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  1. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    There are other examples, but let's keep it simple: she goes out of her way to maximize time spent with me, enough to where I lack time (or feel constantly under time pressure) to do my own thing. It has also come to annoy some of my close friends and family. I've dealt with co-dependence...
  2. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Haha, that is what I would like her to understand. I thought she would ease up over time, and I'm not seeing it. Guess I have to broach it and see what happens, knowing it may go south quickly, or just deal with it. But I don't think dealing with it is sustainable.
  3. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    LOL, so far she has lacked the obsessive psychosis of the bush pooper. But who knows, maybe you guys are in for a treat.
  4. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I accidentally did that too, and don't wish to repeat it. Hence, this problem either gets dealt with or the relationship ends.
  5. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    She just wants to spend an overwhelming amount of time together, and will go to impractical lengths, often against my wishes, to make it happen. For instance, she lives in town, I live in a burb. She has an in-town bachelorette party with her friends Saturday. They will be out late. She is...
  6. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Bros, I have a question: what I thought earlier on was my GF's enthusiasm for our relationship has started to feel a lot more like smothering co-dependence lately. Is there a graceful way to discuss this matter with her? The conversation ideas I've thought through so far sound harsh. But the...
  7. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    L O fucking L
  8. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    This. We aren't telling him anything different than a lawyer or even a listing real estate agent would tell him: un-fuck you house paperwork. There should be absolutely no ambiguity. In TX at least, there would be a limited power of attorney signed and notarized by your ex saying she gives up...
  9. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It's like you know you are being foolish, but can't help yourself. Your ex and the new woman should not meet, or if they do, it should be discussed beforehand and have mutual approval. You seriously thought it was a good idea to start bringing the woman who moved in 2 months of long distance...
  10. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I didn't think that was up for debate, was it? Not only did he catch her red handed TRYING to cheat, she displayed EVERY common trait of cheating: getting in much better shape out of the blue, not fucking Onoes, hanging out with a new group of friends that party all the time, getting home...
  11. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Onoes, Assuming the run-in had anything to do with child support or custody, get to a lawyer immediately. IMMEDIATELY. Perhaps you won't have to do anything, but you need to understand legally where you stand and what your options are. Otherwise, you could get blindsided, and that is a way...
  12. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Details!
  13. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    I was actually thinking this. She keeps hanging her extremely limited legal knowledge over his head as a threat. If he consulted with a lawyer about his options, my guess is that he could turn the tables on her and get her out no problem. Rand, spending a little on a lawyer consultation may...
  14. Haast

    Butthurt white guys, an Asian virgin and an angry lesbian walk into a bar...

    I think Columbia and Mattress Cunt are about to get a serious dose of Financial Justice. Feelsgoodman. On the subject of stupid cunts, someone linked me thisdogshit article from GQthat features professional scam artist Ellen Pao as a hero fighting the boys club in Silicon Valley. Then I...
  15. Haast

    My new Dating Pool

    It's nice that his wife tacitly approves of him banging hoors. I mean, after getting multiple STDs and staying with him, that has to be indirect approval right? That, or J49 is smooth enough to convince her that syphilis can be contracted by magic. Either way, well played J49.
  16. Haast

    Diablo 3 - Reaper of Souls

    Pretty sure it is US, unfortunately. Good information from Zaphid. One small addition: you can kill the rift guardian any time after 4:30 left to get a +1 increase if you are trying to milk your greater rift key.
  17. Haast

    BOSTON marathon bombing verdict

    Even if it didn't bother him, I bet it would bother the shit out of his scumbag family. May as well troll the shit out of them.
  18. Haast

    My new Dating Pool

    Do hoors hang out at malls in Jersey? Or do you have to go elsewhere to shop for them?
  19. Haast

    Diablo 3 - Reaper of Souls

    Getting a set drop or shard gamble and seeing invokers is a deskflip moment when you need a set piece bad.
  20. Haast

    Diablo 3 - Reaper of Souls

    This. T4 is probably too high for efficiency without WW6. Stick with the difficulty where things insta-gib until you get your WW set.
  21. Haast

