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As others have already said, any advice is going to be totally dependent upon the nature of your previous relationship and the personalities of those involved. In terms of whether or not it will ruin the friendship, again, really depends on those involved. Some girls might turn you down gently...

I"ve actually always avoided heavy alcohol consumption in the immediate aftermath of a relationship. Because that shit just ends up leading either to me crying to a friend about how sad I am, an STD from a random, or a kid I didn"t know about a couple years down the road. None of which are very...

Nothing to talk about from my end of things. I"ve been laying low for nearly 3 weeks now, fairly sick, and I"m going to Peru in a week so I haven"t really prioritized my time towards meeting bitches. I haven"t bothered trying to get in touch with that Kate girl since the last set of texts didn"t...

You an filter that shit out, and make it clear to your "friends" to not spam you with invites to all the useless shit. I find Facebook to be fairly handy like others have said for staying in touch with people, organizing trips or parties, sharing pictures easily, tracking down people you met but...

That"s why I remove exes. Not because it"s serious business, but because I"d rather not see what"s going on in their lives, or have the ability/temptation to.

He"s 6"8" or something. No idea why I remember that.

Bus is getting pretty full, and we don"t need no more sausage. Umm, it"s pretty obvious from my past couple quotes that I CAN see it, hence why I"m giving her one more call. I mean fuck, we"ve each called each other two or three times with only a couple of those connecting and we"ve exchanged...

I texted Kate, the bar girl, a couple days ago again. Just asked if she was still up for a drink or bite and that I was finally feeling halfway decent (this cold has kicked my ass). She replied back the next day she was glad I was feeling better, and sorry that she never got back to me, that the...

Don"t give much worth to my advice, but I would just be honest with her and say that you aren"t comfortable staying "friends", and would appreciate if she left you alone for the time being. Make it clear you aren"t angry or bitter (if you aren"t), but that it just doesn"t sit right with you. I...

/livejournal Spoiler Alert, click show to read:So I don"t remember exactly where my last post left off regarding the young waitress. To make a long story short, we"d chatted a few times on the phone and planned on going out last Saturday (24th). She ended up having to work late because the...

In most businesses where there"s fixed costs and assets, sure, that might be the case. In construction/trades related work where you"re only paying labor and material on work you"re actually doing at the moment, it could well be true. But doubtful of course. Maybe they did a couple jobs that...

There"s no distinction between service and construction, from a company standpoint. We steer clear of service because in our opinion, it"s a pain in the ass. But there"s other companies that love it, it"s their bread and butter. I"d rather have 10 large projects at a million a piece, than 1000...

Hey, fuck you guy!

Regarding the plumbing company, I"d be pretty careful. Construction in general is a very tough business, and it doesn"t operate like most industries. There"s a reason that publicly traded construction companies are the minority, and most are private/family owned. Construction companies don"t...

I just don"t get that mentality. Maybe your group of friends isn"t as tight as mine, but I could never do that. I had a crush on a girl in highschool, and as it turned out she dated a good friend for a couple years until just after HS. I kept my distance and moved on to new chicks. The two of...

So wait, I say "we"ll see what happens" and it"s "pretty insane", and down below you tell me "fuck your intentions, leave it at "I"m gonna go out with her, and I"ll tell you what happens."" Maybe I"m not parsing something properly, but I"m not sure how one is "pretty insane" and the other is...

heh, I had skipped that post until Alcestis pointed it out. I went back and read it now. In response to the very end question about why does dude always end up with chicks in relationship, I offer the following: because you"re the shithead "friend" who lurks in the background around his group of...

haha, it"s not deep down, it"s front and center. I just don"t see it going anywhere due to the age difference, but obviously that"s pretty premature since I don"t know a thing about her. I don"t think it"s a "mistake", in that again it"s not like this is "costing" me anything other than a bit of...

^I"d offer advice, but I"m not sure anyone should take it . I"m terrible at reading girl"s intentions, but it seems to me that if you"ve already been physical and she"s making herself available and/or coming over, she"s interested. Whether she wants a relationship or action I have no idea...

