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  1. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Thanks, I"ll check some of that out. So, I got a kind of bizarre text from Anne yesterday. We"re at the same music festival, the one I gave her the ticket for. I saw her briefly from like 100 feet away when I was eating some butter chicken in the afternoon, and didn"t try to get her...
  2. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    No, just with a couple girls. And I was specifically talking about intercourse. Any jackass can get a girl off orally or with his hand. Shit, they can do that themselves. Most girls will tell you that the other kind is much better.
  3. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I would have slapped her. Then I would have slapped myself for having a $3500 stereo in a $5000 car. Which ones would you recommend? I"ve only ever dated one girl older than me, and that was Xerxes. Otherwise pretty much every girl I"ve dated was a year or two younger, and lately 3 or 4...
  4. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    People spend lots of time and money "improving" themselves, whether through clothing, exercise, tanning, cars, education, social standing or whatever else. Of course not all, maybe not even most, of that effort is directed towards attracting members of the opposite sex. Depending on the person...
  5. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    She already did. She just didn"t go through with it. She already did. She just didn"t go through with it. Horrifically bad, because that shit would get back to her the second you walked out the door.
  6. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Do you drink? If not, you should start!
  7. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well, let"s look at the facts. She"s 20 and probably has dated the same guy since highschool. She probably knows deep down that marrying him is a mistake and she"s giving up her shot at a "normal" life in her 20"s as a single or semi-attached girl. I really honestly can"t understand nearly...
  8. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I think it"s more likely that hubby doesn"t have any idea what went on between you and her while he was gone. Considering she lied to him in front of you repeatedly. For all he knows, you work together and maybe grab lunch every week or two. It"s far more likely that in the lead up to her...
  9. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I completely disagree. There"s plenty of girls I"m friends with that I don"t feel an overwhelming need to fuck, and the feeling is mutual. People of the opposite sex don"t HAVE to fall for each other. Now trying to transition a friendship to a relationship or vice versa? That"s a whole...
  10. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Just an anecdote from yesterday, followed with a quick question: So I walked in to a watch/sunglass/accessory store at a mall.There were two girls working, both in their early 20"s. I didn"t really give either much notice when I walked in. I asked if I could take a look in one of the cases...
  11. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well, if you"re okay with being the "other man", as others said don"t mention the BF and just see where things go. Chances are you"re going to be an excuse for her to end her current relationship, and not much more.
  12. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    You ask too many fucking questions. Shut your whore mouth. You know, you"re absolutely right, it hadn"t even occurred to me to think like that, especially because for me typically winter is my busier time both at life in general and in terms of women. Good call.
  13. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    So, what the fuck, personal update! Spoiler Alert, click show to read: Nothing going on at all for me lady wise right now. I"m fucking around on PoF, but I"m losing interest in the site. It"s fucking near impossible to get responses from girls (I"d say 10-20%), whether using canned messages or...
  14. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Maybe it"s just me, but I think you"re starting off on a really wrong foot by pretty much deceiving her in to meeting you and getting her number. You"ll have to be pretty careful how you transfer from what was basically a business arrangement to something else.
  15. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well first of all, it"s important to define what the "friend zone" is. Girls don"t have two magical categories of "I want to fuck him" and "I want to friend him." You might be in neither category with a girl you"re friends with. Nothing"s gone on romantically before and there"s not really any...
  16. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    It was all in good fun!
  17. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    My experience is the opposite. Most girls that respond just send back one sentence replies that don"t really go anywhere or give you anything. Every now and then I run in to one that will go a bit longer. Another girl I"m chatting with right now, I used the divorce line to open. She ignored it...
  18. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Thanks Dabamf, that"s the kind of analysis I"m looking for. With this online dating thing, I"m never quite sure how best to steer the conversation: talking about myself, asking about her, or just random bullshitting.
  19. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Been messaging with several girls on PoF, trying to have some fun with it but also to see what works and doesn"t work. Again, advice or commentary would be much appreciated. This convo is with a girl who has some smoking hot pics and is on 250 favorites lists. Her profile mentions she"s a grad...
  20. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Heh, no dice! Spoiler Alert, click show to read: Me: I"m sorry that you took our break-up so hard, it must have been so tough to spend five figures on a 3 day Vegas bender . I can only imagine the remorse you feel about the 15 pairs of shoes you bought on my credit card. Our time apart...
  21. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Gonna post the exchange between me and one of the girls I mentioned last page, kind of running up against extremely limited responses that aren"t giving me much to go on (neither does her profile). Suggestions welcome! Spoiler Alert, click show to read:Me: good old divorce line. Her:Well...