    Diablo 3 - Reaper of Souls

    I'll play to find one, but it doesn't sound like it is something to poopsock the weekend over. Kind of surprised they didn't mix in a buff of some sort with it.
  22. Haast

    My new Dating Pool

    This is where your logic takes a turn. You keep doing couples stuff with your hoors and you do way more than get BJs from them, which is the supposed service need they are fulfilling. If they blew you, took money and left with minimal conversation, then your analogy makes more sense. I don't...
  23. Haast

    Diablo 3 - Reaper of Souls

    Perthis vague announcement, it looks like they are doing a cow level weekend? Mmmmkay.
  24. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    In Onoes defense, the girl is getting divorced and the house was getting sold regardless. And per Onoes, she is from his city and was planning to move there with family. So he didn't really have much to do with the house sale or city choice. Now having her move into his house and get chummy...
  25. Haast

    Diablo 3 - Reaper of Souls

    Anyone else put in a good chunk of playtime and never found an item you are interested in? For instance, I've never found: - Templar invincible relic - Shard of Hate - Furnace on any character. RNG gonna RNG, but the templar relic is frustrating since I mostly play solo and I have...
  26. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    A+++++++, this is the Onoes we've come to know and love.
  27. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Random story: I took up running post-divorce and it turns out I'm not terrible at it. I met a local running club at a recent race and hit it off with them, so I went to their meeting yesterday... and I'm 99.9% sure I messaged one of the girls there on OKC about 6 months ago (with no response)...
  28. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    EDIT: Dammit, someone already posted the ATHF line. Onoes, did I read correctly? She sold her house to move in with you halfway across the state after dating for two months? That is the most Onoes post I could have hoped for. Keep doing your thing, homie.
  29. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    Love can make you hot blooded, but when it goes wrong it can be as cold as ice. You feel like you are playing head games, so bad you get double vision and you rev on the red line. Some of the things the two of you do make you feel like a dirty white boy. It should feel like you were waiting...
  30. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    It was a reference to this: I'm not trying to absolve him completely. I've just been in his shoes for the "I hate that and I'm coming along to be miserable" thing before.
  31. Haast

    Marriage and the Power of Divorce

    If I read Palum's earlier post correctly, she says she wants to do whatever activity with him, then gets frustrated and quits easily. Which is a crap way to handle it. I need to have that same conversation with the GF soon, basically "we need to spend time doing things both individually and...
  32. Haast

    Diablo 3 - Reaper of Souls

    Nah, that must be where I fucked up. Pretty sure I only have either F or R. WW6+IK4 it is for now.
  33. Haast

    Recommend a dating site

    Wat is this shit about treating women proper in the "How do I Tinder" thread? Did we get it confused with the marriage thread? Let the man bang in peace.
  34. Haast

    Diablo 3 - Reaper of Souls

    Is there a shift in build when you switch from WW6+IK4 to WW6+BK? I happened to complete my BK set and swapped them in for my IK weapon, but it didn't really feel better. The unlimited fury was nice, but you had to give up permazerker and the damage seemed less. I assume I missed them memo...
  35. Haast

    Recommend a dating site

    So uhh, who is she? For science, of course.
  36. Haast

    Diablo 3 - Reaper of Souls

    Once you do, the rape train has no brakes. The spin to win build is T5-6 ready with just WW6 from 5 pieces plus RoRG. Even with a middling IK wep, WW6 + IK4 is insane. When I first got it, I tested the standard build at GRift 29 and plowed it in under 3 minutes. I went ahead and took the...
  37. Haast

    Funny, Strange, Random Pics

    Poe's Law so hard my brain may explode. Potentially related classic?
  38. Haast

    Diablo 3 - Reaper of Souls

    I bet trials are gone for next season. They claim they have already done away with them in daily builds. The "best completed +1" trial stone vendor makes the most sense. Is there any down side to that?
  39. Haast

    Recommend a dating site

    I don't have much online dating experience, so take this with a grain of salt. If you are interested in someone & message them, and don't get a response, wait a bit (at least 3 days, or more). If you are still interested, send one (and only one) more message. The tip I read said keep it...