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Meh never know. The study buddy might be fucking crazy for all i know.

She is at least 6 feet. I am 6' 2" and she is slightly shorter. Its hot as fuck.

I hope so. I am not sacking my marriage despite the emotional shit from yesterday, I was just a weeping vagina. I just dont want to find out that this whole situation is rooted in something more serious. Anyway, I will suffer in silence for now and hope it will pass and that no one else gets to...

Math and a sprinkle of CS. Taking algebraic topology class offered in the graduate school here and a second semester of complex analysis. I've been taking grad classes for the last 3 semesters based on the recommendations of the chair and deputy chair of my department together with a Professor...

I appreciate everyone's thoughts on this matter but a lot of people are stuck on the whole sex thing. The dilemma is not "Should I have sex with this hot younger thing or should I honor my vows to my wife?" The dilemma is "Why do I feel for this new girl what I dont feel for my wife and...

She would tell me she is uncomfortable with me speaking to her, explain why she feels that way and ask me not to do it.

I never said I wanted to spend any more time with my wife than I already do. That shit sounds horrible. The amount of time I spend with her is the exact amount of time I want to spend with her and vise versa. You think I wont be added to the book of life if I do that? Sad times.

Its not just that I am attracted to the another girl, its that I feel something that I have not felt for/with my wife. Thats whats freaking me out. If the situations were identical but reversed? I would want to know about it.

The holiday thing is not what it sounds like. She is 20 minutes away from me. She just cant drive or be driven by a jew and I dont want to sleep there. So I slept at home. We still had a nice family dinner together and all that shit. As to cheating on the wife and not telling her, thats not...

Nope, just quitting my current line of work

This. And to no ones surprise, I spent the entire night bullshitting with her. Did I mention my wife is at her parents house for 2 days due to jew holidays?

Keg, If i cheat, it makes no difference if my wife knows or not. It will end the marrage no matter what i learn about myself.

Its not harsh. And if it was, I would not mind. I am opening up here because I feel emotionally overwhelmed and its a first for me since a really bad breakup a long long time ago. Whatever advice and opinions can be offered I am here to listen. Plus talking about this shit feels weirdly...

Time and money. Hers plans require quiet a bit of cash and I am about to make 100k less a year so we are saving as much as possible.

The N word is srs business

We dont get too kinky. Occasionally the hand cuffs come out and stuff like that but its not often. We have sex no more than 2-3 times a week and more often than not, its 1-2 times. Its entirely my fault as my sexual appetite has never been anything to brag about and she has always been a lot...

Thats why I am not certain the problem is due to sex. Also maybe what Soy and Wombat said.

As often as I want to. Less often than she wants to. I hope all of you are right and this is just my dick talking.

Thanks guys. I will cut ties as much as possible and hopefully can get my emotions under control.

Lol. See the edit.

Just talking about this is making me feel better. The human brain is a fucking piece of shit. Edit: Making me feel better about the fact that this is just a dumb thing in my head and will be under control without ruining anyone's lives.

"Emotional cheating" is exactly what this feels like. Also since i havent slept with the other girl, my wife would be ok with that conversation. But I dont think she would be pleased with me still being around the other girl (due to school) and I'd rather not put her through that.

I disagree. And my wife knows this. And some of her plans take precedence over me as well. I mean, she left for a year to go live across country in pursuit of her goals, knowing full well what she and I were risking. Dropping classes is not an option. Not being a stupid emotional vagina is, I...

Not an option. We planned our schedules in a manner where all my classes are with her. This was done before any of this shit started, we were just study buddies then. I cant drop anything without jeopardizing my future plans. And those plans take precedence over everything.

I am sitting here agreeing with everything you guys are saying and at the same time my brain is absolutely occupied with the thoughts of seeing and talking to "her". The absolute loss of any sort of emotional control is by far the worst part of this whole thing. Its terrifying and exciting and...

By the way, I really appreciate everyone's opinions and advice.

I cant say I am unsatisfied with my wife. But I dont think I can say that I am happy either. I thought I was, now I have no idea.

Thats my predicament. I thought I was in love but if that was true, how can I possibly be in the situation I am in now? How can there be any other women that can turn everything on its head so easily and how can I be so helpless about it. How is it that I am feeling things now that I do not...

You damn right I will. And I will be happy to do it to keep great employees. You know what else I will be happy about? The increase of the purchasing power of the lower class which will, eventually, lead to more money in my pocket as my customers are some of the people that sell shit to these...

Ok bros I got myself into a bit of a predicament and I have no one else to vent to. A little background first. I am 35 and my wife is 31. We have been together for 9 years. 7 of which have been us living together with the last 5 with us being married. We do not have kids. I do not want any and...

I parked cars for 2 years. I made min wage + tips and tips were usually sparse. Now I sign checks and niether I nor any of my partners want to pay anywhere close to min wage because we know we will get garbage employees. If you want to hire worthwhile people, you pay more. Seems pretty basic but...

Actually I both hire and fire millennials and know, from personal experiences and formal education, that total utility gained from employment consists of more than wages. I could go into an explanation of it and present my own personal little anecdotes like everyone else is doing but I wont. And...

$20 an hour isnt exactly something to be happy about. Maybe in the boondocks but not on the coasts.

I do not think you understand how incentives work.

If you got paid 7 dollars an hour, would you really give two fucks what happened at your job?

What a jew.

Rape. Rape is funnier.

And i am the one here with the god complex. Sure thing buddy.

I am not trying to enlighten you or anyone else. The discussion was on the merits of interviewing practices. Some people disagree with them, some agree. No need to be butt hurt because you think me having an opinion based on real experiences somehow insults your ego. PS. I am always very...