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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    haha I lol"ed at #3, good stuff. Ultimately it"s up to you Brad what you do I know it"s hard when they know your schedule, lucky for me, my schedule and Michele"s are almost identical so this is the first time ever it hasn"t been a worry for me, which is nice. It"s tough when you"ve...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    One of the rules is don"t be to available this isn"t just because you want to be aloft and what not...but because you can smother each other and not even realize it. I hold true to that rule more for the second part of it then the first. Two big things will kill a relationship that both...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    LoL thanks, hopefully I am making progress, I like to think so anyways. I think the thing I"m having the hardest time with is every girl I"ve dated has been super needy and I"m seeing now that it"s given me the same outlook to a small extent. I didn"t realize how alien of a concept it was to...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    There wasn"t any awkwardness about it really, we talked about it a bit late last night and things are okay. We both think it just got to heavy to quickly and want to take it back to the pace we were before, which I"m fine with. Incog, you"re 100% correct and she even said that same exact...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    hummm, I think things got rushed a bit, today was great we both had a fun time but there was no intimacy at all, not even a kiss. This was technically only our second date so not a big deal assuming Friday night hadn"t happened...but she wasn"t in a good frame of mind and out and the shots...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Yeah this week shouldn"t be to hard to do that, like I said, we both work a lot. She told me last night she"s putting in a 52 hour work week, I usually hit around 60"ish so pretty much Sunday is our only day off together. And I wouldn"t say I didn"t give a fuck about her...I just honestly...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Oh...no, it was a joke, who compares sex to a sega genesis and gets taken seriously for crying out loud?
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    You"re quote then advice confuses me sir.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    When I was a kid I remembering opening up my last gift under the tree and it turned out to be a Sega Genesis with Tecmo Super Bowl....yeah...it was better then that.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    haha, maybe when I get a shot of em I will
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Last night I fell asleep and around 1am I get a text from Michele, just a pic of her smiling saying "HI FROM ME!" She was having a rough time with a friend who was going through a hard tiem and lives far away with not being able to help her, we talked for about half an hour before she said...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"ve seen the self destruct button pressed quite a few times, I think I know the signs fairly well and I"ve changed myself quite a bit and I like to think I can see when someone really is changed and why they aren"t. Granted I can be wrong, I"m not claiming otherwise. In terms of drinking I...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Did she already go through her wild crazy shit phase before? I don"t care what people say, everyone does it once, I don"t care how mature you are at one point...at some point walls will crumble shit will hit the fan until that phase comes and goes. Some go through it once...but they usually...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Age can matter, you really need to be strict with your standards and rules concerning it. I flat out told Michele what I wanted, I didn"t hide it and she seemed to like that. She just texted me a bit ago saying that she ordered tickets for our date Sunday as well as a link to the place we"re...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Inc Tenks saying he now realizes he misses his ex after not talking to her for so long and now realizes he misses her posts.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Take her number out of your phone, problem solved. Don"t create drama for yourself.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    She wants attention from you, you weren"t giving it so she took it upon herself to make you give it to her. Don"t answer your phone unless it"s a number you know and you"re good.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"d like to say I had advice for that but I find myself when I think about it, I don"t have any clue when the right time is to tell someone how you feel...but maybe that"s because there is no "right" time for it, there is no preset time when you need to bring it up....just whenever you are...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"m starting off my day agreeing with Arkk.....this can"t bode well.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    It doesn"t make my life any harder or easier really. I originally had it because it was easier to give updates on my kids to me whole family. My nearest family member is two states away so to me this was easier. Then I began adding friends and peeps from school I hung out with from back home...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Yep, my history sucked pretty hard as far as putting my eggs in one basket and imploding when that basket was crushed. I"ve done both, multiple...as long as all are on the same page...is the way to go and it helps with confidence to a level that I can"t really explain. And currently there are...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    If you can lose your job over seeing her then stop fucking seeing her before you get attached to her.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    rofl +1, I"m the same way...wtf it"s just facebook people.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    FUCKING BRAVO SIR +1 for you
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Eh I"m fine with it, it could be considered a mistake I supposed if I wasn"t 100% confident I could fall for something she might pull and I don"t live on my facebook, fuck I"m still friends on there still with people I wouldn"t mind seeing get hit by a bus at some point. I"ll probably take her...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    For sure, don"t let anything she does suck you back in unless shes willing to do it on your terms and your terms alone, only you can be the judge of a situation like that. You are on the right track though, keep it up, don"t let her texts out of no where seeking attention from you spark a...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well done Dianetics, well done.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Rofl
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Selfish bitch
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well I called her, she seemed happy to hear from me but she was kinda out of it it sounded, she said she had been in bed all day, convo seemed, I dunno...not all there I guess. I won"t be contacting her again until she hits me up, it"s how I"ve been doing things, she"s told me tons of times how...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Take away the glasses, a bit more hair on top and brown/blond hair and yea pretty much I"m George lol.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    LoL I"m not BIG per say, I am over weight though that"s for sure...and bald. But whatever, I"m not arguing the results I"ve had with this girl so far so I"m not about to start now. And I was kinda treading the line of thinking myself anytime I"ve called she"s sounded ridiculously happy to...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    K well, updates and then advice needed. /livejournal Spoiler Alert, click show to read: Last night I got home from work and do a few things, log onto my computer and see hair dresser online, her name is Michele, so from here on out this is how I"ll refer to her. We start talking and we...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Stop talking to her, I know first hand what "friends" bullshit means, it may not seem like it, but you"re on the verge of going down a very destructive path if you choose to take it. As for Brad....She said she would dress up for him...in my opinion him telling her to wear whatever she...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"m not quite sure how to take that....lol I just had a wrench throw into some things...not a bad wrench, just a very unexpected one and odd one. Someone I knew back from high school who is pretty much me...but with a vagina...and much better looking...got a hold of me through facebook and...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    As far as Anne, fuck that...you can"t text someone and in teh same text be like "opps" bullshit, she obviously meant to say it...if it was really an "opps" then her ass wouldn"t have sent it in the first place. She"s playing games with you, don"t fall for that trap. Been there done that...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    haha, thanks, but honestly I"m not about to fuck someone I"m not committed to at this point and the girls I see know this as well, I"m totally upfront about my intentions and plans I don"t need drama so I make sure to not create drama. K, I went out with Hairdresser today. We met up for...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    This. I don"t understand how people DON"T see other people, I don"t even really call it dating until its a committed thing, otherwise we"re hanging out or whatever. Yeah we"ll go out on a "date" but we aren"t "dating". How is this a odd concept for so many, me...the guy who knew absolutely...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Every woman I date knows I am seeing other women, knows as soon as something begins to have tones of getting serious that I"ll let them know. They all still talk to me, because they are playing the field the same as I am. Again, as long as everyone is on the same page it"s honestly the best...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    which is why I said should that occur then I"ll switch gears at that time. Until that happens, I"m just going out with women who are cool, whos company I enjoy and seeing if any of them are compatible for the long term...you cant do that in one or two dates and the whole dating world is to...