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Growing up my family was upper middle class, not rich. I"ve not gone back and looked in to what the company was making in the 80"s and 90"s, but it"s nowhere near what it is these days (although there"s also more mouths to feed). Regardless, my parents did well and we were raised to almost be...

Couple things. She"s the finance manager at her dealership, so she makes pretty good coin. What that is, I don"t know, probably in the 60-90k range. Maybe more, I don"t really know or care. She does well for herself. As far as her family background, she mentioned something about her parents...

Very much agreed that guys typically have to be the aggressor when it comes to physical contact, at least in the initial stages. I don"t necessarily agree though that you HAVE to kiss on the first date. Sometimes an opportunity doesn"t present itself, or it just doesn"t feel right. No need to...

Just personal opinion here, but I think the last kind of girl you should be going for right now is a stripper. Personally I still think you need to get your feelings settled regarding the ex, and you"re trying to dive in to random pussy to do that. And it"s probably not gonna help. You SHOULD be...

Well, I just finished writing up a 1000 word letter professing my one true love to her. We"ll see how that goes over. Kidding! Pressed for time at the moment, so I"ll just say that things went okay, she was over again yesterday (she pretty much hung out in my building or within a block of it...

Unfortunately, what girls think they want and what they really want are rarely the same thing. And seriously Zarcath, no one"s making fun of you, so don"t take it the wrong way. But unfortunately it probably was a mistake to do that.

So, with Xerses tonight, how do I handle the ex she supposedly met last weekend? Do I just not even mention it, and if she brings it up just brush it aside or change the subject? Or just feign indifference? Or do I ask about him and the situation to get more info and gauge where she"s at? I...

Not necessarily. It"s unfortunate but true, overly romantic gestures towards a woman who is not interested, but not UNinterested in someone can quickly push them in that direction. Sometimes girls can be ignorant of a guy"s interest in them, and it just doesn"t occur to them to view the guy as a...

That"s a pretty silly opinion. Just because the market has gone in the shitter for a year or two, you advocate making buying decisions on the assumption that it will ALWAYS be in the shitter?

Yeah, I asked her what she had in mind and she suggested grabbing dinner at a place that"s literally beside my building. Should be interesting!

Seems to me it"s kind of the other way around here, because I"m not overly concerned about seeing her. She"s the one who has said on numerous occasions that she really likes me and has fished for my reaction to her seeing or considering seeing other guys several times, while I"ve been...

Xerses response: "Guess I was hoping to see you... I think it will give me much needed clarity." See, I like that this chick is pretty direct and upfront about what she wants and what she is up to. Definite plus in her favor.

It will assuredly make you feel better were you to provide us with more naked pics of the woman, yes? We"re here for you.

Play nice children! Well see this is what is a bit of a mystery to me, no pun intended. She"s gauging my interest, I get that, but it seems like everything that the gamers here have said revolves around not showing true interest or being aloof. Now again, you were more or less correct that I"m...

rofl, text from Xerses: "Hey, what are you up to tomorrow night?" "Was most likely gonna grab some eats and drinks with friends, but nothing really planned. What"s up?" In truth I was supposed to go out for drinks with my friend"s GF and her little sister with friend (he"s in NO for a...

Shit, I knew I was forgetting something :/. Unfortunately I don"t have any nudes. Should we hook up again, I will be sure to get some.

I appreciate your attempts to troll me, but as I"ve said, I"m not very interested in this girl nor am I the kind of guy who"s going to play mind games with her just to keep my dick wet until something else comes along. If she has feelings for the other guy as well and he reciprocates and they...

Yeah, that"s kind of what I figured. And that was the second time in less than a week she sprung something like that on me. Last time we hung out in person she mentioned that someone a friend had tried to set her up with had asked her out for dinner, and I was pretty non-commital whether I cared...

hah, chicks! Just got off the phone with Xerses. We"d just texted a bit back and forth the past week. She had wanted to hang out last night but I was busy, and then I texted her this morning saying I could hang out tonight if she wanted. She said she had plans, but to call her when I had a...