So as it turns out this bar girl Kate is probably 19. I swear I thought she was 23-24, she doesn"t look THAT young. But I"ve always been bad at guessing age. As it turns out her phone broke after we"d texted a couple times, so we have messaged a few times on Facebook. She"s busy with school and...

Just cause I post about it here doesn"t mean I"m running around, "prowling" for bitches. I mean realistically since my breakup with Anne in late June, I"ve gone on a date with the PoF chick and the chick from my bro"s wedding. This third one I only mentioned to my bud as finding her attractive...

As I"ve said in the past, I"m just rolling with things and taking it as it comes. If that"s all this turns out to be, woo, I got some play from a hot young waitress. As it turns out, my bud must have spoken with her further after I left, because late last night I get a couple texts from him...

Isn"t that the lame or cowardly way of going about it? I know where she works, I see her at least once a week, doing it through my friend would be kind of gay I would think. I"m pretty much the exact opposite of the jealous type. Regardless though, I"m not approaching this with much expectation...

lol, you"re such a ray of sunshine as usual. What exactly do you mean?

Alrighty, gonna go in a completely different, and I"m sure ultimately futile, direction. A good friend of mine manages at a local pub chain, and I"m in there pretty frequently (1-3 times a week) just to grab a quick sandwich and beer, since he comps the beer and their food is pretty good...

epic burn

Wait. Is that dude actually a band member? I haven"t followed this thread at all, but jesus that"s fucking funny.

I address some of what you posted further below, but the insecure thing I completely disagree. I"m not insecure in terms of my "worth" as an individual or potential mate. I"m a hell of a catch IMO. The only insecurity I have really is that I am not particularly confident when approaching females...

Again though, what did I lose out of it? Woo, I paid for cheap concert tickets and a meal, total about 80 bucks. I spend that if I go out for steaks/drinks with my buds, and double or triple if we hit bars afterwards. What did I gain? Perhaps not much, since it appears things are done with...

Oh I realize that. You realize that. We all realize that. The problem is, your subconscious doesn"t. You"re a huge ball of emotions and feelings that you"ve never felt before, or have never had reciprocated. And suddenly BAM you find this girl that makes you feel totally, completely different...

Bah, just got off the phone with Charlene, looking like that"s done with for the time being unfortunately. I called her up and we chatted about our respective weekends for a few minutes, then I asked her what her schedule was like and if she"d like to do something. She hummed and hawed and said...

Arguing with random, anonymous jackasses on the internet with no intentions of ever meeting in real life is "expanding our social spheres"? What point were you making, exactly? I"m talking real, live relationships and social interactions here, not chatting with people by text or voice.

Fair enough, in terms of also working and school occupying your time, that"s good. But like I said, video games aren"t really a respected hobby, and for some good reasons. Most hobbies get you up and active, out of your place, while gaming does just the opposite. It doesn"t tend to expand your...

This. Most of the "advice" here, at least lately, has been massive negative overanalysation of what is most likely trivial shit. As Dabamf said, Dianetics posted a couple paragraphs about the girl"s history and suddenly everyone"s got the girl perfectly pigeonholed as some attention whore bitch...

^again, when she was texting, we weren"t talking or were only doing so periodically because the band was playing and it was difficult to have a conversation anyway, and I was doing the same.

lol, honestly, you need to get over that phobia. It"s FUCKED UP. Oh I agree with you. When we were at the pub she didn"t check her phone once in the nearly two hours we were there, we had each other"s full attention (I took a call from one of my guys making a service call). However when we went...

Things went pretty well last night. She was 20 minutes late as it was cold as fuck and instead of walking from her place (9 blocks or so), she drove to a parkade closer to where we were meeting that she could walk through pedways etc. She called at 7 and said she"d be a few minutes late, I...

lol, and I"m picky eh?

I don"t mind a bit of it, she"s typing to save characters. Even with that, it took like 5 or 6 messages to get it all through (my Blackberry chops texts up into two for some reason, with the second one only 5-10 characters). It is definitely a pet peeve of mine, and something I"d expect from a...

I suppose you guys have a hard time differentiating between emails and texts even though I clearly say which is which, huh? Keep up! I transcribed her texts as she typed them, since you fellas are so intent on analyzing the linguistic characteristics of our communications. You"re giving...