  22. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well, if she"s a virgin, is it because she"s just waiting for the right guy/moment, or is she waiting for marriage? You obviously don"t want to be pushy or give her the impression that it"s all your after, but I"d clarify that fairly quickly.
  23. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Of course you can, there"s billions of people who have spent the rest of their lives with another person. Whether that happens or if it"s possible for every single person, that"s a whole other story. Some people obviously just aren"t cut out for monogamy either. I think so yeah. At this point of...
  24. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Man, I just went to pick up a prescription (nasal spray, so thank god nothing embarassing!) and the technician was about 11 on a scale of 10. Wish I had the balls to make a pass, but alas I did not.
  25. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Friends, family (if you want to get real awkward!), sports, travelling, classes/courses, bars, grocery shopping and so on are all places to meet someone. But if you"re only out in public or doing stuff like that a couple hours a week, obviously you"re really hurting your chances. Something will...
  26. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Just to be clear, those 4 pics are of two different girls, although looking at them now I"m like "wow, they look the same kinda!". The second one is definitely all about flashing the whites, she has damn near the same smile in all her pics. Oh, yeah, I wasn"t complaining or anything, just making...
  27. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    So I busted out the good old divorce line for some messaging on POF, and it seems the magic is gone. Out of the 10 or so I sent it to, I got one response, a couple never read it, a couple read and deleted, and the other 5 or so just read it and never responded. All of the recipients were smoking...
  28. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    A couple girls have mentioned to me that they"re not big fans of kissing DURING sex. But again, getting to that point w/o kissing seems bizarre.
  29. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I just don"t understand how foreplay or romance or intimacy can possibly work without kissing. It would be like a business transaction. I mean yeah, once you"ve settled in to a routine with a girl oftentimes the sex becomes almost business like. But how does that first time even go down if there...
  30. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    That"s just fucking weird. Seriously.
  31. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    wow, K"lag has officially scared the piss out of me! I figured someone if they spent enough time on it might be able to track me down, but figured I had my tracks fairly well covered. Weirdo! I don"t lie or embellish about pretty much anything here. No reason to. The team was mostly made up...
  32. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Define "better." If by better you mean that it would help you continue to move on from this stupid bitch, then fuck no, hearing her voice will NEVER make it better. If by "better", you mean she"ll realize how badly she wronged you and want to get back together, then again, fuck no, she"s the...
  33. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Fixed. Well that wasn"t too emasculating! I see what you"re saying and agree to a point. There"s no question that I am not the easiest to put up with, for any number of reasons. I"m picky, uptight/anal about a lot of stuff, confident to the point of arrogance, not overly empathetic or in touch...
  34. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    It"s a very powerful car, so yes it"s fast in terms of acceleration. The 3-series is also well known has having some of the best handling/steering of any car that isn"t an out and out sports car. So it"s fun to drive. Fuel efficiency wise it"s not great, but pretty decent for a car with 400hp...
  35. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Depends on what cars your comparing, and what you value in a car. If the point you"re getting at is that it"s a "waste of money" to buy a nice car, then I"d respond that so is damn near everything most people spend money on in one way or another. Some people like nice clothes, the latest...
  36. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Again though, this is Alberta. Any jackass with a bit of work ethic and willingness to get their hands dirty was making 6 figures or close to it the past 5 years, and they"re probably driving a 50k car or pickup to prove it, even if they bought it on financing. I honestly don"t think owning a...
  37. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I don"t think anyone was being salty, it just came up is all. As far as being tricked by a gold digger, I think that it would be pretty tough to miss the warning signs if you came across one. Again, there"s a difference between a woman who like Xerxes might place a higher priority on monetary...
  38. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Like I said, it"s an outlet for the very real (male) human need to puff your chest up about shit you"ve accomplished. IRL it would be inappropriate, in my opinion, to brag about that kind of shit. Here, like mostly everything else, it"s irrelevant. If you don"t care, you can just skip the posts...
  39. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    That"s cause it"s fun to brag in anonymity here, it"s an outlet for that. I"m aware of it! Otherwise IRL my shit is kept on the down low. Like I said, it"s fun to brag here, and in the long run completely meaningless since I"m about as close to anonymous here as I can be. Whether people believe...
  40. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I don"t know that I necessarily "attract" gold digging cunts, first of all. If you just saw me walking down the street, or met me randomly, you wouldn"t have much of an idea where I"m at financially or career wise. I don"t flaunt shit around. I mean even my car doesn"t say a lot, there"s plenty...