Weird, I can"t see her breasts. Going back to this post: Specifically the girl who messaged me on Facebook a couple times. Is that a girl signalling she"s interested? Or just being friendly? Other than the weekend of skiing, we"ve met maybe twice.

lol, do tell. I would agree that I"m not entirely sure. I mean there"s basic guidelines like intelligence, self confidence, physical attraction, independence and so on. But no I don"t have this exact template or checklist that I go through when I meet a girl. I"d rather just go about meeting...

I"ll fucking cut you. So on other notes: -Xerses pretty persistently texts me, tells me she"s looking forward to seeing me, and so on. Sometimes I respond back right away, sometimes I don"t, as per advice in this thread. It"s really unfortunate but I just don"t see myself staying with her...

haha there is zero chance of anything happening with Chuck in the future, of that I"m quite sure.

^Yeah, that"s why when a ski trip came up for this weekend, I jumped on it immediately. Whether or not I was going out with someone, I had no intention of being around on Valentine"s Day. I figured if I WAS going out with someone and it was going well, I"d invite them along for the trip...

haha, so Xerses just texted me that she and a friend have signed up for ski lessons next weekend and that after that I have to take her to the mountains. I have already informed her that I will not speak to her if she takes up boarding.

Again though, I don"t think she had mental problems. I just think that one evening she went a little nuts, and understandably so. I think she"s been burned by guys in the past and is suspicious of them in general now (refresher: one time while chatting about our dating past, she commented that...

What specifically was creepy? That one email which I talk about below? Yeah, big mistake. Otherwise though... whoa whoa whoa, I only meant that in reference to the single night where she did in fact go crazy. I didn"t mean it in general. Overall she was a pretty cool chick. Just that one...

It"s a matter of degrees, on the texting thing. If she"s checking it once an hour or even every half hour, big deal. My phone was set to vibrate last night while I was out with Xerxes (that"s her name for the purposes of this thread), and I pulled it out once over dinner because I got a couple...

Hey fuck you man, I was always a mature man capable of honesty! Aychamo was the whore. I"ve slept with maybe 12 women in my life. I"m just emotionally distant and guarded! /livejournal Spoiler Alert, click show to read: Well when shit went sour with Chuck, I wasn"t sure if we were done or...

So what the hell, this place got hell a weird all of the sudden, so I"m gonna continue that. Please psychoanalyze me: I"ve never had a wet dream in my life. Maybe because I masturbate a lot, I don"t know. I mean I"ve had dreams where I"m having sex or whatever, but never to climax. But I...

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I"m not saying you have to be someone or something you"re not. I very much agree with you in that respect, hence why I"m not all that interested in "game" except perhaps for the underlying lessons on how women think. What I"m saying is, don"t pour out your heart to every waitress that is...

Somewhat amusing, but I"m just glad that I"m not such a reclusive weirdo that social interaction is a chore and not something to be enjoyed like whoever wrote that.

I still think it"s weird that someone you knew barely an hour, who was only maybe chatting with you for a quarter of that time as she was serving other tables etc, was told about your ex and son. And I bet she did too.

Not to mention she also probably thinks you"re a fucking weirdo because you told a perfect stranger about your ex-wife and son, and then sent her a picture of your ex-wife, despite her telling you she has a boyfriend. Not trying to be an asshole, but that shit is just plain creepy dude.

^You"re a sad little man, aren"t you?

Soooo, turns out the Persian has implants (did I call the princess thing or what?). The two previous times I"d met her she wasn"t wearing anything revealing so I didn"t even really notice, I just thought she had a nice rack for a girl her size. They"re not huge by any means. Even wearing a...

Others already covered it, but I"ll just go ahead and agree. You"re being selfish or at least not particularly understanding. YOU are the one who chose to date a single mother, you"re going to have to deal with the consequences of it if you want to continue the relationship. It"s a tradeoff...

/livejournal So one of the girls I chatted up on PoF last week had been pushing to meet up almost immediately after we creeped each other on Facebook. The persian looking one (she fucking hates 300). On Thursday I was packing and getting ready for the weekend and begged off, and then I was...

I"m just saying that on average, a guy and a girl at the same age will have different maturity levels, and it"s typically the girl who is more mature. Statistically women get married a couple years earlier than guys as well. It"s science!