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I"d try to get her out again, worst can happen is you"ll be in the same boat you are in now so there"s no real loss.

Honestly it"s not really your place to say shit to the guy unless he asks you about it first.

Wanting revenge against someone that you devoted years to and invested your self into on multiple levels only to have them fuck you over again on multiple levels isn"t immature...it"s human nature. Some people go about it differently but we all have coping mechanisms. Some can go overboard...

eh, I have no sympathy for cheaters, I wish they would have knocked on her front door and video taped it personally. Fuck people who cheat, even more so in a relationship that"s been going that long.

Good for you Brad.

LoL Alright, you guys are right, I should obviously live in paranoia and fear, I mean all the cool kids are doin it right? I"ve contributed to this thread for what....a year and a half? Hopefully I"ve helped a few people out. To the rest that post here actually looking for real advice, best...

It"s also very possible you"re an extremely paranoid person who assumes the worst in any scenario they come across. I have more proof of that last statement then you have of yours.

I have no reason to believe she was cheating, assuming she did for no reason is beyond retarded. I"ve no reason to not trust her. And if you were in a committed relationship and every time (assuming you had more then one kid) and you demanded a test each time....holy shit I feel sorry for...

That would insinuate I wouldn"t trust her, and we"re pretty much always around one another. I"m about the most paranoid guy in the world when it comes to that (I had to get my first born tested to make sure he was mine) and even if I had the feeling of her cheating I honestly don"t know when it...

Brad I typed that up during your ninja edit....I didn"t see your ninja edit until after I posted....hence why it"s called a ninja edit.

You obviously need to re-post them sons a bitches.

I admit, I lol"ed.

Brad are you really this retarded? I had a condom on, said condom tore, on the side, as in had a fucking hole in the side where I don"t know if it was too thin in that place or what because if the whole damn thing had just broke I would have known. (condom I used were trojan ecstasy) Shit...

Brad maybe you missed where I said I WAS pulling out? It was a few posts ago, maybe read everything I type before responding to it in the future. Like I said, we were doing everything we were supposed to, sometimes things just happen. . Dandain, Lusiphur and Ravvenn, thank you for your...

ROFL, she is...kiss not often enough as id like. And brad not really sure I mistake I made. I had a condom break...not all of it so I didn"t feel it, tore a hole in the side. She cant take anything hormone related....so outside of not having sex at all, there wasn"t much I can do. So...

Well that"s a whole other topic that we can talk about another time.

Blinders aren"t on, I know the situation isn"t the greatest but as I"ve said....ohhhh, maybe 7 times now, I"m going to make the best of it and so is she. If my 30 year old son or daughter came to me and told me they were having a kid with someone I wouldn"t be unhappy, concerned yes, but...

-shrugs- we"re both against abortion as a means of birth control (it"s fine in the case where pregnancy would endanger the mothers life) even if we weren"t we wouldn"t want to go that route. We feel we both have a lot to offer to the child and it"s not like we"re some young kids who don"t know...

That sucks man, other then going out with you though, what signals was she giving that was leading you on?

Which I"ve said, even if we were upset, what would be the point in actually being upset, it wont change anything. So we are taking the positives and running with them and we"re happy. -shrugs-

Again not bashing on Brad, I"ve said multiple times I don"t expect anyone here to know the full extent of the situation I"m in, I"m fine with that. Tenks, same thing happened with my ex wife of 8 years, shit was fine then it tanked in a matter of months. That can happen at any point. Also...

The situation the child is being brought into is a stable one, so by your very definition it"s not a fuck up. The kid will come into a stable home, be loved by both parents and be able to be taken care of...how is that a bad situation. You can"t judge my situation because you aren"t in it, you...

Thanks, I"ll need it I"m sure. I"m not pretending it"ll be easy so I"ll take all the well wishes I can get.

I"m aware, and her and I have been through those shitty times that you described. I"m not going to go into detail about them, but trust me when I say it there was some fucked up shit that went down. We rolled out of it stronger then ever. You forget I"m experienced on both ends of the spectrum...

In all honesty Brad, every day people meet people that they know are it. Is this one of those situations? I think so, can I be wrong? Sure, it happens. But I"m level headed enough to be able to assess a situation, step back and look it over. As I said, was it the ideal time for this to happen...

Can"t know someome after 4 1/2 months, not toally no, but then again I knew my ex wife for almost 8 years and look how that turned out...obviously didn"t know her as well as I thought either after all that time. Nope I don"t know every aspect about her and honestly I"m okay with that. A lot...

Okay for one, after the first break I was pulling out. And second, brad I guess thats the difference between you and I. I still love my situation, I"m with with the chick that by all reasoning im going to be with for years to come, probably my life. I"ve no problem with my situation what so...

About 4 1/2 months, not overly long no, but I was pretty sure she was it and that"s after all the "honeymoon stage" crap, when you know, you know I"m old enough and responsible enough to be able to look at things objectivly I think. Yeah I make alright money, I run a small business and while...

Ooooo, that"s where that statement came from, yeah I was referring to condoms .

-shrugs- Honestly I"m fine with it, I love the girl and I don"t see that changing at anytime and I"m fully prepared to have a family with her. I "lol"ed" because honestly I was happy and so was she (a bit freaked, but happy). Dabamf, not sure who you"re talking to, but no we"ve been solid...

Lol, early test show I may indeed be a daddy, more to come as I find out more information.(yes I bagged it every time during the time in question, we had two breaks though)

Dabamf, how goes the reunification?

Well the girlfriend met the kids this weekend. It was my sons birthday and the kids took to her very well and...well not surprisingly...but I guess to a very large wave of relief, Michele took to them very well also. So much so that my kids go home today and she"s pretty upset that they have to...

Also when it"s termed you are official, it means a relationship, granted he didn"t say exclusive but that"s who I was taking it. If I"m wrong then cool. I know about playing the field, I did so some months ago before I got with the girl I"m with now as anyone who reads this thread knows. As...

.....I don"t even know where to start other then saying dont follow any of that advice. Lol If you are official you obviously don"t want to go out and find another...just get some hobbies and get out more. To touch on what someone else asked, seeing each other once a week...is that her...

Yea grats and good luck with that.

*shrugs* I always got more responses when I used a response tailored to their profile, and I"ve done pretty much nothing else other then online dating for the last 2 years. Then again, I"m not all about sending out 500 messages a night when I had time to sit down and do it, I actually cruised...

With my girlfriend that I met on OkCupid in her "contact me it" section she had a part in Swedish that said something like "if you"re a special person" I Google translated it and then wrote her a message saying something like "I would like to say I was special enough that I was able to...

I"ve never fucked a chick with a guys name....but I"ve fucked chicks with semi deep voices....I think that"s much creepier then mannish names.

yikes.