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  1. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    "How many mushrooms you want?" First I"ve heard from her since Sunday, and that"s what she comes up with? Got it last night at about 9:30, just sent her an email back asking how much her cousin has and for what price. It was probably the last thing we talked about on Sunday, after The Talk...
  2. Eomer

    Home buying thread

    Sorry. I should have been more clear: Things have been changing, what with online sites and so on, but in the past typically real estate agent fees at least in Western Canada have been 7% on the first 100k, and 3% thereafter. Highway robbery, in other words. The buying and selling agents...
  3. Eomer

    Home buying thread

    Things have been changing, what with online sites and so on, but in the past typically real estate agent fees at least in Western Canada have been 7% on the first 100k, and 3% thereafter. Highway robbery, in other words. The buying and selling agents split the commission equally. Those have...
  4. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Four actually, one of the girls that was on my trip to Japan. And a few heavy petting incidents here and there on ski trips. And yeah, I don"t know that I"m doing anything differently other than just having made the decision back in the fall to "put myself out there" more, but I went from maybe...
  5. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    No, like I said she had turned her back away from me jokingly; we were sitting at the bar. I just kinda gave her shoulder and love handle area a quick squeeze, said it was good seeing her and that was that. I didn"t hug her out of courtesy, that jacket is disgusting.
  6. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    heh, funny how the world goes round. I was just leaving the office and got a text that said "Buddy. Chuck. lol" I just assumed it was a wrong number or something because I didn"t recognize the number. Turned out it was my buddy"s bro Matty (the very definition of a manwhore, he treats women like...
  7. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    See, I"d like to be that optimistic about shit, but what you described was exactly what I had with Anne for the first 4-6 weeks of the relationship. I know I know, that"s not a lot of time, but we had been hanging out so often that it seemed like much longer, and in that time SHE was the one...
  8. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    You know what the funniest part about that is? It"s not that Zarcath did it, or that he thought it would be a good idea. The funniest part, and most depressing,is that if you asked 100 women what they would think about such a gesture, 80% or more would say they would be thrilled by it and would...
  9. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Things are done with that girl man, as much as I hate to say it as it implies my shit"s pretty much done as well. Once you end up in that zone, whatever you want to call it, there"s no getting out of it (most of the time). She didn"t show because she"s avoiding you, knowing that you will...
  10. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Again though, I made it clear that I wasn"t apologizing for it, but rather I was explaining why I had behaved the way I did and that I recognized there was an issue with how I had acted. Obviously I didn"t post every email or communication that transpired over the past week here, so just reading...
  11. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    You"re a great guy!
  12. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    lol, the last three girls I"ve dated had all never seen Kids in the Hall before, and one of them outright didn"t even know what it was (she was 20). The other two did, thankfully. I"ll avoid a TLDR kind of post (edit: mission failed). So I met up with Anne for a coffee on Sunday to chat about...
  13. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    She"s not lying about the bike problems, there"s been manufacturer"s recalls on hers a couple times already. If it is a lie, it"s pretty elaborate, as she mentioned it on a Facebook status update chronologically before she mentioned it to me. Maybe you"re right that she"s not telling the...
  14. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    When we spoke yesterday, she said that from now on she was going to avoid contact with him if at all possible, that she had made that decision. I didn"t prompt her to, she came out and said it. I"m pretty sure I mentioned that in past posts. So I can"t really see what else there is to do in that...
  15. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    haha, jackasses. No of course it isn"t the only shop in town. However she"s dealt with them exclusively for several years, and because of her history with Jay, she"s friends with other people that work there as well and occasionally goes on rides with that group (which she did on Sunday, which...
  16. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Taking this out of PMs, because I don"t see any reason why it needs to be there: Maybe I wasn"t clear, but she told Jay that she was seeing me pretty much immediately, and at the time Jay got all upset and said that he just assumed they"d end up together, that he hated me because I "stole" her...
  17. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    When I was first dating Xerxes, the subject of Chuck came up. She asked me if I still had feelings for her, and I of course said "nah I"m over that", because I WANTED to be over that and move on with the new person in my life. But realistically, had Chuck called at any point during my dating of...
  18. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Nah, I am confident that"s not the case.
  19. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Just got off the phone with her. She called me, actually. Sorry for the long post! Ding! I will try to keep the backstory short. Several years ago she was dating a guy named Dave, and there was another couple Jay and Kim. Along with my girlfriend Anne, that was 4/5ths of the pentagon. I...
  20. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Heh, she lives with her dad and step-mom currently, who I have not yet met. I don"t think I"m going to tap dance through that mine field just to get to the next one. We"ll see what she has to say on the phone, and go from there.
  21. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    So in response to me saying that we shouldn"t talk about it over email since it wasn"t doing either of us any good: She was up really late last night with the birth of her niece, so it"s understandable that she"s tired. She does that "is that ok?" thing a ton. Whether it"s putting dishes in...
  22. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"m pretty sure if it was a pregnancy, she would have said so. Why even bring up the condoms if she was already pregnant right? Besides which, she just had her period last week, although she made a remark on Friday about how it"s possible to have a period and be pregnant. I replied to her...
  23. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    What is your suggestion then to handle this? Just pretend that there"s nothing going on? Demand that she tell me what"s up? Fuck her best friend? And I spoke too soon, she sent a second email: This is going to destroy my mind over the next couple days.
  24. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    No no, I"m leaving for the weekend. Just going mountain biking for a day or two. In one of the previous emails I had mentioned that to her. She has stuff to do this weekend in town, and I"m just going with a couple buddies. Well again, if it"s something personal/emotional, I wouldn"t consider it...
  25. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Sooo, I"ve been going out with Anne "officially" for nearly two months now. Overall everything"s been pretty great. We get along well, she"s low maintenance, sex is good, so on and so forth. However over the past month I"ve noticed a change in her. She"s not as outgoing or as fun as she was...
  26. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I am so disappointed in all of you that Grobbee is the only one who has asked the only valid question possible in response to such a phenomenally fucked up post. I should hope that this bitch is hot given how insane she is and dude stuck around for so long. If she isn"t gorgeous, then what in...
  27. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Hey man, if it"s working keep rolling with it. Just keep in mind that the chances of the relationship surviving for more than a couple months are VERY small, unless either you"re extremely immature or she"s extremely mature, or a bit of both. That"s a huge chasm of age that you"re jumping across...
  28. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Oh, but it will come full circle for at least some of us. Oh yes.
  29. Eomer

