zone with your wife you were always among the fuckable options on her real ladder. You just weren"t higher then her current husband at the time which makes sense...

How many times did you ask your wife out and she said no before she finally said yes? I ask because there is a difference between friend zone and a girl who is interested in dating you. It is can be hard for a guy to tell the difference but quick way to find out is to just ask them out directly...

Is your parents home custom built or new construction?

Alright I give up. What"s the joke I"m missing?

How long have you been looking for a home? If the answer is less then one year then I"d say pass on this deal and keep looking at least for that long or close to it. How many other homes (new or old construction) have you visited? If the answer is less then 5 then DEFINITELY do not make any...

Rushing is never a good idea and never buy based on future potential no matter how secured you believe it is.

There are many times when renting is better then buying like if you are constantly moving around a lot, if you are still in college and don"t know where you will be, if you don"t have a stable income, if you live in an extreme market (new york, california, chicago). But if you are planning on...

Now. 12 months is a good time to start the ball rolling because it could take you that long to find a place you like.

Just found thistoolfor anyone wanting to compare Rent vs. Buy. It"s from the New York Times and is a lot easier to use then some of the ones we have linked on these forums in the past, otherwise I wouldn"t have bothered... And while the going theory on renting is that renting for 30 years...