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I know you"re mostly joking, but that"s the last thing I would do. I can"t stand gold diggers and don"t want to put out a gold digger honey pot. I like nice, normal, down to earth girls who like camping and shit, not bitches who expect me to buy them shiny things on a regular basis.

PoF is really regional, from what I can gather from comments on this thread. It"s great for Alberta, tons of good looking women on it, again the main problem is cutting through the clutter and getting noticed. I"ve just been browsing around a bit and haven"t really tried messaging anyone yet...

Well, if the intent is to hurt their feelings, wouldn"t meeting them and just telling them straight up that they"re a hose beast be the better route? I"d have no qualms doing that to someone who used a fake pic, but I"d feel bad doing it to someone who"s just not as good looking as they implied...

I do believe that"s integral to the point he"s making.

haha, no, what it means is that she"s even better at self-deception than most girls. In my recent experience anyway. Chuck, Xerxes and Anne all "don"t play games." Only in Xerxes case was that actually true, looking back. And she was the one I wasn"t all that interested in. Figures.

Brekk :/

haha, I just finished one. It was like granola and motor oil. I had to wipe the fucking bowl because half of it just stuck there.

Have I mentioned that red wine hangovers fucking suck? Especially when you"re driving a sport bike to work? And why was it a good idea to finish off a bottle of Jack?

haha no, I just chose that name cause she"s of Iranian descent. Funny how the world works sometimes. Sorry for using the thread almost as a journal or diary, but tonight was a really good night for me. As I mentioned a few posts back, I had been texting with her a bit in the past few days cause...

Heh, speaking of Facebook stalking: in my first foray in to online dating a couple years ago, I met a girl from a town a couple hours away. She was pretty damn hot (dancer/instructor) and seemed cool enough, but for whatever reason things didn"t quite click. We hung out a couple times around my...

Hey, I know that I"m as guilty as anyone here of NOT listening to advice that I ask for, but jesus titty fuck man! GET THE FUCK OUT OF YOUR GAY LITTLE STREET RACING SCENE. YOU WILL LOOK BACK ON YOUR 20"S AND WONDER WHY IN THE FUCK YOU WASTED THEM TALKING ABOUT TURBOS ON MOTHERFUCKING NEONS AND...

By text, yes. Shit"s done with, why bother with the pretense? She said something about hoping I wouldn"t be too hurt for too long, I responded that I was sure I"d survive but in the meantime I"d be a bit of a "baby" and that she would know how it is. I haven"t whined and begged her to come...

Well uh, if you had never met her in person and had been chatting online for 5 months, then I"d say your relationship experience at least in that particular case has zero practical use for anyone in a more traditional dating setting. No offense, but that shit is just weird IMO, chatting with...

Something about tieing cords and cinching the thing up, since if you wore it like a bathrobe it would be way too long. I don"t think they tried all that hard. And it did come with pictorial directions. haha, I thought I had mentioned that I had, I guess not. Yeah, I gave it to her about a month...

Motherfucker, I should ask for that shit back. She admitted that she and her step-mom gave up trying to figure out how to wear it.

I"m the same way, my "random hookup" count is doable on one hand really. But sex is a pretty integral part of any relationship and how you approach it can pre-determine what will happen with that girl. I think back to when I was about 22 dating an 18 year old that had more or less picked me up...

Holy shit, you"re like a walking romantic comedy! And I mean that in a good way. I am so going to hit you up for cheesey ideas like that in the future. However, and I"ll mostly let the experts do the talking here, I think such gestures are typically only a good idea once you"re in to a fairly...

haha, I want to know what"s in the package too! Edit: I would say if you haven"t heard back almost immediately (if she has your email/phone info) then it"s a pretty good indication that she isn"t in to you, unfortunately. And if she was even a little before, you might have knocked yourself...

She"s not stupid, but she"s a girl. As Tenks, Dabamf and others have laid out well back in this thread that"s unfortunately the way girls operate. I got 4 or 5 different explanations for what was going on over the course of nearly 4 weeks, when one could have done: she lost interest/attraction...

Yeah, that"s kind of where I"m at, or where I was back a few months ago after I realized she had one. I think I had just met Chuck around the time, maybe even after I had gotten that girl"s number, so I just said I"d met someone and left it at that. The other option that I know I could...

heh, so I un-hid my profile over at POF (Xerxes had asked me to back in March) and within 5 hours I got a message from a girl I"d been chatting with back in the fall. I had used the divorce line on her, without realizing that she"s got a kid. Her message was titled "oh my goodness" and the body...