    Home buying thread

    lol, jesus titty fuck, it"s still $250k+ for a decent bungalow in Edmonton. And that"s for one that"s 40-60 years old with not much work in an established, older neighbourhood or for a carbon copy chicken coup out in the boondocks. Even single bedroom condos are still $150k+ for something...
  30. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    That would be weird. Because now she knows your dating history in fairly decent detail with that last chick. It"s like she"s reading your diary.
  31. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Fuck these guys, I think that shit is legit. Now just agree to meet her in a dark alley somewhere, and you"ll be good to go.
  32. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Stop rationalizing your rampant lack of testicles. First of all, when she commented on the movie you should have immediately gone in for the kill: "Oh well how about we order some Chinese and watch the movie at my place Thursday?" Or whatever. Set a date and time. If you didn"t set a date and...
  33. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Fail would have been saying "I just did!"
  34. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Woo, almost forgot about this thread. Things continue to be swell with Anne, as far as I can tell. No complaints and no advice required there, really. Xerxes texted me again last weekend. Said she was down at her friends place having a j and I was welcome to join them. I was on the way out...
  35. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I doubt it"s because sex happened too early. If she"s not wanting a "serious" relationship, then what is she looking for if not someone to hang out with and have sex with? I"m no expert, but it sounds to me like perhaps you came on too strong too soon and scared her off. Whether that was calling...
  36. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Have you been taking hole digging lessons from Etoille? edit: I should probably leave this lie just because it"ll turn into another 8 pages of retardation, but do you honestly expect any of us to believe your fucking meltdown was just you trolling? I mean really? Do you think we"re remotely...
  37. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Oh give me a fucking break, are you seriously trying to pass off the bullshit a few pages back that you spewed everywhere as a troll or joke? GTFO I kind of agree about Anne. She claims she"s interested in a girl, and that may well be possible, but surely it"s also about pleasing me. And I HAVE...
  38. Eomer

    Home buying thread

    No idea how it works in the US, but in Canada you have to worry about legal fees to have the title transferred by a lawyer. Pretty sure they"re the only ones that can do it. Expect about $300-500 for that. Otherwise, from what I can recall about buying my place from my brother and the condo...
  39. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    haha, true story: a buddy of mine was on the second date with a girl, and for whatever reason she was driving. He has mentioned his bowels don"t tend to give him much advanced warning about taking a dump. He more or less gets a five minute warning and that"s about it. So as they were driving...
  40. Eomer

    Girls who broke your heart thread

    As I said, I was doing it playfully and jokingly, I wouldn"t have actually looked. I was calling her bluff so to speak. It wasn"t done in a creepy fashion, I don"t think. So her and I and a few friends went to see Bloc Party last night. We were having a burger prior to my friends showing up...