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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    No where in there in that description did it seem to me there was a positive or redeeming quality. Maybe it"s just me but I"d look elsewhere.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    This is pretty much what I was getting at but just more directly. And yeah Dabamf, things are pretty good....we"ve had our moments. Michele is an awesome girl, but she has a short temper at times but most women do...hell most people do at times so it"s not a big deal. We have a ton of fun...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Brad I"ve been there and I"ll give you the same advice that was given to me and that I didn"t believe until later. It sucks not being there to raise your kids every day. I have a son who will be 7 on the 23rd of this month, my daughter will be 4 in April. The guy my ex wife is with has been...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"ve noticed this as well, I backed off my updates after a choice few became douches about it.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    This. I work a ton and have no time to go out and meet people, OKCupid I found works pretty well, it was by pure chance I met the girl I"m with now. You don"t need a special place to meet women, the girl I"m with now cut my hair...women are everywhere we just fail to see opportunities most of...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    My girl has self esteem issues but they get less and less with me over time, At one point she wouldn"t change clothes with me in the same room, now she"ll hop in the shower with me and things are just fine now. She still has issues on how she see"s herself and how others see her but she"s aware...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Not all of us came out of this thread messed up or in denial.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    F you, my advice rocks.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Thanks, I"m pretty happy about it myself. My son is almost 7, my daughter is 3...turning 4 in April. I"ve wanted to take my time as far as introducing my kids to her, both for the sake of our relationship and for the sake of my kids. I want to be sure the relationship is going to be long term...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Whyme, anyone who wont support you in a decision like that is one of two things.....scared and thus the only thing they can do is distance themselves by running from it as fast as possible....or a selfish bitch. If it"s the first one, she"ll be back, she just needs time. If it"s the second...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    way to be observant, it"s only been here over a year.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Never tried it myself, no interest in it either. My g/f has expressed minor interest in trying it and seemed shocked that I wasn"t all to interested in the idea.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Meh, that never bothered me to much personally.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    No one matures that quickly in a week, something seems to be going on behind the scenes with her that we aren"t aware of, be it something she thought might be better didn"t pan out or something along those lines. I would need to know more about the situation before opinions, there isn"t...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I thought the language barrier was to much for you to handle? has that changed suddenly?
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    There are rare instances where if shes busy...she"s actually busy. When Michele and I first started talking she was busy as hell with work and just getting over being sick on top of it. At one point I didn"t hear from her for over a week. You always want to walk away with plans regardless, in...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    First off, shouldn"t have went through her shit, you don"t "get curious" and start going through personal things. That"s like saying "I wanted a piece of gum so I got some from your purse...then was curious as to what else was in there." Sounds like to me you didn"t trust her on some level...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    lol awesome
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    If I wasn"t at work I"d totally shop a "Women: They aren"t much different then Mick Tyson"s Punch Out" picture.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    except we"re both clean, as I"ve stated before. If you"re going to try and be witty at least make an effort.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    meh, we were both drunk outta our minds. It"s been taken care of, not an issue really. *shrugs* I don"t even think twice about it anymore.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Well good luck with however you do it, I"d just do it quick like a band-aid and be done with it. I kinda thought awhile ago when you were having problems with the language barrier that this was eventually going to happen. At least you"re not to hung up on everything where it"ll effect you overly...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Hey have you train wrecked yet/again? (see I can be a dick too even though I don"t enjoy it.) And actually, statistics show that most 3rd dates result in sex *shrugs* who am I to argue with statistics?
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I dunno Tenks, Michele and I didn"t kiss our first date, found out later it"s simply because she had an established rule of not doing so the first time out. It wasn"t really an issue. -shrugs- Movies...yeah fuck them. I"ve yet to take Michele out to one...there"s simply so many other things...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Simas, move on, you handled yourself well, but at this point you were not her first choice, she chose someone else over you, fuck her. Also, yeah, you were friends zoned, move on. She sounds retarded anyways.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    All my levels are right where they should be actually. I"m active, I run, play sports and eat healthy, I only drink water... I"ve just always been a bigger guy. -shrugs-
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    I"m a fatty and I"m happy, what up.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Grats Brekk and happy birthday to ya.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Anyways, I"ll interject with a bit of good news. Today is exactly one month since Michele and I went out on our first date, we"ve decide that"s pretty much when we started seeing each other since we were both exclusive from that point on even though nothing was labeled till a few weeks later...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Am I the only one who notice Brad had his chick move in with him? How did this even come about Brad? did you just say "driving sucks, move in..." or what?
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Taking to long can be a killer for sure. I can take a bit sometimes but my problem is once I get off, a second time impossible and then she starts blaming herself no matter how much I try to explain after that a second time for me just has never been in the cards.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Funny you mention that as Seinfeld is their favorite TV show of all time and we even played the "Scene It" DVD game of it while over there.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Maybe, but it"s better then them fucking hating me, at least with this there are options and gatherings aren"t uncomfortable. I"ve been on both sides, I"d rather be on this one.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    ....and just found out her parents fucking love me. Score.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    Dinner at Michele"s family went down yesterday met her whole family, seemed to go well. Her sister and b/f and Michele and I are making plans to double date within the next week or so, I had to have made a good impression because they all asked me for Christmas gift ideas for Blackfriday...
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    that"s because HPV is the cool STD
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    We"ve both been recently tested yes, and yes now we"re gonna go with condoms. And we"ve known each other a few months, wasn"t a "we just met" type of thing.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    That"s true too, I"d just rather not press my luck at the moment to find out if I happened across another .1% woman or not.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    rofl Gryeyes And pretty much what Aulirophile said. I could watch that shit get taken every day and I"d still be paranoid. Like I said, BOTH of my kids came about while my ex was on it so I"m just a bit leary. I"m sure that"ll pass and I"ll say "yeah fuck this" after a few times of being wrapped.
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    Girls who broke your heart thread

    We just started doing shit, I"ll give it a bit before I say anything, not going to make a big deal of it. Not sure where the "double bag" is coming in, I"m only sporting one condom. I"ll give it a few and see what happens, not gonna make an issue of it for the time being.