Yeah, just got off the phone with her. A couple hours after I had left her a message yesterday I sent a text telling her not to worry about calling me back and that I"d talk with her later. It was funny, knowing that she was going out with "the girls" and that she"d be with her friend that she...

Dude, we"ve seen each other two times in the past three weeks, and she"s backed out of stuff at least as many times. What"s the point of being in a relationship where I don"t even see my girlfriend, and it"s like pulling teeth to get her to hang out. Oh yeah, and I did type up an email...

I think you"ve probably got a good point, and it"s one that"s occurred to me over the past week or two as well. Unfortunately, in this particular case, the damage is done. She called me just before lunch as I was pulling in to the bank parking lot. Right away I sensed something in her voice...

Well from where I stand and after 3 days of you fuckers beating me down, I can"t say that I disagree too much. I"m thinking of it like this: when things started to go sideways is where I really went wrong. Maybe things had gotten too serious too fast up to that point, regardless of who pushed it...

Just FYI, I realize the similarities. I"m not that blind! I guess with Anne, things weredifferentat first. Or she was. Or so I thought. As they say, the more things change, the more they stay the same.

Again though, I would say "oh, this relationship just isn"t working" frequently when things were going well, on a joking basis (for example if she admitted to liking country, or a bad TV show, or hadn"t seen Old School, or whatever). She would joke like that as well. Although as I"ve said, you...

Venjenz: I obviously don"t agree with your interpretation, however I do concede you may well be right about Anne and her "true" subconscious feelings (and not the conscious ones that girls convince themselves of all the time, only to turn them on a dime). Her actions and behavior will be what...

No, she never broke off the relationship. She wasn"t sure if we were going to continue for a bit, but has said she wants to continue on a more relaxed pace. You have to understand that I"m extremely sarcastic, and that we pretty often make jokes at other"s expense and so on. It was mostly me...

No shit. If you find yourself hacking your girlfriend"s email or facebook account, it should be a pretty good indication that you need to take a step the FUCK back and evaluate things as rationally as you can (given that you may in fact be crazy based on your behavior). It"s your life to live...

I don"t know about that. Xerxes would frequently blabber on and on about inane bullshit I didn"t care about, completely oblivious to my not giving a shit about what she was talking about yet she was supposedly quite in to me. I think if anything, she"s no different than most girls in that she...

So I texted her yesterday at around 5 asking her how work was going and if we were gonna hang out. She texted back that she was still at school and had a ton of work, I said no worries that I had expected as much but to let me know if she got finished up, she said probably around 8ish she"d be...

Maybe I"m dense, but I don"t get it :/ I talked with her for about 10 minutes on the drive home last night. It seems like every time we talk, the story changes a bit. It"s tough to remember everything that was said, but overall it seems I "misunderstood" her last week and that indeed we were...

But I think blackmailing her has a much higher probability of keeping us entertained! So I got a response back from Anne: So I dunno what the hell. One side of me thinks "well she should just come right out and say "hey, yes, I"d like you to come with me to the wedding"" and since she"s not...

You might be right, but from my perspective, I didn"t think it would be a good idea to pressure her for a decision over email. My intent was to ask about the wedding thing for this weekend upcoming and slide in the "where we stand" thing to basically get her to come out and say whether or not...

I"m not really chasing though. I"m leaving her be during a really busy time of year (school ends in two weeks, she"s a teacher) after she specifically said she wanted some space to think things over. Again though, considering she was the one who asked for some space and I said I"d leave her be...

Yeah, that"s about what I figure too. That"s why I"ve been letting her send the first texts, resisting the urge to send too many back, and always letting her send the last one (or rather just not responding after a few have gone back and forth). But when we were hanging out, it was always me...

So I"m back from my bike trip. It was good to get away and mostly worry about not hitting deer, looking at the mountains, and listening to a lot of good tunes. Like I had mentioned, she had texted me on Wednesday about shrooms, and we"d exchanged a couple emails on Thursday about it, but...

Everyone put your cocks back in your pants and just shut the fuck up already, jesus.

The commission is taken into account in the sales price, so from the buyer"s perspective they"re not paying "extra" over and above that price, while the seller has the commission come out of their proceeds.