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Also I laugh when people say they aren"t the jealous type. Everyone is the jealous type, some people just have better self control then others.

LoL if it"s an issue then hit it/quit it and move on to something more promising. You said you want something long term, issues with a person before you are even with a person usually means it"s probably not a good idea, double so for issues that cant be changed like age.

That was kind of my thought too and I"m not afraid of rejection anymore, which I"ve found is the until confidence booster...if rejection doesn"t bother you, what"s there to be scared about? I am nervous however of making things weird if she by chance isn"t interested. As far as the younger...

K, well my options keep getting further and further opened, I have one serious option with two or three lesser minor options...(as far as women I"d actually at this point want to pursue) until possibly today. Enter 4th option with the potential to be a second serious option. I mentioned...

Just keep in mind it"s her loss and keep on movin forward.

This. Stop being a dick, it"s her place too and it"s not unreasonable for her to want to go to sleep without you in the room hindering that while on the computer. Compromise with her and move it out to the living room. It"s not hard.

Rofl...don"t let that part slip if she accepts. And I dunno I could be wrong, it happens pretty often...I"m new to a lot of this shit too after all but I think you did well. You can"t do shit perfectly right off the bat and you"re pretty much starting out after a pretty big life reset as...

If her boss was there, accepting a date invite at the office in front of them isn"t always a great idea. Also if someone popped last minute plans on me like that too I"d have to take a bit to make sure I didn"t have other shit going on that I already planned and was forgetting about. But then...

You made a move, were firm and confident and did very well. (if it happened just as you said it) You did nothing wrong there as far as I can see and everything right. Bravo Brad.

Perhaps... Why is moving the computer into the living room not an option?

how about just getting the fuck out of there?

Thank God...That shit pisses me off even thinking about it, up north it"s all they fucking play. So the park and rec leagues, again, where do I go, is there a website? Again, I"m totally fucking lost down here, never been in this situation before with the new area and not knowing a single...

Broomball could be fun, I can"t skate anymore, my ankles wont allow it....never tried curling. Okay so there are winter leagues for things, how and where do I go about researching them and getting into them? I"m pretty new to the being in a big city stuff, I"m pretty lost when it comes to...

With winter approaching that"s not an option anymore, though I did think of that and come spring I"ll be all over that shit for sure. Any other ideas?

I like it well enough, having a hard time meeting new people other then the few chicks I"ve met so that"s kinda bothersome but it"s a huge improvement over living up north on the Iron Range that"s for sure.

This girl is semi conservative, she"s only slept with two people. I mean we made out and shit during the movie, but if you"re referring to sexual stuff, that wont be happening for awhile. moves are made, but until a major one is made more towards the bedroom I don"t really consider it worth...

St. Louis Park to be specific, as far as I know, just one high school.

LoL I"ll say it again...it"s weird. I didn"t sit here making a pros/con"s list and possible outcomes of every thing involving her, her school, my ex and the odds of them knowing each other and what would happen if they both drank red kool-aid on the 3rd Sunday of a month under a full moon while...

like I said, I don"t bring up ex"s in conversations with women so it wont get brought up.

She"s in the burbs, only one high school there..high school at least...in her town, I know this from Recent-Ex telling me, if you want to go to other schools here outside your district it"s fairly expensive. I mean there is a small chance of her going elsewhere, but not to high. On an...

no, I know they went to school together because she told me shes lived in her town all her life and there is only a year age difference between her and Recent-Ex. I don"t talk about ex"s with women I"m dating unless I"m in an actual relationship with them and they request the information.

Man honestly..the Great Clips girl....I would have thought was way out of my league, if I could seal that deal...fuck. I shot her a text this afternoon, It"s looking like we"re meeting up on Saturday....but shit got weird. She lives near Recent-Ex...they went to school together. I live in...

I"ve no problem with dating around as long as everyone is on the same page, I"ve had my heart broken, I"ve no interest in doing that to someone else. I have a hard time cutting off ties with anyone regardless of what happened...well within reason. Even Recent-Ex I still talk to, am kind of...

So Sunday I was in a rush to get over to a female friends place before I had dinner with Nodrama-Ex. female friend was sick so I stopped off at Olive Garden and picked up some of her favorite soup to take over to her and on the way I had to stop and get what little hair I have left cut. So I...

I guess comparing may have been a poor choice of words, just when something happens it"s more of a "well that"s different from what I was used to" type of thing, I dunno it"s hard to explain. I"m fine with it in all because like I said, everything else has faded, I figured this would just be the...

K so I"m running into a few problems. I"m comparing girls to Recent-ex and finding flaws I wish weren"t there when I compare them...even with Nodrama-ex, who by all accounts is pretty great...she"s got the "I need to please my guy" mentality which is pretty fucking sweet really as long as it...

Eomer, I"ll be the first one to admit I used to be a needy bitch, I have experience with it, I lived it for a long time, the way we give our women in this thread fakes names, if women had their own thats just what my name would have been "needy bitch" You came off as a needy guy who was...

LoL she knew going into the evening I couldn"t stay out late due to having to go home to finish up some work before I went in today, it"s one reason we met up early. It wasn"t a game I was trying to play so much as me wanting to keep my job when I go in this morning. Like I said, she knew...

Alright so did an early dinner this afternoon/evening with Nodrama ex. It went well, she got out of her study early so I picked her up and we went out for some food, talked some things over, it was pretty productive. I told her I had things to do (I didn"t really, other then a bit of work for...

I wouldn"t say creeped out (close...but not quite there for me) but I would say you did some pretty bad shit in those few texts. You came off as needy....WAY to needy. There"s confidence, and there"s obsession. You"re not the first and you come off flirting with the second. Let it go and move...

Yeah it sounds like a case of going out with a guy she seemed to like to see what was better out there then the guy she was with...and don"t take offense to it, but at the moment you didn"t strike her as that guy. just leave her alone, she knows your interested, don"t come off as needy and try...

Non drama ex texted me this morning complaining how the hospital food sucks for where she"s having her sleep study done, I took that as an opening to dinner tonight when she gets done with it. She accepted the invite, said it sounded wonderful and was looking forward to some real food...

Well I had my kids this weekend, they live a good distance away and I hadn"t seen them in a few months she called and we talked for a few minutes I told her I couldn"t talk long due to wanting to spend time with them and not on the phone. She just hit me with it, "Look, I know I made some...

Meh, had there been any circumstances behind it other then me bring up to her that maybe wasn"t a good time for either of us to be dating, (or at least it wasn"t for me) I might be inclined to agree. I"ll still be seeing the other ones I"ve been going out with, I"m not dropping anyone for anyone...

So another of my ex"s came into the picture recently. This one and I broke up for no other reason then we had no time for relationships. Seriously was no bad drama or anything we both just came to the decision that a relationship wasn"t best for either of us at the time. We both liked each other...

I"ll third what Dabamf said as well. The past is just that, if you can"t move on from it you"re only fucking yourself over and possibly a good thing with someone else. Get over it, move on, if it happens again, learn what you can from it and rinse/repeat. Soooooo yeah anyways. My ex told...

Yeah I know, that"s why I threw in the edit, I started writing that post then was interrupted by customers while at work, then finished it while you guys had already replied. Sounds like shit went well though, that"s awesome.

Yeah texting while out on a first date is pretty unacceptable in my eyes too and wouldn"t be acceptable until much, MUCH later and even then, only a quick one here and there in cases where it may be needed. If a girl is out with me...she"s out with ME, not me and someone on her phone as well...

I noted it because to me, it felt odd, not because I was like "oh noz Im falling for you againz" yeah like I said, I have lingering feelings for her, but I do for my ex wife too...doesn"t mean I would grab her from the path of a speeding car. -shrugs- and yes, my washer and dryer is indeed...

True enough, I see your point on the first part, I still see it as the situation was still to shitty to get into and she moved on, which I don"t blame her for ultimately, I would have too, I was a pretty big douche for awhile...but I do see what you mean. However she was already seeing the other...